{"id":64320,"date":"2020-04-19T17:44:22","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T17:44:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64320"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:37:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:37:07","slug":"cansado-de-perseguir-alguem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/cansado-de-perseguir-alguem\/","title":{"rendered":"Isto \u00e9 para todas as raparigas que est\u00e3o cansadas de perseguir algu\u00e9m"},"content":{"rendered":"

Are you familiar with the feeling when you fall in love with someone so deeply, that it even makes you think that you can’t live without that person?<\/p>\n

You’re ready to do whatever it takes to keep them in your life. He\u2019s the man of your dreams and you\u2019re hoping that one day he’ll feel the same about you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

After some time, though, you start to realize that it\u2019s impossible to make someone love you. You constantly tried to get closer to him, but it actually pushed him away.<\/p>\n

Deu tudo de si a essa pessoa e algures no caminho, perdeu-se<\/span><\/a>. Fartou-se de ter de provar o seu valor e o seu amor a algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You got sick of chasing someone who’ll never be able to appreciate all those things you did for him.<\/p>\n

Eis alguns conselhos que a ajudar\u00e3o a deix\u00e1-lo e a seguir em frente com a sua vida.<\/p>\n

1. You weren\u2019t meant for each other<\/h2>\n

\"jovem
\nIf you are destined to be together, then you won’t have to chase him. And if you are chasing him, it means that he isn’t the right guy for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Then you have only one option left: to let him go. Mr. Right will come someday and he’ll show you what true love is.<\/p>\n

You won’t have to try that hard to win and keep that person because he’ll choose you himself.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Give up on him. You deserve someone who’ll love you and choose you no matter what.<\/p>\n

Chasing him will only bring you more pain because he won’t change. If you don’t want to spend your life in pain, you have to let him go.<\/p>\n

2. Come\u00e7ar a perseguir o amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nRemind yourself of your worth and never let anyone disrespect you. If you lack self-respect, then you’ll allow others to treat you how they want, without any respect.<\/p>\n

However, if you respect yourself enough, then you’ll be able to walk away from or let go of people who make you unhappy or unloved.<\/p>\n

3. Mereces ser perseguido<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga
\nYou’re the one who deserves to be chased<\/span><\/a>. Se mostrarmos a um homem o quanto o amamos todos os dias, ser\u00e1 realmente demasiado esperar que ele fa\u00e7a o mesmo por n\u00f3s?<\/p>\n

You are a unique, one-of-a-kind girl and if someone doesn’t see it, then it’s his loss. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You don’t have to make him see it, because he’ll realize it once he loses you. <\/strong>And then he’ll be left with a broken heart.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Mereces algu\u00e9m que te veja no teu pior, mas que ainda assim opte por ficar.<\/p>\n

Someone who’ll love you the strongest even when you are being the most difficult to love.<\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t ever humiliate yourself<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nPersegui-lo far\u00e1 sempre com que pare\u00e7a desesperada e pat\u00e9tica.<\/p>\n

Sei que o facto de o estar a perder e de n\u00e3o poder fazer nada est\u00e1 a deix\u00e1-la louca. Mas nunca lhe deves mostrar que est\u00e1s desesperada pelo amor dele.<\/p>\n

S\u00ea corajosa. Eu sei que ver um homem que amamos sair da nossa vida d\u00f3i muito. Mas tens de sorrir e aguentar.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Don’t humiliate yourself for someone who doesn\u2019t even deserve you.<\/p>\n

Don’t do that to yourself. You know you are better than that \u2013 that you deserve more than that.<\/p>\n

5. You can\u2019t force him to love you<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nChasing someone won’t make them love you. That’s only how you’ll push them further away. To be honest, no one likes pathetic people who just don’t know when to stop.<\/p>\n

There is nothing wrong with you, but you have to understand that the harsh reality is you can never make someone love you. Love is something that can’t be forced.<\/p>\n

Se o amas verdadeiramente, tudo o que podes fazer \u00e9 esperar. Deixe de o perseguir e veja o que acontece.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Maybe it’ll make him realize that no one will love him as much as you do, and he’ll start to appreciate all those things you\u2019ve done for him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe then he’ll start chasing you. If he doesn’t, then it means that it’s time to let him go forever.<\/p>\n

Aceita-o e segue em frente, por muito doloroso que seja. O tempo curar\u00e1 todas essas feridas.<\/p>\n

6. You\u2019ll be left with a broken heart<\/h2>\n

\"mulher
\nPersegui-lo s\u00f3 te vai levar a um desgosto. E as suas pr\u00f3prias expectativas ser\u00e3o as \u00fanicas culpadas por isso.<\/p>\n

Every time you’re full of expectations that this time something will change \u2013 that he’ll finally love you the same.<\/p>\n

But every time those expectations will lead you to disappointment. Disappointment after disappointment, you’ll finally start losing hope.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tens de saber que podes fazer muito melhor. Tens de te apreciar o suficiente para saberes quando te deves afastar. Tens de o deixar ir para te manteres a ti pr\u00f3pria. <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Chasing the man you love won’t bring you anything good. It will only lead you to an emotional handicap.<\/p>\n

You’ll be left with self-esteem issues and not be able to move on for a long time.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Chasing him is not how you’ll win him or keep him in your life. Some things are just meant to happen.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And some people just aren’t destined to be in your life. As much as you try, you can’t fight destiny.<\/strong><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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