{"id":63259,"date":"2020-04-22T13:01:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T13:01:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63259"},"modified":"2022-07-15T09:14:23","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:14:23","slug":"como-lidar-com-o-desgosto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-lidar-com-o-desgosto\/","title":{"rendered":"Como lidar com o desgosto de amor: 15 maneiras comprovadas de curar a dor no cora\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;ve read about it, seen it in movies, heard about it in all those songs and your friends have gone through it.<\/p>\n<p>However, this time, it&#8217;s happening to you\u2014your heart is broken!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s even worse than you imagined! The emotional pain has been unbearable, you&#8217;ve been experiencing some feelings you didn&#8217;t even know you had and you&#8217;ve been wondering if this is the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/o-fim-da-sua-relacao-nao-e-o-fim-da-sua-vida\/\">fim da vida<\/a> que conheceste at\u00e9 agora.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63278 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-hands-on-her-face.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com as m\u00e3os no rosto enquanto chora\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-hands-on-her-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-hands-on-her-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-hands-on-her-face-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No entanto, agora que o choque inicial j\u00e1 passou, \u00e9 preciso come\u00e7ar a descobrir como lidar com <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ultrapassar-o-desgosto\/\">desgosto<\/a> da forma mais saud\u00e1vel poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>This is probably happening to you for the first time\u2014you&#8217;re completely clueless and you don&#8217;t know what to do, where to start or what to expect.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that&#8217;s why we&#8217;re here to assist you and to give you the answer to the question: \u2018How to deal with heartbreak?\u2019 Just follow the tips below and you&#8217;ll be cured in no time!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>15 dicas profissionais para lidar com um desgosto de amor<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. Estar consciente da realidade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63279 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de vestido branco apoiada nos joelhos\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Para a maioria das pessoas, uma das primeiras <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fases-da-rutura\/\">fases p\u00f3s-separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> do luto \u00e9 a nega\u00e7\u00e3o. A dor de perder algu\u00e9m de quem se gosta tanto (mesmo que seja um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/namorador-em-serie\/\">namorador em s\u00e9rie<\/a>) is extremely deep, so it\u2019s your body and mind\u2019s natural reaction to act like nothing is actually going on.<\/p>\n<p>Embora esta pare\u00e7a ser uma abordagem mais f\u00e1cil no in\u00edcio, a longo prazo, pode trazer-lhe muitos problemas. Por isso, se quiser acelerar o seu processo de cura, fa\u00e7a o seu melhor para saltar esta fase.<\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s difficult but sooner or later, you\u2019ll have to face the harsh truth\u2014whatever caused your heartbreak happened and it\u2019s time for you to accept it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63280 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-curly-hair.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com cabelo encaracolado parada numa estrada de asfalto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-curly-hair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-curly-hair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-curly-hair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter whether we\u2019re talking about a break-up, a divorce or something else, be aware that this is the end and the final goodbye.<\/p>\n<p>Stop expecting your ex partner to come back to you and stop making future plans which include them, as this way, you\u2019re only deceiving yourself and prolonging your suffering.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, the hardest truth is always better than the best lie. After all, once you accept the reality, at least you\u2019ll know where you stand and you\u2019ll be able to start over from scratch.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, by lying to yourself, you\u2019re just walking in circles and you\u2019re not allowing yourself to move past this dead spot you got stuck in. It\u2019s your choice!<\/p>\n<h2>2. Don\u2019t repress your emotions<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63283 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-her-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a tocar nos olhos com a m\u00e3o direita\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-her-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-her-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-her-eyes-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Outra coisa que, infelizmente, muitas pessoas tendem a fazer quando ficam com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, na esperan\u00e7a de que isso as ajude, \u00e9 tentar fechar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you that doing something like this won\u2019t make your pain magically go away and it will actually only make it greater.<\/p>\n<p>No, pretending that you\u2019re not hurt and burying your feelings deep in your heart won\u2019t erase all the negativity.<\/p>\n<p>At first glance, people will think that you\u2019re better and that you\u2019ve managed to successfully <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/135-citacoes-inspiradoras-para-ajudar-a-curar-o-seu-coracao-partido\/\">repara o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a>. However, the truth is that you\u2019ll just have made things worse than they have to be.