{"id":63241,"date":"2020-04-16T07:18:44","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T07:18:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63241"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:03:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:03:36","slug":"nao-escolhi-apaixonar-me-mas-escolhi-deixar-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-escolhi-apaixonar-me-mas-escolhi-deixar-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu n\u00e3o escolhi apaixonar-me por ti, mas agora escolho deixar-te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando nos conhecemos, apaixonei-me instantaneamente. Era algo que eu n\u00e3o podia controlar. <\/strong><\/p>\n

O cora\u00e7\u00e3o fez o que tinha a fazer e eu fiquei desamparado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

While being in love, I felt so high and I couldn\u2019t even imagine the inevitable fall would be so brutal. But it was.<\/p>\n

Os que amam loucamente parecem magoar-se muito. <\/strong>I can\u2019t believe I didn\u2019t see it coming.<\/p>\n

Foram precisas tantas bofetadas do universo para que eu finalmente visse: He doesn\u2019t love me, he\u2019s using me.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele quase nunca tem tempo para mim, tudo o resto \u00e9 mais importante. <\/em><\/p>\n

He treats me like my opinions don\u2019t matter, like I\u2019m a child, and every time I confront him, he tells me I\u2019m overreacting.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ele brinca com a minha cabe\u00e7a e faz-me sentir louca, enquanto arranja sempre uma desculpa para si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Every time I try to express my feelings, he\u2019s there to tell me I\u2019m making things up. <\/em>That\u2019s why I choose to leave you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Escolho deixar-te porque me sinto desconfort\u00e1vel em ser eu mesma ao teu lado. Escolho deixar-te porque agora conhe\u00e7o o meu valor pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Escolhi deixar-te porque sei que h\u00e1 coisas melhores \u00e0 minha espera.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m leaving you because I don\u2019t want to become what you think of me. I want to be myself.<\/p>\n

I want to live free of your judgment. I deserve to be loved as I am, not as you want me to be. I\u2019m enough on my own.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

From now on, I\u2019m taking care of myself. I\u2019m embracing everything I once didn\u2019t like about myself. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I accept my body and, most importantly, I accept my whole personality \u2013 my good sides as well as my flaws. <\/strong><\/p>\n

All of those things make me who I am. I don\u2019t care what you think of me anymore; I escaped your love spell.<\/p>\n

Pode doer no processo, mas vou esquecer-te completamente. O tempo ser\u00e1 o meu curador e eu serei o meu pr\u00f3prio professor.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll teach myself to set boundaries higher, to do things I always said I couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I will silence the voices that tell me I\u2019m not good enough. I will remove you from my heart and brain.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m strong enough to let go of everything that\u2019s blocking my growth. If you don\u2019t love me for who I am, I don\u2019t need you in my life.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no point in clinging onto someone who makes you feel miserable.<\/p>\n

Eu mere\u00e7o mais do que um amor fraco e falta de confian\u00e7a, brigas constantes e n\u00e3o me sentir segura. Eu mere\u00e7o mais do que um homem-crian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

My worth won\u2019t be defined on any terms other than my own. From now on, I\u2019m aware of my value and I\u2019m not dropping it for anyone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Um homem \u00e9 suficiente para te ensinar a ter cuidado com o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Um homem \u00e9 suficiente para te tornar cautelosa para sempre.<\/p>\n

You were a steep learning curve for me, but now I\u2019m done with you and any man alike forever.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m finally ready to leave you and everything about this relationship behind.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019m ready to learn from the mistakes I made and let things go.<\/p>\n

De agora em diante, aprender com os meus erros \u00e9 a \u00fanica regra que tenho para mim, tudo o resto \u00e9 livre para experimentar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You showed me that I\u2019m denying myself happiness by listening to other people and following their rules. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Now that\u2019s finally over.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not afraid to be myself completely. I\u2019m not ashamed of my flaws and that makes me strong.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Instead, I\u2019m learning to appreciate my flaws and thank them for making me different from everyone else.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not here to be loved for something I\u2019m not; that\u2019s not how I want to live my life.<\/p>\n

In a way, you were the worst and best thing that happened to me because now I know what I don\u2019t want in life. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Now I know I don\u2019t need anyone to make me feel complete.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Only I can make myself complete and that\u2019s exactly what I\u2019m doing by leaving you.<\/p>\n

\"Eu<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When we first met, I fell in love instantly. That\u2019s something I couldn\u2019t possibly control. The heart did its thing and I was helpless. While being in love, I felt so high and I couldn\u2019t even imagine the inevitable fall would be so brutal. But it was. The ones who love madly apparently hurt themselves…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":63243,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Didnt-Choose-To-Fall-In-Love-With-You-But-Now-I-Choose-To-Leave-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=63241"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63241\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/63243"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=63241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=63241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=63241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}