{"id":64447,"date":"2020-04-25T23:12:52","date_gmt":"2020-04-25T23:12:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64447"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:50:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:50:42","slug":"quanto-tempo-e-necessario-para-se-apaixonar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quanto-tempo-e-necessario-para-se-apaixonar\/","title":{"rendered":"Quanto tempo leva para se apaixonar? 7 factores que fazem a diferen\u00e7a"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde os tempos antigos que se discute se o amor \u00e0 primeira vista existe ou se amor verdadeiro<\/a> \u00e9 algo que precisa de ser alimentado antes de crescer.<\/p>\n

Enquanto os rom\u00e2nticos afirmam que sabiam quem era a sua alma g\u00e9mea desde o primeiro momento em que a viram, outros discordam.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Realists say that you have to get to know the core of someone’s personality before you can say that you really love them.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, qual \u00e9 a verdade? Quanto tempo \u00e9 que demora a apaixonarmo-nos?<\/p>\n

Eis os factores mais importantes que determinam o tempo em que se podem desenvolver sentimentos por outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

1. Idade<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Uma das primeiras coisas que determinam o tempo m\u00e9dio para algu\u00e9m se apaixonar \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, a sua idade.<\/p>\n

Nomeadamente, est\u00e1 cientificamente provado que as pessoas mais jovens tendem a desenvolver sentimentos rom\u00e2nticos e a mostrar sinais de amor<\/a> muito mais depressa do que os adultos.<\/p>\n

Lembra-se de quando era crian\u00e7a? Bastava p\u00f4r os olhos em algu\u00e9m giro e pronto - estava apaixonado.<\/p>\n

De facto, deu por si a apaixonar-se por uma celebridade que viu na televis\u00e3o ou at\u00e9 a ficar apaixonado por uma personagem fict\u00edcia do seu livro ou programa de televis\u00e3o favorito.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Despite what people might say, you didn\u2019t just like these people. You dreamt and fantasized about them, which means you were in love with them. For that age, it was love!<\/p>\n

No entanto, a velocidade a que se desenvolvem sentimentos mais profundos de amor por algu\u00e9m muda com o tempo.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in high school and college, you\u2019re no longer a little kid but you still don\u2019t need a long period of time to become crazy over another person.<\/p>\n

Another important thing here is that when you’re younger, you don’t have the ability to differentiate between different types of love.<\/p>\n

You can’t tell whether you just like a person, if you’re in love with them, or if you feel real love for them.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

When you are young the brain chemicals which cause romantic feelings go wild. The same happens with oxytocin and the other love hormones you still haven’t figured out how to control.<\/p>\n

Consequently, you can’t seem to notice the difference between physical attraction, infatuation and true love.<\/p>\n

In fact, you’re capable of falling in love the first time you see someone, without having to go on an actual first date.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it’s much easier for you to say: “Eu amo-te<\/a>” and to think that you feel it.<\/p>\n

\u00c0 medida que envelhecemos, estas tr\u00eas pequenas palavras adquirem um significado mais profundo e tornamo-nos mais cuidadosos ao diz\u00ea-las.<\/p>\n

Com o passar dos anos, a sua experi\u00eancia transforma-o numa pessoa diferente, mais s\u00e1bia e mais cuidadosa.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Consequently, you need much more time to say that you\u2019re truly in love with someone and to really feel that way.<\/p>\n

At this point of your life, romance stops being the only thing occupying your mind. You have other stuff to worry about so you don\u2019t spend as much energy on romantic love as you did before.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, os nossos padr\u00f5es aumentam com a idade. \u00c9 preciso muito mais do que uma cara bonita, um sorriso giro e um corpo bonito para se apaixonar verdadeiramente por algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

You need time to get to know this person and to get to the bottom of their character before you can declare that you\u2019re in love.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o acredita no amor \u00e0 primeira vista e v\u00ea-o como atra\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 primeira vista.<\/p>\n

2. Hist\u00f3ria de vida amorosa<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Outra coisa relacionada com os per\u00edodos de tempo em que se apaixona \u00e9 a sua vida amorosa e o seu historial de rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Embora as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores fa\u00e7am parte do passado, ter\u00e3o sempre um enorme impacto no seu futuro.<\/p>\n