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63287 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/crying-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a chorar a segurar o peito com a m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/crying-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/crying-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/crying-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Yes, you might cry a little bit less but those tears you\u2019re holding back will pile up inside of you until they explode like a volcano.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, the same way you have to accept the truth, you also have to face your pain, if you\u2019re looking to have any progress whatsoever.<\/p>\n<p>After all, if you want to defeat an enemy, you can\u2019t hide from them\u2014you have to look them straight in the eye and fight them with everything you\u2019ve got.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014doing this is for your own good. Otherwise, years from now, you\u2019ll catch yourself still feeling the consequences of your deeply rooted traumas and the worst part will be that you won\u2019t even know where they\u2019re coming from.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Give yourself time to grieve\u2026<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63289 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-floral-dress.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com vestido floral segurando flores cor-de-rosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-floral-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-floral-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-floral-dress-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now that you\u2019ve prepared yourself mentally and emotionally for this <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/6-fases-de-cura-depois-de-escapar-a-um-abuso-emocional\/\">processo de cura<\/a>, it\u2019s time to actually start it. The first step is to let yourself suffer and give yourself time to grieve.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll be honest with you\u2014you won\u2019t be cured overnight, so do things one day at a time. Something like this lasts a while and it requires a lot of patience, energy, time, effort and your willingness to get better.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, nestas fases iniciais do luto p\u00f3s-separa\u00e7\u00e3o, fa\u00e7a tudo o que agradar ao seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/p>\n<p>Cry when you feel like crying, scream if you think it will make you feel better, listen to sad songs, eat a ton of ice cream, spend a few days in your pajamas without talking to anyone, watch all those cheesy romantic comedies, read love novels\u2026<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63293 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-short-hair.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com cabelo curto a comer um gelado\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-short-hair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-short-hair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-short-hair-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you can allow this phrase to become your permanent state and to turn to depression.<\/p>\n<p>The best way to prevent something like that from happening is to give yourself a deadline\u2014a date until which you have the right to act this way and the day after, you\u2019ll start putting the broken pieces of your shattered heart back together.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that we all have a different grieving pace but that doesn\u2019t mean that yours won\u2019t come to an end.<\/p>\n<p>After all, who knows you better than yourself? You\u2019re the one who can predict the amount of time you\u2019ll need to release the pain and to be ready for new victories, therefore, this deadline is fully up to you.<\/p>\n<h2>4. \u2026 but don\u2019t wallow in self-pity<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63294 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-praying.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a rezar de olhos fechados\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-praying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-praying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-praying-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>However, even when you\u2019re at your lowest, please don\u2019t feel sorry for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, you\u2019re not weak for feeling this way; there doesn\u2019t exist a person in this world who hasn\u2019t had a similar experience and whoever tells you differently is lying. This is all a part of life and a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ele-era-apenas-a-tua-licao\/\">grande li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> para o seu futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, this is not the end of the world\u2014it\u2019s just a chance for a new beginning. Your life and heart will go on sooner or later, so please don\u2019t see this as your spiritual death.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, being heartbroken and breaking up with someone you love will probably leave consequences on you. Nevertheless, I can promise you one thing\u2014you will survive.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63296 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-against-wall-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher encostada \u00e0 parede virada para baixo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-against-wall-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-against-wall-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-against-wall-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Voltar\u00e1 a aprender a respirar, voltar\u00e1 a sorrir e voltar\u00e1 a apreciar as pequenas coisas da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Even though I\u2019m not trying to minimize your emotional pain (because I&#8217;m well aware of how much it hurts when a relationship ends), remember that a heartache is not the reason for your pessimism.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re alive and healthy, you\u2019re in no physical pain and you\u2019re reading this, which means that you belong to the more privileged part of the world. I bet you\u2019re surrounded by a bunch of people who love you, therefore you have more than one reason to be happy.