Apesar de se dizer que as mulheres s\u00e3o criaturas complicadas, compreender os homens<\/a> pode, por vezes, ser tamb\u00e9m uma tarefa dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n No entanto, falando honestamente, a dificuldade n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o surpreendente, tendo em conta as diferen\u00e7as f\u00edsicas entre os dois e a hist\u00f3ria (significativamente diferente) dos sexos.<\/p>\n Depois de ter uma noite fant\u00e1stica com o seu homem, reparou que ele desliga-se<\/i>? He becomes disinterested in having physical (or any) contact at all. This can be frustrating for any woman. So, what\u2019s actually going on?<\/p>\n Aparentemente, \u00e9 \u00e9<\/i> um produto qu\u00edmico desativa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i>. Following orgasm, men experience a refractory period \u2013 the recovery phase.<\/p>\n A investiga\u00e7\u00e3o mostra que, durante a ejacula\u00e7\u00e3o, os homens libertam serotonina, oxitocina, vasopressina e a hormona prolactina.<\/p>\n A prolactina suprime a secre\u00e7\u00e3o de dopamina (que \u00e9 necess\u00e1ria para sentir desejo e motiva\u00e7\u00e3o) e est\u00e1 ligada a sentimentos de sonol\u00eancia e satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o sexual.<\/p>\n In general, releasing said hormones lowers testosterone levels (which also drives romantic and sexual feelings). To simplify \u2013 it temporarily decreases a man\u2019s desire for sex.<\/p>\n Oxytocin (the bonding hormone) and vasopressin (both released during orgasm) are also connected to the feeling of sleepiness, contributing to the unaroused post-orgasm state. That\u2019s porque \u00e9 que os homens se afastam<\/a> depois do sexo.<\/p>\n So, if you\u2019ve noticed that your man acts differently after sex, now you know the reason. You can have great sex and suddenly feel like he\u2019s not into you, so keep this in mind.<\/p>\n The bottom line is that if everything else in your relationship is normal, you don\u2019t need to worry. Just give your man some time to ‘recover’ and gather his own thoughts and feelings, and you’ll see that he’ll reach out and vir at\u00e9 si<\/a> ele pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n They do it only to satisfy their own physical needs, that’s they want to fool around a little bit and when they realize that the other side has started falling in love with them, they immediately distance themselves.<\/p>\n There are also some other possible reasons why guys become distant after intimacy, and you’ll find them all out only if you keep reading below.<\/p>\n They like the feeling of winning a woman\u2019s heart over other men and knowing a woman fell for them by being intimate with her. That\u2019s when the rush sometimes stops.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t necessarily mean he\u2019s not into you<\/a>, it\u2019s just that he proved something to himself and the initial excitement has waned.<\/p>\n No entanto, alguns homens afastam-se porque perdem completamente o interesse depois de atingirem o seu objetivo. Isso significa simplesmente que ele nunca foi o \u00fanico<\/a> para si.<\/p>\n When a man is attracted to you it\u2019s natural he thinks mostly about sex. Basically, he invests his time and energy in keeping you entertained and seducing you.<\/p>\n Consciously or subconsciously he expects something (and that\u2019s sex) in return. If he gets o que ele quer<\/a>A sua curiosidade \u00e9 satisfeita.<\/p>\n This is the reason why it\u2019s important to play the game a little bit longer and make him wait, slowly apaixonar-se por ti<\/a>e interessar-se por outras coisas para al\u00e9m do sexo.<\/p>\n Isso vai certamente lev\u00e1-lo a querer envolver-se num processo mais s\u00e9rio e rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/a> convosco.<\/p>\n For things to become more serious, he needs to know you as a person and like you. If you challenge him, chances are he will realize you\u2019re worth the work he\u2019s putting in.<\/p>\n Fazer com que ele saiba que a intimidade \u00e9 algo que considera especial vai tornar tudo ainda mais excecional.<\/p>\n Atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica<\/a> \u00e9 o que os homens ou as mulheres sentem pelo sexo oposto com base apenas na atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n Non-physical attraction is an attraction to personality and all the things that don\u2019t include the body and physical attributes.<\/p>\n Believe it or not, men are interested in the non-physical side of things just like women, but what\u2019s different is their view on sex. Let me explain.<\/p>\n Quando uma mulher est\u00e1 interessada num homem a um n\u00edvel n\u00e3o f\u00edsico, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que tamb\u00e9m esteja fisicamente interessada e queira dormir com ele.