For example, if you\u2019ve never had a rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/a>, it is more likely that you\u2019ll fall in love with someone who gives you a little bit of attention right away.<\/p>\n

You experience feelings you didn\u2019t even know existed. They overwhelm you to the point where you can\u2019t control them.<\/p>\n

No entanto, se tivermos alguma bagagem emocional, \u00e9 muito mais dif\u00edcil desenvolvermos sentimentos verdadeiros por outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re still hung up on your ex, without even being aware of it – or you need more time to recover from your past relationship.<\/p>\n

This is especially true if you\u2019ve been through a devastating breakup. You\u2019ve lost trust in people and you won\u2019t give just anyone access to your heart.<\/p>\n

On the contrary, you\u2019ll do everything in your power to prevent yourself from putting your feelings out there.<\/p>\n

Even if you begin falling in love, you\u2019ll hold yourself back and won\u2019t let these emotions develop any further.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve been heartbroken, you change and your dating patterns change. You become extra careful, you overthink things, and question your every move before acting on it.<\/p>\n

You’re medo de se magoar novamente<\/a> e pensa que toda a gente a vai tratar como o seu ex a tratava. Por isso, a \u00fanica forma de o evitar e de se manter em seguran\u00e7a \u00e9 fechar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s pretty simple: you don\u2019t let your emotions loose and you never relaxed enough to even start falling in love. Instead, you put a guard up because it\u2019s the only way to protect yourself.<\/p>\n

You’re not alone in this one-many people who have emotional traumas caused by previous relationships actually run away at the first sign of feelings.<\/p>\n

Outra coisa importante aqui \u00e9 o n\u00famero de parceiros rom\u00e2nticos e de rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e9rias.<\/p>\n

According to many dating experts, the more partners you\u2019ve had, the lower the chance of you falling for someone new right away.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been through all of this too many times. The butterflies and the excitement don\u2019t make you high and you\u2019re no longer hooked on the feeling of being in love.<\/p>\n

3. O seu car\u00e1cter<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Duas pessoas podem ser da mesma idade e ter experi\u00eancias de relacionamento semelhantes, mas, ainda assim, precisarem de per\u00edodos de tempo diferentes para se apaixonarem. Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n

Well, if you\u2019re wondering how long does it take to fall in love, maybe you should look for the answer in your character.<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s temos personalidades diferentes que afectam os nossos sentimentos e interac\u00e7\u00f5es sociais, o que inclui o romance.<\/p>\n

A primeira quest\u00e3o que se coloca \u00e9 a seguinte: est\u00e1 um introvertido ou um extrovertido<\/a>? Let\u2019s disregard the love part for now and focus on how you behave around people in general?<\/p>\n

Are you someone who doesn\u2019t have trouble meeting new people? Do you make new friends with ease?<\/p>\n

D\u00e1-se bem com estranhos? \u00c9 uma pessoa extrovertida e divertida? Gosta de fazer experi\u00eancias?<\/p>\n

\"mulheres<\/p>\n

Ou prefere manter-se fiel \u00e0 sua rotina? Est\u00e1 preso na sua zona de conforto e detesta quando tem de a deixar?<\/p>\n

Quanto tempo demora a relaxar completamente em frente a um estranho? Deixa as pessoas entrarem ou \u00e9 cauteloso?<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re someone who has trouble socializing, you\u2019ll certainly take longer to fall in love.<\/p>\n

If your idea of the perfect Saturday night is binge watching Netflix in the privacy of your own home, you\u2019re probably an introvert who needs ages to fall for someone and to let them in.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, tudo isto reduz as suas hip\u00f3teses de conhecer algu\u00e9m novo, quanto mais de se apaixonar por essa pessoa.<\/p>\n

3. A sua intelig\u00eancia emocional<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando ouvimos a palavra intelig\u00eancia, pensamos em algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 esperto, bom com a ci\u00eancia, bem educado e s\u00e1bio.<\/p>\n

No entanto, existem diferentes tipos de intelig\u00eancia e a intelig\u00eancia emocional \u00e9 um deles.<\/p>\n

Ter um elevado grau de desenvolvimento intelig\u00eancia emocional<\/a> means being in touch with your own feelings and understanding other people\u2019s emotions.<\/p>\n

