{"id":64274,"date":"2020-04-22T09:55:07","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T09:55:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64274"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:57:54","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:57:54","slug":"cada-dor-de-perda-conta-uma-historia-de-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/cada-dor-de-perda-conta-uma-historia-de-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Cada dor de perda conta uma hist\u00f3ria de amor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Permanecer vulner\u00e1vel depois de ter sido ferido \u00e9 como ir para a batalha sem qualquer armadura.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how good a fighter we are, we could still get hurt. But it\u2019s a risk we\u2019re willing to take knowing love is a basic need.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what I did. I was hurt but I chose to love again&#8230;and I was hurt again.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64298\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-squatting.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de vestido branco agachada junto a um muro de bet\u00e3o cinzento\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t regret it.<\/p>\n<p>O amor \u00e9 muitas vezes acompanhado de dor. A dor \u00e9 mal vista e as pessoas evitam-na como se fosse uma praga. Mas continuam a querer o amor.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, passar pela dor significa escolher o amor.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64277\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de top preto com cabelo louro perto do campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"539\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>At one point, when I hadn\u2019t yet realized that, I cursed your name and I cursed love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Amaldi\u00e7oei-me por cair sempre na mesma coisa.<\/p>\n<p>I spent my days in bed, crying. I felt nauseous when I didn\u2019t eat for days.<\/p>\n<p>My head swam with thoughts I couldn\u2019t say out loud. My heart was in pieces. <em>Eu estava a sofrer.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64302\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-tank-top-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisola interior cinzenta, triste na cama, abra\u00e7ando as pernas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>Mais tarde, aprendi que a dor emocional se manifesta fisicamente para nos lembrar que precisamos de ser curados. Os nossos corpos s\u00e3o milagrosos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what happened. Time passed and I started to heal.<\/p>\n<p>Aceitei que a vida \u00e9 confusa e dif\u00edcil de compreender.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64280\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-white-dress-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com vestido branco a envolver-se \u00e0 volta dela\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>But sometimes, at the moment when you\u2019re least expecting it little pieces start coming together and forming a coherent whole.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s when you start to connect the dots of your experiences and understand the answer to the question you\u2019ve asked so many times: <em>Porqu\u00ea eu?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nesse momento, a tua dor enche-se de significado e compreendes que h\u00e1 alturas em que o amor s\u00f3 pode ser encontrado atrav\u00e9s da dor.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64281\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-in-autumn.jpg\" alt=\"mulher solit\u00e1ria no outono, sentada perto do lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Embora tenha aprendido sobre a dor ao partir, aprendi que a dor pode ser mais subtil.<\/p>\n<p>Pain can be uncertainty about the future, expectations we can\u2019t meet, unconscious trauma, a letdown.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, atrav\u00e9s da dor, o amor quer preparar-nos. Quer que alarguemos a nossa perspetiva e aprofundemos a nossa capacidade.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64282\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/closeup-photo-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia em grande plano de uma mulher num quarto escuro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>It teaches us we can\u2019t be defeated.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tanto o amor como a dor ensinam-nos que a vida \u00e9 feita de coisas boas e m\u00e1s e que tudo na vida \u00e9 uma oportunidade para crescermos em dire\u00e7\u00e3o a algo maior ou para voltarmos ao solo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Depende da nossa escolha.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64284\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-at-the-table.jpg\" alt=\"mulher encostada \u00e0 mesa com as m\u00e3os no queixo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Passar por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-dor-mostrar-te-a-o-verdadeiro-significado-do-amor\/\">a dor e a cura \u00e9 compreender o verdadeiro significado do amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Love is unexpected and it doesn\u2019t know limits. Everyone has their own way of finding it.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why it\u2019s okay to search for the kind of love you need.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64285\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-on-railings.jpg\" alt=\"mulher agarrada a um corrim\u00e3o inclinada em cor s\u00e9pia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s okay to search for a person who understands the way you love and need to be loved.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No entanto, as verdadeiras qualidades do amor s\u00e3o sempre as mesmas.<\/p>\n<p>True love doesn\u2019t hurt you on purpose. True love doesn\u2019t lie to you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64287\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-with-hat.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita com chap\u00e9u e relva alta \u00e0 sua frente\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>O verdadeiro amor aceita-te apesar dos teus defeitos. O verdadeiro amor v\u00ea para al\u00e9m do teu corpo.<\/p>\n<p>True love isn\u2019t scared when the thing goes wrong. True love accepts the feeling of pain and every other <em>imperfeito<\/em> emo\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s wise enough to know that perfect doesn\u2019t exist and imperfection is always a chance for growth.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64278\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-blonde-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira solit\u00e1ria de casaco virada para a direita\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>When you meet the love you need, you\u2019ll know it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A man who gives you that love will make sure to choose you every day and won\u2019t make you question his feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Ele nunca deixar\u00e1 de vos lembrar como sois importantes e preciosos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64294\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-with-her-hand.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada com a m\u00e3o na bochecha perto de janelas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Ele cuidar\u00e1 de si e aumentar\u00e1 a sua confian\u00e7a s\u00f3 porque gosta de a ver feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Ele respeitar-te-\u00e1 sempre e para sempre porque v\u00ea o teu verdadeiro valor.<\/p>\n<p>Na sua mente e no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, ser\u00e1s a \u00fanica pessoa que ele v\u00ea.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64296\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-steel-boom.jpg\" alt=\"mulher solit\u00e1ria num port\u00e3o de a\u00e7o perto do campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Quando isso acontecer, agradecer\u00e1 a sua dor e abra\u00e7ar\u00e1 o amor rec\u00e9m-descoberto.<\/p>\n<p>Everything that happened before will be just a shadow that vanishes when you\u2019re surrounded by light.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019ll smile because rather than let the pain turn your heart into something ugly you allowed it to blossom into love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64307\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/EVERY-PAIN-OF-LOSS-TELLS-A-STORY-OF-LOVE-PINTEREST.jpg\" alt=\"CADA DOR DE PERDA CONTA UMA HIST\u00d3RIA DE AMOR\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Remaining vulnerable after being hurt feels like going into battle without any armor. No matter how good a fighter we are, we could still get hurt. But it\u2019s a risk we\u2019re willing to take knowing love is a basic need. That\u2019s what I did. I was hurt but I chose to love again&#8230;and I was&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-64274","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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