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que ainda tem a necessidade de<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/chafurdar-na-auto-comiseracao\/\"> chafurdar na auto-piedade<\/a>?<\/p>\n<h2>5. Tentar obter uma conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63297 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/two-women-sitting-on-vehicles-roof.jpg\" alt=\"duas mulheres sentadas no tejadilho do ve\u00edculo perto do lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/two-women-sitting-on-vehicles-roof.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/two-women-sitting-on-vehicles-roof-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/two-women-sitting-on-vehicles-roof-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Toda a gente diz que a melhor maneira de lidar com o desgosto de amor \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/fechar-a-questao-o-ex-recusa-se-a-falar\/\">encerrar o assunto<\/a> from your ex partner. Let\u2019s be real\u2014who wouldn\u2019t want that?<\/p>\n<p>Who wouldn\u2019t like having all their questions answered and dilemmas sorted out? Knowing where things went wrong and how the other person feels right now?<\/p>\n<p>Se acha que precisa de uma conversa final para seguir em frente, v\u00e1 em frente. Telefone ou envie uma mensagem de texto ao seu ex-companheiro e diga-lhe que precisa dessa conversa final.<\/p>\n<p>However, don\u2019t use this as an excuse to try and get back together with them. Remember why you are there, sort everything out and leave it in the past, where it belongs, without licking your wounds any longer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63300 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-walking-on-the-snow.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a caminhar na neve durante o dia\" width=\"800\" height=\"528\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-walking-on-the-snow.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-walking-on-the-snow-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-walking-on-the-snow-768x507.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, be prepared for the possibility that your ex won\u2019t give you the closure you\u2019re looking for. Maybe they don\u2019t want any contact or simply don\u2019t have the answers you hope to get.<\/p>\n<p>In this scenario, you have to find a way to get your own ending. I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-assim-que-se-sente-quando-se-tenta-seguir-em-frente-sem-uma-conclusao\/\">seguir em frente sem conclus\u00e3o<\/a> is a little bit harder but it doesn\u2019t mean that it can\u2019t be done.<\/p>\n<p>Just accept that everything happened for a deeper cause. It\u2019s enough for you to know that the two of you are not meant to be, that better things await you and this relationship will soon be just a distant memory.<\/p>\n<p>Pare de pensar em tudo o que poderia ter sido e deveria ter sido. Em vez de desperdi\u00e7ar a sua preciosa energia a procurar as raz\u00f5es para a sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o e desgosto, invista todo o seu poder em sentir-se melhor.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Encontrar a for\u00e7a para perdoar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63305 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-bob-haircut.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com corte de cabelo bob em p\u00e9 ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-bob-haircut.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-bob-haircut-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-bob-haircut-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When your relationship ends and when someone causes you this much emotional pain, it\u2019s natural that at first you feel this overwhelming anger.<\/p>\n<p>O seu primeiro impulso \u00e9 a vingan\u00e7a; quer dar ao seu ex-companheiro o gosto do seu pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio, quer que ele se sinta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/mente-interior-rapariga-com-o-coracao-partido\/\">de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a> tamb\u00e9m e queres vingar-te.<\/p>\n<p>Even though I\u2019m not here to judge you for this, since it\u2019s a completely normal reaction to the trauma you\u2019ve lived through, please think things through. What would you actually achieve by getting your sweet revenge?<\/p>\n<p>Saber que a outra pessoa est\u00e1 magoada reduziria a sua dor? Cur\u00e1-lo-ia por magia?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63308 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-top.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisola castanha de mangas compridas junto a uma parede\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You might feel a little bit better at the start but later on, you\u2019ll see that they actually won\u2014they made you become the same as them and they filled your soul with bitterness and negative thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, the best thing you can do here is find the strength to forgive your former partner who broke your heart. No, you shouldn\u2019t be doing so for their sake, since that\u2019s probably the last thing they deserve; do it for your own good.<\/p>\n<p>Por favor, seja a pessoa mais importante e aceite as desculpas que nunca recebeu. Liberte os pensamentos e as emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas e fa\u00e7a algo de bom para a sua sa\u00fade mental.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014it\u2019s the only way to liberate yourself from resentment. After all, that\u2019s the difference between being consumed with love or hatred toward this person; they\u2019re still on your mind.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Manter-se afastado do abuso de subst\u00e2ncias<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63315 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-bed-with-beer-in-her-hand.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada na cama com uma cerveja na m\u00e3o enquanto olha para uma fotografia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-bed-with-beer-in-her-hand.