{"id":6422,"date":"2017-10-06T09:44:33","date_gmt":"2017-10-06T09:44:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6422"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:47:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:47:59","slug":"6-razoes-pelas-quais-esta-a-tornar-a-vida-mais-dificil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-razoes-pelas-quais-esta-a-tornar-a-vida-mais-dificil\/","title":{"rendered":"6 raz\u00f5es pelas quais est\u00e1 a tornar a sua vida mais dif\u00edcil do que tem de ser"},"content":{"rendered":"

Conf\u00facio disse uma vez: \"A vida \u00e9 realmente simples, mas n\u00f3s insistimos em torn\u00e1-la complicada\".<\/p>\n

Most of us complain how difficult and complicated life is, not realizing that we are the guilty ones. We\u2019re the ones making our lives harder. Part of all the work, duties and chores we have to deal with on a daily basis, we tend to make even more complicated, with our minds becoming gradually disillusioned by negative external influences.<\/p>\n

We hesitate and question our instincts, we\u2019re afraid of stumbling and falling down when a new obstacle arises. Life is becoming harder and harder, and the only thing we\u2019re doing is losing touch with who we really are and what we really need. Acknowledging the main reasons why you\u2019re making your life harder than it has to be will be your first step in simplifying things and living a happier life.<\/p>\n

1. Compara-se com outras pessoas<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

A compara\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o ladr\u00e3o da alegria. Ter um modelo na vida que o ajude a desenvolver-se e a melhorar \u00e9 sempre bom, mas comparar-se com pessoas que pensa serem melhores do que voc\u00ea s\u00f3 o faz sentir-se amargo e invejoso. A exist\u00eancia das redes sociais torna isto ainda mais dif\u00edcil com todas estas formas irrealistas de viver, partilhadas com toda a gente com a melhor ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o e o melhor filtro.<\/p>\n

Not a single person in this world is the same, has the same life or chooses the exact same path in life, so don\u2019t compare yourself to other people; instead, compare-se com a sua vers\u00e3o atual e utilize-a para se tornar melhor.<\/a><\/p>\n

2. Participa na dramatiza\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Start talking only about the good things in people, in life. Even if you don\u2019t feel like doing that – do it! Make yourself get used to that and slowly get out of all the drama circles around you. Imagine a life without gossip, verbal defamation.<\/p>\n

Encourage people around you to do the same, and those who don\u2019t support you in that can be ignored. Walk away from drama and incredible things will happen when you distanciar-se de toda essa negatividade<\/a> e aqueles que a criam.<\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re too afraid<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

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You don\u2019t take risks and let your fears make decisions for you. The list of fears an average grown-up has can go on forever, like fear of failure, or rejection, of other people\u2019s opinions, etc. Things like that will only hold you down and make you miss out on so many things in life.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se que os medos s\u00f3 existem na tua mente<\/a>E quanto mais acreditar nisso, mais os seus medos desaparecer\u00e3o. Ser\u00e1 mais confiante, correr\u00e1 mais riscos e nunca deixar\u00e1 escapar uma oportunidade das suas m\u00e3os.<\/p>\n

4. Preocupa-se muito com o que os outros pensam<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

People are talking behind your back? Don\u2019t worry about that – worry about the moment they stop. There will always be people who like you and people who don\u2019t; that\u2019s just how life works. The sooner you realize that and stop caring about it, the sooner you\u2019ll be happier and have better control over your life.<\/p>\n

5. \u00c0 espera de um sinal<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Infelizmente, muitas pessoas est\u00e3o \u00e0 espera de um sinal de Deus, ou de outro ser espiritual, antes de decidirem tomar uma decis\u00e3o ou dar um passo importante nas suas vidas. Tome a sua vida nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os, encontre uma forma de tirar o m\u00e1ximo partido da sua vida, porque \u00e9 melhor ajudar a moldar o destino do que ser governado por ele.<\/p>\n

6. Espera que a vida seja sempre feliz<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

The world is a cruel place and full of suffering, heartbreaks, and loss. These things can affect your happiness, but you should not lose hope. Also having unrealistic expectations will make you end up disappointed. This doesn\u2019t mean you should set the bar low – you should still have high standards for yourself and how others treat you, but there’s always a line where those high standards become excessive.<\/p>\n

Life is about balance. \u2018In suffering you can find great strength, in heartbreak, you can find resilience, and in loss you can find a renewed appreciation for life\u2019.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Confucius once said, \u201cLife is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.\u201d Most of us complain how difficult and complicated life is, not realizing that we are the guilty ones. We\u2019re the ones making our lives harder. Part of all the work, duties and chores we have to deal with on a daily…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":6433,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/lua-valentia-210488.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6422","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6422"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6422\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6433"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}