{"id":63479,"date":"2020-04-16T14:47:31","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T14:47:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63479"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:52:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:52:30","slug":"nao-se-sentir-culpado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-sentir-culpado\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o te sintas culpado por cortares quem te deu a tesoura"},"content":{"rendered":"

Apesar de tudo o que este homem lhe fez, continua a questionar a sua decis\u00e3o de o expulsar da sua vida.<\/p>\n

Ainda acorda \u00e0 noite, perguntando-se se fez a coisa certa e se devia ter-lhe dado outra oportunidade.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a smart girl and you know he is not material de namorado<\/span><\/a>. Mas talvez voc\u00eas os dois devessem ter ficado amigos, quanto mais n\u00e3o fosse.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, ele sempre precisou de si. Dizia-te sempre que eras o seu anjo da guarda e que nunca conseguiria sobreviver sem ti ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, ele tentou falar consigo depois da separa\u00e7\u00e3o. No entanto, estava demasiado magoada para o ouvir.<\/p>\n

Estava demasiado zangada e devastada para sequer falar com ele. Em vez disso, desligou o telefone e bloqueou-o em todo o lado.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

So now that the resentment is gone, you\u2019re not sure whether you made the right choice.<\/p>\n

Now that the bitterness has passed, you can\u2019t help but wonder if you ended up being the bad guy in this story.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m going to have to ask you to stop right there. Remember all the pain this man caused you and all the hell he\u2019s put you through.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t forget about all the tears you cried for him. About all the times he broke your heart and all the harm he\u2019s done.<\/p>\n

Lembra-te de todas as segundas oportunidades que lhe deste<\/strong>? Lembram-se de todas as promessas que ele nunca cumpriu?<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here and remember how many times this guy has given you his word that he\u2019ll change.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

E quantas vezes acreditaste nas suas mentiras e enganos, s\u00f3 para ele se tornar pior do que nunca?<\/p>\n

For years, you kept putting effort into your relationship while he couldn\u2019t care less about it.<\/p>\n

You loved him while he took you for granted, assuming that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life waiting for him to come to his senses.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Durante todo este tempo, foste tu que lutaste contra os moinhos de vento. A \u00fanica que manteve esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o em suporte de vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aquele que lhe implorou para mudar de atitude. Aquele que o perseguiu quando ele estava a fugir.<\/p>\n

Aquela que p\u00f4s a sua vida em suspenso enquanto esperava que ele finalmente fizesse a coisa certa. Que continuou a contentar-se com migalhas da sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o, quando merecia muito mais.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Passado algum tempo, desistiu e disse o seu \u00faltimo adeus. Pela primeira vez, escolheste-te a ti pr\u00f3pria em vez deste sacana ingrato.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, now you\u2019re telling me that you feel guilty for it? Well, I hate to be brutal, but you seem a bigger fool than I thought.<\/p>\n

Deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa: You didn\u2019t walk away from this man because you wanted to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t wake up one morning, determined to deix\u00e1-lo<\/b><\/a> por causa de um capricho tolo e infantil.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, tinha uma grande raz\u00e3o para fazer tudo isto.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t stop loving him all of a sudden nor did you replace him with someone new. You didn\u2019t use him in any way nor did you ever think of another man while he was present in your life.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ficaste cansado. Fartaste-te, o que \u00e9 perfeitamente natural.<\/p>\n

Lembra-te: You didn\u2019t abandon him. Instead, he was the one who deixar-te ir<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The one who kept pushing you away with his behavior. The one who kept proving to you that he doesn\u2019t want you in his life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que devia ter feito exatamente? Permitir que ele continuasse a abandon\u00e1-la e voltasse sempre que quisesse?<\/p>\n

Dever\u00e1 dar-lhe uma oportunidade para continuar a mago\u00e1-la? De reabrir as feridas com cada mensagem ou telefonema?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deve continuar a servi-lo como uma rede de seguran\u00e7a? Continuar a estar l\u00e1 para ele, se ele precisar de orienta\u00e7\u00e3o ou de ajuda?<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

No, damn right you shouldn\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que se sente culpada por lhe ter cortado o caminho quando era ele que lhe estava a dar a tesoura?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you see that it was the only choice you had and that you saved yourself at the last minute?<\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Despite everything this man has done to you, you still question your decision to kick him out of your life. You still wake up at night, wondering if you did the right thing and whether you should have given him another chance. You\u2019re a smart girl and you know he is not boyfriend material. But…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":63511,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63479","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Don\u2019t-Feel-Guilty-For-Cutting-Off-The-One-Who-Gave-You-The-Scissors.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63479","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=63479"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63479\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/63511"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=63479"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=63479"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=63479"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}