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<\/p>\nQuando penso nas coisas em retrospetiva, vejo-me como uma rapariga ing\u00e9nua que simplesmente n\u00e3o sabia o que lhe estava a acontecer.<\/p>\n
Quero voltar a esse tempo e dar-me um abra\u00e7o. Quero proteger aquela rapariga da dor que a espera.<\/p>\n
When I met you, I remember thinking you were the most perfect man I\u2019d ever met. Your timing was perfect and I was in awe of everything you did.<\/p>\n
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My fantasy about a man who would take me by the hand and love me for a lifetime was coming true. I couldn\u2019t get enough of you – the way you talked, walked, and called me yours\u2026 I was so in love with you.<\/p>\n
I was so in love with you that I didn\u2019t even notice when I started to make myself smaller to please you.Things started to go downhill slowly but surely and I failed to notice.<\/p>\n
Come\u00e7aste a tomar o meu amor como garantido. Usaste o meu amor como desculpa para fazeres o que te apetecia.<\/p>\n
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Quando comecei a perceber que me estavas a usar, j\u00e1 estava a negligenciar-me e a perder a autoestima. Fizeste-me pensar que eu era menos do que tu. Fizeste-me pensar que sem ti eu n\u00e3o valia nada.<\/p>\n
Tornei-me prisioneira do meu amor. Pelo menos o que eu pensava ser amor. Agora, olhando para tr\u00e1s, percebo que era medo.<\/p>\n
O medo de n\u00e3o me defender. O medo de nada ser suficientemente bom. O medo de me perder.<\/p>\n
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Eu amava-te tanto que depositei todo o meu valor em ti. Acreditei em ti quando disseste todas aquelas coisas. Acreditei mesmo que sabias mais sobre mim do que eu pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n
Tra\u00ed-me pelo homem que julgava conhecer, um homem que julgava precisar. Parti o meu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o ao amar-te, ao tentar compreender-te e ao dar-te uma segunda oportunidade.<\/p>\n
I broke my heart when I started to believe that you were more valuable than me. You made me believe I couldn\u2019t make it on my own. You made me believe I needed you to feel like I was worthy.<\/p>\n
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De uma mulher feliz, passei a ser uma mulher de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido. Tornei-me t\u00e3o vazia por dentro. Senti-me t\u00e3o aprisionada pelos meus pr\u00f3prios sentimentos e tu sempre fizeste quest\u00e3o de tornar tudo ainda pior.<\/p>\n
Com a sua falta de cuidado, minimizando os meus sentimentos e ignorando as minhas necessidades, estava a infligir-me dor.<\/p>\n
You didn\u2019t care for me, you only cared for yourself. You felt safe when you were controlling me.<\/p>\n
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Quando percebi que a minha mis\u00e9ria era causada pelo teu ego\u00edsmo e n\u00e3o pela minha insufici\u00eancia, tive finalmente a for\u00e7a para seguir em frente. Demorei algum tempo, mas tornei-me suficientemente forte para te deixar para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n
Era t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil acreditar que eras a pessoa que mais me magoava. O meu c\u00e9rebro e o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o recusavam-se a aceitar isso.<\/p>\n
Agora quero que o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o volte a ser o que era. Quero-o inteiro e saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n
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I refuse to let my heart suffer for someone who didn\u2019t even love me, for someone who didn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t care about your apologies and I don\u2019t care about your feelings. It\u2019s too late. You had your chance and you blew it.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m starting things afresh. I\u2019m taking care of myself and my heart. I made a promise to myself that my heart is the most precious thing I have and I\u2019m not going to give it away unless someone truly deserves it.<\/p>\n
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I\u2019m not going to fall for anyone who doesn\u2019t prove himself to be worthy of my love, someone who treats me like I don\u2019t have a mind of my own.<\/p>\n
I want someone who will fight for my love and care for me like I\u2019m the last girl on earth.<\/p>\n
Quero algu\u00e9m que reconhe\u00e7a e reconhe\u00e7a os meus sentimentos sem me fazer sentir louca.<\/p>\n
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Finalmente, quero algu\u00e9m que me fa\u00e7a sentir segura para amar plenamente sem me preocupar se o meu amor ser\u00e1 retribu\u00eddo.<\/p>\n
Until then I will love myself and I will heal myself, knowing I deserve to be loved as I am and I don\u2019t need a man to prove that.<\/p>\n
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