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-bed-with-beer-in-her-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-bed-with-beer-in-her-hand-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When wondering how to deal with heartbreak, many people find refuge in different substances, such as drugs, painkillers or alcohol. If this is something you have in mind, please know that it won\u2019t get you anywhere.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you want to get wasted because you probably see it as the only way to forget about everything you\u2019re going through. In a situation like this, you\u2019re choosing a way to numb your pain and thoughts but this is not the path to choose.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you can drink or get high for days but you\u2019ll have to sober up sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63325 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-smoking-cigarette.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a fumar um cigarro enquanto se apoia numa \u00e1rvore\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-smoking-cigarette.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-smoking-cigarette-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-smoking-cigarette-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When that happens, all of your troubles will be there, patiently waiting for you to solve them; they won\u2019t have magically vanished just because you spent some time oblivious and in the dark.<\/p>\n<p>Have in mind that substance abuse won\u2019t resolve your problems\u2014it will only cause you some bigger ones.<\/p>\n<p>Before you know it, you\u2019ll find yourself trying to get rid of your addiction while still in the process of overcoming your heartbreak, which can be a fatal combination.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, is your former partner really worth you destroying your life over them? They\u2019re probably somewhere enjoying themselves while you\u2019re putting everything you have at stake because of them.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Ser fisicamente ativo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63329 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/running-woman-under-tree-.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a correr debaixo de uma \u00e1rvore durante o dia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/running-woman-under-tree-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/running-woman-under-tree--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/running-woman-under-tree--768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another way to let go of all these negative emotions, thoughts and energy you\u2019ve got piled up inside and to redirect them somewhere else is to be physically active.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s actually pretty simple; if you want to give your mind and heart some rest, tire your body out as much as possible.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should burden yourself to the point of physical exhaustion but keeping yourself busy in these times is one of the best options you have.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you feel completely incapable of being productive but you can make it. For starters, hit the gym or find new hobbies\u2014whatever keeps your mind off things.<\/p>\n<p>You can engage in learning a new language or go back to some of your old interests. Trust me\u2014when you fulfill your entire day, you\u2019ll have no time left to think about your broken heart.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Faz as coisas que te fazem feliz<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63437 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-colorful-dress.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de vestido colorido a correr na relva verde\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-colorful-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-colorful-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-colorful-dress-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s dig a little deeper into the past; before you met this person who you think ruined you.<\/p>\n<p>Quais eram as coisas que o faziam feliz nessa altura? O que gostavas de fazer e como gostavas de passar o teu tempo?<\/p>\n<p>Bem, estas s\u00e3o as coisas a que deve recorrer. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/lista-de-desejos-de-uma-rapariga-solteira-tempo-para-mimar\/\">Mime-se<\/a> and do whatever fulfills your heart\u2019s desires, as long as you\u2019re not endangering yourself or anyone else in your surroundings.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you don\u2019t believe me now, soon enough you\u2019ll see that your ex partner is not the only source of happiness for you. In fact, there are other things and people you\u2019ll find joy in and that is where you should put all of your focus.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Guardar os lembretes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63436 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/full-packing-box.jpg\" alt=\"caixa cheia de mem\u00f3rias\" width=\"800\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/full-packing-box.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/full-packing-box-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/full-packing-box-768x517.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uma das coisas mais importantes a fazer enquanto tenta descobrir como lidar com o desgosto de amor \u00e9 livrar-se de tudo o que o possa fazer lembrar dessa pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t emphasize enough how important it is for you to go full no contact\u2014no calling them, no texting, no staying friends and no following them on social media.<\/p>\n<p>Essa pessoa fez-lhe mal e a \u00fanica maneira de a afastar do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 afast\u00e1-la tamb\u00e9m da sua vista.<\/p>\n<p>However, even though many people stick to the no contact rule, they don\u2019t accomplish much since they remain surrounded by reminders of their ex.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63438 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-instant-pictures.jpg\" alt=\"pessoa com fotografias instant\u00e2neas junto \u00e0 secret\u00e1ria\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-instant-pictures.