{"id":63277,"date":"2020-04-16T08:59:42","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T08:59:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63277"},"modified":"2022-01-10T00:24:51","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T00:24:51","slug":"ser-boa-mulher-para-o-homem-errado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ser-boa-mulher-para-o-homem-errado\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o se arrependa de ser uma boa mulher para o homem errado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desperdi\u00e7aste anos com um homem que didn\u2019t deserve you.<\/a> <\/strong><\/p>\n

Desperdi\u00e7ou o seu tempo, energia e esfor\u00e7os e dedicou toda a sua vida a algo que nunca mereceu a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aposto que quando dizemos as coisas desta forma, soam bastante duras e dolorosas.<\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s the only truth. It\u2019s how everything went on.<\/p>\n

\"rec\u00e9m-casados<\/p>\n

In fact, if you take your rose-tinted glasses off, you\u2019ll know that your entire previous relationship can be summarized with this couple of sentences.<\/p>\n

Yes, you two had good and bad days. He wasn\u2019t always an asshole and maybe he cared for you to a certain extent.<\/p>\n

For what it is worth, you weren\u2019t perfect either. You had your share of flaws and behavior patterns that drove your ex crazy.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No entanto, no final do dia, tentaste dar o teu melhor para que as coisas funcionassem, enquanto ele nunca se importou com a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Quando se coloca tudo numa balan\u00e7a, the bottom line is that you gifted your entire self to the wrong guy who didn\u2019t give you anything in return.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m gosta de saber isto. Sente-se enganado e usado. Mais importante ainda, arrepende-se de tudo o que lhe deu.<\/p>\n

Sente pena dos anos que desperdi\u00e7ou com ele.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Arrepende-se de l\u00e1 ter estado para o homem que te abandonou quando mais precisavas dele<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> por dar prioridade a algu\u00e9m que sempre te tratou como uma segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 zangada com o facto de ter feito sacrif\u00edcios por um homem que nunca mexeu um dedo para o seu bem.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re resentful for choosing him over yourself. Finally, you regret loving someone who didn\u2019t love you enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Looking at things from this point of view, you see it as you\u2019ve wasted your potential on a man who didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Desperdi\u00e7aste as tuas qualidades e a tua for\u00e7a com algu\u00e9m que nunca as apreciou.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, se pudesses voltar atr\u00e1s no tempo, terias sempre optado por nunca o conhecer.<\/p>\n

Ou, pelo menos, pensa que o teria tratado como uma grande cabra.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you could do it all over again, you assume that you wouldn\u2019t have been the nice girl you used to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have given this man your heart on your sleeve and you wouldn\u2019t have been so kind and loving, despite his awful treatment.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, terias sido tu a engan\u00e1-lo. Ter-lhe-ia partido o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, e n\u00e3o o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Ter-lhe-ia dado o gosto do seu pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio e teria conseguido a sua vingan\u00e7a a tempo.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se pudesses voltar a fazer tudo de novo, nunca lhe terias permitido que se safasse com tudo isto.<\/p>\n

However, let me ask you to do one thing: Don\u2019t go into all of those could-and-should-have-beens because they don\u2019t have any point whatsoever.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t keep on going back<\/a> over the past because you\u2019re just ruining your present and future with it.<\/p>\n

Most importantly, please don\u2019t regret being your best self to a guy who didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t regret being a good woman to a bad man.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t regret the choices you made because for that given situation, it was what you thought was the smartest.<\/p>\n

Besides, you can\u2019t erase your mistakes now, so what\u2019s the point of contemplating them either?<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, o mais importante \u00e9 que a sua consci\u00eancia esteja perfeitamente limpa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You are aware that you didn\u2019t contribute to the downfall of your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have the need to feel guilty about or to blame yourself for anything that has happened.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, sabes que tentaste o teu melhor. Sabes que fizeste tudo o que estava ao teu alcance para que as coisas funcionassem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Desta forma, nunca se perguntar\u00e1 o que teria acontecido se tivesse sido melhor, se o tivesse tratado com mais carinho ou se o tivesse amado um pouco mais.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sabe que investiu toda a sua capacidade e esfor\u00e7o m\u00e1ximo nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

The fact that it wasn\u2019t enough for your ex is only his problem, not yours.<\/p>\n

Por isso, por favor, pensem nisto da pr\u00f3xima vez que se come\u00e7arem a martirizar. Sim, com ele atiraste as tuas p\u00e9rolas aos porcos.<\/p>\n

However, it was the swine\u2019s fault for not being able to see their brightness and worth.<\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You wasted years on a man who didn\u2019t deserve you. You wasted your time, energy and efforts and you put your entire life into something that was never worthy of your attention. I bet that when you put things like this, they sound pretty harsh and painful. However, it\u2019s the only truth. It\u2019s how everything…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":63309,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63277","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Don\u2019t-Regret-Being-A-Good-Woman-To-The-Wrong-Man-.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63277","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=63277"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63277\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/63309"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=63277"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=63277"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=63277"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}