{"id":63258,"date":"2020-04-16T07:50:35","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T07:50:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63258"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:02:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:02:17","slug":"certas-coisas-correm-mal-para-que-coisas-melhores-possam-correr-bem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/certas-coisas-correm-mal-para-que-coisas-melhores-possam-correr-bem\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 preciso que certas coisas corram mal para que outras melhores possam correr bem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sempre que algo que n\u00e3o desejamos acontece na nossa vida, vemo-lo como a pior coisa do mundo.<\/p>\n<p>You see it as failure and misery. After all, you\u2019ve always tried to be a good person.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve played by the rules and done your best not to hurt anyone along the way.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63263 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-at-green-grass.jpg\" alt=\"casal na relva verde\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-at-green-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-at-green-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-at-green-grass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que tem de enfrentar exatamente todas estas dificuldades?<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t there a thing called karma that should repay you for all of your good deeds?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like this with everything bad you experience in life.<\/p>\n<p>You feel as if everything is pointless when a guy you cared for dumps you, when you lose a friend you trusted, or when you don\u2019t get that promotion you worked so hard for.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63264 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-lights.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar luzes\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-lights.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-lights-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-lights-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t help but get the impression that life is simply unfair.<\/p>\n<p>Bad things happen to good people and vice versa and you don\u2019t have the power required to fight it.<\/p>\n<p>After all, who could blame you for feeling like this? In fact, it\u2019s perfectly natural for you to be shaken by the world\u2019s injustice.<\/p>\n<p>However, I\u2019m here to ask you to reconsider your point of view.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63266 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-brown-grass-field.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher de p\u00e9 num campo de relva castanha\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-brown-grass-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-brown-grass-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-brown-grass-field-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m here to beg you to look at the bigger picture and bear in mind that everything happens <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/talvez-deus-tenha-afastado-o-teu-coracao-dele-por-alguma-razao\/\">por uma raz\u00e3o.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, <strong>certas coisas t\u00eam de correr mal para que coisas melhores possam correr bem.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A man who doesn\u2019t deserve you has to walk away from you in order to clear the way for the right one.<\/p>\n<p>He has to show you what you don\u2019t want and need so you are able to recognize true love when you see it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63267 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-cheek.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar a bochecha\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-cheek.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-cheek-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-cheek-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Maybe you didn\u2019t get that job you applied for because your dream career is waiting for you.<\/p>\n<p>Ou teria acabado por ser apenas uma distra\u00e7\u00e3o de algo maior?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s possible that your best friend stabbed you in the back because it was the only way for you to see her true colors.<\/p>\n<p>The only way for you to finally kick her out of your life and to realize that you shouldn\u2019t trust everybody.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63268 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-near-grass-field.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher perto de um campo de relva\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-near-grass-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-near-grass-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-near-grass-field-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, \u00e9 preciso atravessar a escurid\u00e3o para ver as verdadeiras cores das estrelas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Temos de perder algo indigno de n\u00f3s para podermos obter coisas muito mais valiosas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, tudo isto proporciona um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-eras-a-minha-alma-gemea-eras-apenas-a-minha-licao\/\">li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e uma nova experi\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p>Every storm you go through is there to prepare you for the sunshine that\u2019s about to come.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63269 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-woman-4.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-woman-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-woman-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-woman-4-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cada desafio \u00e9 uma oportunidade para sermos melhores e cada batalha uma oportunidade para nos tornarmos mais fortes.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s there to build you into a mature, self-sufficient woman. There to show you that you can make it without anyone\u2019s help.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s there to test your faith. To help you believe and always hope for the best, even when everything looks hopeless.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So the next time you think that you\u2019ve had it rough, remember that every curse can actually be a blessing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63270 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-off-shoulder-top.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com top vermelho sem ombros\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-off-shoulder-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-off-shoulder-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-off-shoulder-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s simply up to you how you perceive it. <\/strong><strong>Por vezes, as coisas que vemos como as piores acabam por ser as melhores. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u00f3 temos de ser suficientemente pacientes para deixar que o tempo fa\u00e7a a sua magia e nos fa\u00e7a ver tudo por n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Prometo-vos uma coisa: cada l\u00e1grima que chorarem ser\u00e1 recompensada com toneladas de sorrisos.<\/p>\n<p>Sadness will be replaced with so much happiness you can\u2019t even imagine it. You just have to be ready for it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63271 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-near-wooden-door-in-yellow-tank-top.jpg\" alt=\"mulher perto de uma porta de madeira com uma camisola de al\u00e7as amarela\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-near-wooden-door-in-yellow-tank-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-near-wooden-door-in-yellow-tank-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-near-wooden-door-in-yellow-tank-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/tempo-certo-errado\/\">o momento tem de ser o correto<\/a> e tudo se vai encaixar. <strong>Mais cedo ou mais tarde, come\u00e7ar\u00e3o a acontecer coisas boas. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Once they do, you\u2019ll finally understand my words &#8211; that you probably don\u2019t believe right now.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you get everything you deserve, you\u2019ll understand that this was the only way to acquire happiness.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll realize why you had to go through all of your hardships and why you had to experience so much pain.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63272 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-near-tall-grass.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 perto de erva alta\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-near-tall-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-near-tall-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-near-tall-grass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Finally, you\u2019ll perceive that your entire life was actually a sequence of events that were meant to bring you exactly to the point you are at now.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll figure out that all the bad things you went through happened for a reason.<\/p>\n<p>Assim, num instante, tudo far\u00e1 todo o sentido.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63273 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9 preciso que certas coisas corram mal para que outras melhores possam correr bem\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whenever something you didn\u2019t wish for happens in your life, you see it as the worst thing in the world. You see it as failure and misery. After all, you\u2019ve always tried to be a good person. You\u2019ve played by the rules and done your best not to hurt anyone along the way. So, why&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":63262,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29616],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63258","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29616,"label":"spirituality"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29616,"name":"spirituality","slug":"spirituality","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29616,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","parent":38,"count":147,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29616,"category_count":147,"category_description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","cat_name":"spirituality","category_nicename":"spirituality","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63258","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=63258"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63258\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/63262"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=63258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=63258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=63258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}