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-instant-pictures-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-instant-pictures-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There is no point in you cutting ties with this person if you\u2019ll continue stalking their social media profiles from a fake profile, if you\u2019ll keep photos of you two all around your apartment, if you listen to the songs you two danced to together or if you stay in touch with their best friends and family, talking about them and trying to get information.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014your ex partner was a huge part of your life and you shouldn\u2019t try to erase them from your memory, as if they never existed.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, pelo menos a partir de agora, afaste-se de tudo e de todos os que possam servir-lhe de recorda\u00e7\u00e3o da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o falhada.<\/p>\n<h2>11. Trabalhar a sua autoestima<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63439 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-elegant-dress.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de vestido verde elegante a tocar no ombro com a m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-elegant-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-elegant-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-elegant-dress-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Outra coisa crucial em todo este processo \u00e9 come\u00e7ar a reconstruir a sua autoestima. A pior coisa que se pode permitir \u00e9 sentir-se indigno ou incapaz de ser amado, s\u00f3 porque teve uma m\u00e1 experi\u00eancia amorosa.<\/p>\n<p>Poder\u00e1 perguntar-se porque \u00e9 que a autoconfian\u00e7a \u00e9 t\u00e3o importante quando se lida com um desgosto de amor.<\/p>\n<p>Well, once you finally see your true value, you\u2019ll understand how much you deserve and all of a sudden, your ex who never treated you right will be out of your league and you\u2019ll forget all about them with more ease.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63445 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-sunglasses.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente com \u00f3culos de sol enquanto segura um copo de vinho\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-sunglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-sunglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-sunglasses-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por isso, em vez disso, continua a dizer a ti pr\u00f3prio que esta separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/ter-em-conta-que-nem-todas-as-pessoas-que-perdemos-sao-uma-perda\/\">a sua perda<\/a>; you\u2019re a valuable human being and you will love and be loved in the future.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 mais f\u00e1cil falar do que fazer, eu sei. No entanto, existem algumas formas eficazes de aumentar a sua confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Para come\u00e7ar, tente enumerar todas as coisas boas que fez na vida; concentre-se nas suas realiza\u00e7\u00f5es e n\u00e3o nos seus fracassos.<\/p>\n<p>Also, it\u2019s a good idea to present yourself with a set of tiny challenges. Each time you acquire a new short-term goal, you\u2019ll see that you should be proud of yourself and your self-faith will slowly begin to be restored.<\/p>\n<h2>12. Remember that you\u2019re in charge<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63446 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-her-hair.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a tocar no seu cabelo enquanto est\u00e1 ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-her-hair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-her-hair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-her-hair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest here\u2014you can\u2019t control what is happening around you. You can play by the rules, do everything by the book and give the best version of yourself to someone but that doesn\u2019t ensure that you\u2019ll get the same treatment in return.<\/p>\n<p>As much as you try, you can never control other people\u2019s actions. So, why bother trying?<\/p>\n<p>However, don\u2019t you ever forget that you\u2019re in complete charge of your reactions to certain life events and that you have full control of your emotions and state of mind.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63449 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-sweater-using-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisola cinzenta a usar o telem\u00f3vel enquanto segura uma ch\u00e1vena branca\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-sweater-using-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-sweater-using-phone-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-sweater-using-phone-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s up to you whether you\u2019ll allow some things to tear you apart or make you even stronger; it\u2019s your choice whether you\u2019ll look at life optimistically or negatively.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, it\u2019s your decision whether your heartbreak will break you entirely as well.<\/p>\n<p>Remember\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/tu-es-o-unico-criador-da-tua-propria-felicidade-so-depende-de-ti\/\">a vossa felicidade<\/a> can never be in someone else\u2019s hands. You\u2019re the ruler of your own life and you\u2019re stronger than your emotions\u2014not the other way around.<\/p>\n<h2>13. Don\u2019t force yourself into anything you\u2019re not ready for<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63450 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-woman-in-pink-tank-top.jpg\" alt=\"homem de camisa azul e mulher de camisola cor-de-rosa prestes a beijar-se\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-woman-in-pink-tank-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-woman-in-pink-tank-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-woman-in-pink-tank-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Remember what we said\u2026 One day at a time.