Significa n\u00e3o fugir do que se sente e n\u00e3o tentar suprimir as emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Significa ser capaz de dar e receber diferentes tipos de amor, incluindo o amor rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m inclui ter o sexto sentido quando se trata de perceber todos \u00e0 sua volta e tudo o que acontece nos seus cora\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Therefore, if you\u2019re emotionally intelligent, you\u2019re more likely to fall in love faster than the average.<\/p>\n

Or at least, you\u2019ll notice that something is going on and you’ll be able to process your emotions as soon as they appear.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re also able to catch how others feel about you. You notice when someone is hitting on you or when they start to catch feelings for you, even before they do.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when your emotional intelligence is not very well developed, you need more time to realize that you\u2019re actually falling in love.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t get the hints when the other person is offering you their love nor do you see the signs of love in yourself.<\/p>\n

Also, there is a difference between the people who follow their heart, no matter where it takes them and the ones who take their mind\u2019s lead. <\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A resposta \u00e0 pergunta quanto tempo demora a apaixonar-se tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 intimamente ligada ao grupo a que se pertence.<\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong-it doesn’t mean that you’re incapable of loving just because your emotional intelligence is a bit lower. It’s just a part of who you are and sometimes, it can be a good thing.<\/p>\n

For example, if you\u2019re someone who goes after their heart\u2019s desires, you don\u2019t kill your feelings, even if you know that they\u2019re not right. Instead, you chase them and see where they take you.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re a more reasonable person who falls in love with someone wrong, you\u2019ll do everything in your power to make those emotions go away ASAP.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t nurture them and you\u2019ll stop them from growing which eventually might help you stop yourself from falling in love.<\/p>\n

4. As tuas opini\u00f5es sobre o amor<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Antes de descobrir quanto tempo \u00e9 preciso para se apaixonar, \u00e9 preciso fazer uma autorreflex\u00e3o e contemplar as suas opini\u00f5es sobre o amor.<\/p>\n

Let’s cut to the chase: Do you acreditar no amor<\/a>? Ou v\u00ea-o apenas como uma fabrica\u00e7\u00e3o comercializada com a qual as pessoas se iludem?<\/p>\n

Uma coisa \u00e9 considerar-se um indiv\u00edduo rom\u00e2ntico que tem uma forte f\u00e9 no amor. As pessoas que v\u00eaem o amor como a coisa mais importante da vida tendem a apaixonar-se com mais frequ\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o as pessoas que precisam de amor rom\u00e2ntico para respirar e funcionar corretamente.<\/p>\n

The people who don\u2019t lose their faith in love even after numerous heartbreaks and who see it as this divine force which moves the entire Universe.<\/p>\n

\"silhueta<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even have to be aware of this but if you\u2019re subconsciously on a constant search for a partner, it is more likely that you will fall in love more often.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 especialmente o caso daqueles que idealizam o amor rom\u00e2ntico. Este \u00e9 o grupo que est\u00e1 \u00e0 procura de um conto de fadas e que v\u00ea o amor verdadeiro como a coisa mais poderosa que existe.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, you\u2019ll need more time to grow feelings for someone if you rock your single life.<\/p>\n

Aprecia o seu estado de relacionamento e considera o romance como algo irrelevante para a sua felicidade.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re independent and self-sufficient, so you\u2019re running away from the idea of having to share your life with someone else.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Therefore, you won\u2019t fall in love easily. In fact, even if you do, you\u2019ll refuse to accept the idea because it disrupts your balance. Another important thing here are your plans for the future.<\/p>\n

Do you see yourself as married with kids? Growing old next to your significant other? Or perhaps you wouldn\u2019t mind remaining single for the rest of your life? Being forever alone?<\/p>\n

You might not know this but you usually end up getting exactly what you want, even if we\u2019re talking about the desires you\u2019re not aware of.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the law of attraction: your thoughts shape your life more than you think. Basically, if you want to fall in love, it will probably happen to you sooner than you expect.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if this is something you\u2019re not ready for, you\u2019ll take ages to grow true feelings for someone new.<\/p>\n

5. G\u00e9nero<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 cientificamente provado que o g\u00e9nero \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m um dos factores que influencia a velocidade a que as pessoas se apaixonam.<\/p>\n

