{"id":6376,"date":"2020-05-05T11:18:51","date_gmt":"2020-05-05T11:18:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6376"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:34:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:34:14","slug":"dizer-amor-tratar-como-merda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dizer-amor-tratar-como-merda\/","title":{"rendered":"You Say You Love Me But You Treat Me Like Sh*t"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Ol\u00e1, \"Amor da minha vida\",<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sei que temos passado por tantas coisas ultimamente e tamb\u00e9m sei que tu \u00e9s culpado da maior parte delas. Por isso, s\u00f3 queria perguntar-te se alguma vez pensaste no que eu sinto.<\/p>\n<p>Acham que \u00e9 normal eu ficar a olhar para o espa\u00e7o o dia todo enquanto as l\u00e1grimas me correm pela cara?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tratas mais algu\u00e9m que amas como me tratas a mim?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sabes o que me est\u00e1s a fazer? Sabes que estou sempre a olhar-me ao espelho e a perguntar-me se sou suficientemente bonita para ti?<\/p>\n<p>Do you know that sometimes I cry in bed and choke on my tears because you were giving attention to another girl while I was sitting next to you? Do you know what it feels like when the one you love the most treats you in a way you don\u2019t deserve?<\/p>\n<p>Can\u2019t you see that <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/10-things-stop-want-happy\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Estou a fazer tudo o que est\u00e1 ao meu alcance para te fazer feliz<\/a> enquanto eu me esque\u00e7o da minha pr\u00f3pria felicidade?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93336\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal preocupado a olhar um para o outro num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I just don\u2019t know what I should do to make you satisfied once and for all? Should I do a fucking triple backflip while I am singing your name or what? What do you want from me?!<\/p>\n<p>Leave me or be with me, but stop treating me like shit. That\u2019s not something I deserve. I deserve much more than that. I deserve more love, more affection, more support, and more kindness.<\/p>\n<p>Can\u2019t you see that I am all you need to be happy?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ningu\u00e9m te vai desejar assim!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ningu\u00e9m te vai foder assim!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ningu\u00e9m morrer\u00e1 assim por ti!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But you are too blind to see that. And even if I want to change you so much, I can\u2019t. I am just deceiving myself that one day you will change. I believe that our love is strong enough to go over all the bumps on the road.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93337\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-couple-sitting-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal preocupado sentado num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-couple-sitting-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-couple-sitting-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-couple-sitting-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But every time you call me \u201cbitch\u201d, I wake up from that dream and come back to reality. And I hate myself for allowing you to do all this to me.<\/p>\n<p>No fundo, sei que poderia ser mais feliz com outro homem. Aquele que cuidar\u00e1 de mim como se eu fosse a menina dos seus olhos.<\/p>\n<p>Aquele que est\u00e1 profundamente e loucamente apaixonado por mim, sem limita\u00e7\u00f5es. Aquele que p\u00e1ra de respirar cada vez que me v\u00ea.<\/p>\n<p>Acho que est\u00e1 na altura de pensares em tudo isto, porque ultimamente comecei a pensar em deixar-te. Por isso, ouve-me agora: esta \u00e9 a tua chamada de aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Tens de te recompor se queres ficar comigo.<\/p>\n<p>Sou demasiado bom <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/having-sex-wanting-intimacy\/201701\/5-ways-stop-settling-less-you-deserve\" rel=\"noopener\">contentar-me com menos do que mere\u00e7o<\/a>. You just chose a wicked way to deceive a girl who loves you. But bear in mind that I won\u2019t be here for too long.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93339\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Young-couple-are-fighting-in-the-cafeteria.jpg\" alt=\"Um jovem casal est\u00e1 a discutir na cafetaria\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Young-couple-are-fighting-in-the-cafeteria.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Young-couple-are-fighting-in-the-cafeteria-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Young-couple-are-fighting-in-the-cafeteria-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Comecei a aperceber-me que \u00e9s uma pessoa que nunca vai mudar. E vais sentir pena quando vires que h\u00e1 um homem acima de ti na minha vida. Vais ficar arrasada porque deixaste ir embora aquele que faria tudo por ti.<\/p>\n<p>And the worst thing of all is that I won\u2019t be there to wipe your tears. I will be giving that honor to all those who you choose over me.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 ultrapassei esse jogo que temos vindo a jogar h\u00e1 muito tempo. Pouco a pouco, encontrei aquela for\u00e7a que estava esquecida algures l\u00e1 no fundo.<\/p>\n<p>I learned to stand up and fight for myself. And today, I finally found what I\u2019ve been looking for.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Finalmente encontrei-me a mim.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93335\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/You-Say-You-Love-Me-But-You-Treat-Me-Like-Sh_t-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"You Say You Love Me But You Treat Me Like Sh*t\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/You-Say-You-Love-Me-But-You-Treat-Me-Like-Sh_t-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/You-Say-You-Love-Me-But-You-Treat-Me-Like-Sh_t-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey \u2018Love of my life\u2019, I know that we have been going through so many things lately and I also know that you are guilty of most of them. So, I just wanted to ask if you ever think about how I feel. Do you think it is normal for me to stare into space&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":93333,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6376","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/You-Say-You-Love-Me-But-You-Treat-Me-Like-Sh_t.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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