<\/p>\n<p>It means that you should never force yourself into doing something you don\u2019t feel comfortable with or ready for and this especially applies to romantic relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Ningu\u00e9m lhe est\u00e1 a dizer para levantar a guarda e fechar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ao amor para sempre s\u00f3 por causa de uma m\u00e1 experi\u00eancia. De facto, isso seria provavelmente a coisa mais insensata que poderia fazer.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, cuidado com o perigo de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-fases-da-relacao-de-ricochete-e-dicas-sobre-como-lidar-com-cada-uma-delas\/\">rela\u00e7\u00f5es de ricochete<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63451 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-hugging-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher abra\u00e7ados, sentados perto de \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-hugging-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-hugging-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-hugging-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t go back in the dating market to fool yourself that you\u2019re doing better, don\u2019t do it to get even with your ex who moved on before you and especially don\u2019t do it to convince the people in your surroundings that you\u2019re recovering successfully, according to their standards.<\/p>\n<p>Even though people might advise you to jump into a new relationship in order to heal your heartbreak, if you do so just for the sake of forgetting your past, you\u2019ll only deepen your wounds.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow your emotional baggage to ruin your future. Take your time and patiently wait until true love comes to you, instead of forcing it.<\/p>\n<p>One day, when you kiss someone, do it for your own sake and do it once you see that you\u2019re completely recovered from your past traumas; that\u2019s only fair to you and to your new partner and anything else is self-deception.<\/p>\n<h2>14. Tomar o facto como uma li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63452 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-reading-a-book.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a ler um livro sentada numa rocha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-reading-a-book.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-reading-a-book-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-reading-a-book-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Apesar de um desgosto ser algo que ningu\u00e9m gosta de passar, terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica pela primeira vez tamb\u00e9m pode servir como um duro mas valioso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-licoes-que-aprendi-depois-de-ter-o-coracao-partido\/\">li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It can teach you more than you think and it can help you grow into the person you\u2019re destined to be; you just have to let it.<\/p>\n<p>For starters, this awful experience is an indicator of your inner strength. It shows you that a simple heartache can\u2019t destroy you and that you have the ability to overcome much worse things than this.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, going through something like this shows you that you don\u2019t really need anyone, especially not your former partner. You might think that this person is essential for your survival but here you are, breathing without them.<\/p>\n<h2>15. Pedir ajuda<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63453 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-walking.jpg\" alt=\"tr\u00eas mulheres a caminhar ao lado do caminho de ferro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-walking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-walking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-walking-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Finally, don\u2019t look for the answer to the question: \u2018How to deal with heartbreak?\u2019 on your own. There is absolutely no shame in asking for help from your trusted friends or closest family members.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not telling you to follow their advice blindly but ask them to be there for you, to listen to you when you need it, to give you their support and to be your shoulder to cry on. Trust me\u2014everything is easier when you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, se sentir que o seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/true-love\/bff\/isto-e-que-e-ser-um-amigo-leal\/\">amigos de confian\u00e7a<\/a> and family can\u2019t give you the assistance you need, look for professional help. Turn to a mental health specialist and I assure you that they\u2019ll show you the right path!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-63455 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Deal-With-Heartbreak-15-Proven-Ways-To-Heal-Your-Heartache-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Como lidar com o desgosto de amor: 15 maneiras comprovadas de curar a dor no cora\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Deal-With-Heartbreak-15-Proven-Ways-To-Heal-Your-Heartache-Pinterest.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Deal-With-Heartbreak-15-Proven-Ways-To-Heal-Your-Heartache-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Deal-With-Heartbreak-15-Proven-Ways-To-Heal-Your-Heartache-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Deal-With-Heartbreak-15-Proven-Ways-To-Heal-Your-Heartache-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;ve read about it, seen it in movies, heard about it in all those songs and your friends have gone through it. However, this time, it&#8217;s happening to you\u2014your heart is broken! It&#8217;s even worse than you imagined! The emotional pain has been unbearable, you&#8217;ve been experiencing some feelings you didn&#8217;t even know you had&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":63260,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63259","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Deal-With-Heartbreak-15-Proven-Ways-To-Heal-Your-Heartache.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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