Apesar da opini\u00e3o popular, muitos terapeutas relacionais afirmam que os homens se apaixonam mais rapidamente do que as mulheres, que, na verdade, precisam de mais tempo para desenvolver sentimentos de amor.<\/p>\n

When you come to think about this, you\u2019ll probably assume that it couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, para onde quer que se olhe, as mulheres parecem ser as que mais sofrem no amor e as que mais ficam de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

On the other hand, most men use every opportunity to get a higher score. They don\u2019t mind jumping from one relationship to another and from one bed to another.<\/p>\n

Well, the fact is that men fall in love quicker because they don’t overthink as much as women. In most cases, guys are led by their primal impulses and instincts.<\/p>\n

Por isso, as suas subst\u00e2ncias qu\u00edmicas cerebrais e hormonas do amor t\u00eam mais hip\u00f3teses de assumir o controlo, enquanto as raparigas s\u00e3o diferentes.<\/p>\n

Also, it’s easier for them to mistake the physical attraction and paix\u00e3o<\/a> que sentem quando encontram algu\u00e9m pela primeira vez com amor.<\/p>\n

\"jovens<\/p>\n

On the other hand, it’s unlikely for a girl to fall in love on the first date. Women tend to analyze and doubt everything before they put themselves out there.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que isto \u00e9 amor verdadeiro? \u00c9 o homem certo para mim? Estas s\u00e3o todas as perguntas que precisam de ser respondidas antes de se apaixonarem.<\/p>\n

They need more reassurance and spend a longer amount of time second-guessing everything before admitting they’re in love.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, em m\u00e9dia, as mulheres precisam de mais tempo para recuperar das suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores, pelo que demoram mais tempo a apaixonar-se novamente.<\/p>\n

6. A intera\u00e7\u00e3o com o objeto do seu afeto<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

This factor is connected with the specific person you\u2019re falling in love with.<\/p>\n

Quantas vezes j\u00e1 conheceu algu\u00e9m que achou giro e atraente? Gostou dela e at\u00e9 pensou que podia ser amor \u00e0 primeira vista.<\/p>\n

However, you lose touch or the other person doesn\u2019t show the same amount of interest. So, your feelings start to die out.<\/p>\n

Sabendo isto, \u00e9 razo\u00e1vel que um dos factores que influenciam a velocidade a que se apaixona seja o feedback que recebe da outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the interaction and the contact you have with the object of your affection.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the same if we\u2019re talking about a coworker you see every day or someone you see at a club two times a month.<\/p>\n

It is more likely that you\u2019ll fall in love faster with a friend you already know than with a stranger you\u2019ve just met.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m uma diferen\u00e7a entre interagir cara a cara e falar com algu\u00e9m atrav\u00e9s das redes sociais ou conhec\u00ea-lo num s\u00edtio de encontros em linha.<\/p>\n

\"ecr\u00e3<\/p>\n

It’s not the same if this person is physically present in your life or if they’re present on the wall of your social media profile.<\/p>\n

Quando se trata do feedback que recebe da outra pessoa, a maioria das pessoas apaixona-se pela aten\u00e7\u00e3o. V\u00eaem que o objeto do seu afeto tamb\u00e9m gosta delas, por isso, naturalmente, apaixonam-se ainda mais.<\/p>\n

No entanto, h\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m aqueles que gostam mais quando a outra pessoa se faz de dif\u00edcil. V\u00eaem-no como um desafio e quanto mais a sua esmagamento<\/a> correm, mais querem apanh\u00e1-los.<\/p>\n

If this is something you can relate to, watch out because you might just fall heads over heels while you\u2019re busy playing these cat and mouse games.<\/p>\n

Quanto tempo leva para se apaixonar cientificamente?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Many relationship therapists, including Dr. Gary Brown, claim there is no definite answer to the question \u201cHow long does it take to fall in love?\u201d We’re all different and we fall in love at a different pace.<\/p>\n

There is no such thing as a period of time or a time frame in which you have to fall in love in order to know it’s the real deal.<\/p>\n

Enquanto algumas pessoas experimentam amor \u00e0 primeira vista<\/a>Alguns demoram meses ou mesmo anos a desenvolver sentimentos mais profundos de amor verdadeiro por algu\u00e9m que sempre esteve na sua vida.<\/p>\n

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