<\/p>\n On the other hand, when she\u2019s turned off by a guy\u2019s personality \u2013 even though he\u2019s hot \u2013 she probably won\u2019t sleep with the guy.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not the same for men. It\u2019s common for men to sleep with women they\u2019re physically attracted to whether they are non-physically attracted to them ou n\u00e3o<\/i>.<\/p>\n Em suma: o tipo afasta-se<\/a> because he\u2019s only interested in sex and once he gets it there\u2019s nothing to make him stay.<\/p>\n If he doesn\u2019t like the girl\u2019s personality enough, he doesn\u2019t consider uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/a>. This might hurt but it\u2019s a possible answer to the question \u201cwhy do guys distance themselves after intimacy?\u201d.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: N\u00e3o lhe mandes uma mensagem e ele manda-te uma: 20 raz\u00f5es pelas quais ele nunca manda uma mensagem primeiro<\/a><\/p>\n Procure as pistas nas mensagens de texto, nas publica\u00e7\u00f5es nas redes sociais e nas coisas que ele diz.<\/p>\n De que \u00e9 que ele fala? Ele fala de sexo num primeiro encontro?<\/p>\n Alguns outros aspectos a que deve prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o: se he\u2019s checking other girls<\/a> out when he thinks you\u2019re not looking, whether he really listens to what you\u2019re saying if he calls you on very late dates, and how he acts after you\u2019ve had sex for the first time.<\/p>\n Esta \u00e9 dolorosa, mas, por vezes, os homens est\u00e3o especificamente \u00e0 procura de um engate e nada mais<\/a>.<\/p>\n Of course, the right thing to do would be to tell you this upfront, but this may mean no sex. That\u2019s how you know o gajo \u00e9 um jogador.<\/a><\/p>\n Acalmem-se e esperem at\u00e9 se conhecerem um pouco melhor. Por vezes, os homens demoram mais tempo a apaixonarem-se ou a admitirem a si pr\u00f3prios they\u2019re in love<\/a>.<\/p>\n If you\u2019ve only been together for only a short period of time, you may not have spent enough time together to make decisions that will affect your everyday life.<\/p>\n Esperem at\u00e9 se conhecerem melhor para tomarem decis\u00f5es que incluam os dois. Passar algum tempo juntos acabar\u00e1 por esclarecer as coisas e ter\u00e1 a certeza se ele gosta mesmo de ti<\/a> ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Maybe you really like him and want to share everything with him but think about whether it\u2019s too soon. Neediness is considered unattractive according to current social norms.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why jogar duro para conseguir<\/a> \u00e9 t\u00e3o popular.<\/p>\n Why do men pull away when they detect clinginess? Clinginess can stem from a person\u2019s lack of other interests and hobbies.<\/p>\n You should never neglect your own life and totally commit your time to him, not even if he\u2019s a great guy who treats you the best way possible. Everyone should have their own space and time for themself.<\/p>\n Apego tamb\u00e9m pode significar ser excessivamente ciumento<\/a> e falta de autoestima.<\/p>\n It\u2019s important to recognize that and work on yourself. Feeling independent is a great feeling that can build your self-esteem and make you more attractive.<\/p>\n It\u2019s reassuring when people can feel good on their own and care for themself without looking for somebody else to make the move or tell them what to do.<\/p>\n Talvez tenha tido uma vida amorosa turbulenta e uma m\u00e1 separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> no passado. Talvez ele tenha problemas que nunca abordou. We live in a society that encourages men to suppress their feelings so it\u2019s not surprising that men can be scared of emotions.<\/i><\/p>\n For men, sex is separate from being emotionally intimate. Being emotionally intimate isn\u2019t always easy. It reveals our weaknesses and shows us things we\u2019re maybe not ready to confront.<\/p>\n Alguns homens est\u00e3o mais conscientes disso e podem comunicar as coisas claramente; outros s\u00e3o totalmente inconscientes e acabam por se comportar como idiotas<\/a>. Seja qual for o caso, nunca deve deixar que ningu\u00e9m o desrespeite.<\/p>\n If he had a long-term relationship before you and didn’t give himself time to move on properly, it\u2019s better for you not to engage in a serious relationship with him too soon.<\/p>\n There\u2019s no rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> without letting go of the fear of intimacy. If he\u2019s not able to do that, then it\u2019s better to move on or you\u2019ll end up heartbroken.<\/p>\n Relacionadas: 12 sinais de que ele se arrepende de ter dormido com voc\u00ea (e o que fazer)<\/a><\/p>\n Por vezes, h\u00e1 factores externos que devem ser tidos em conta, como, por exemplo, se a sua potencial rela\u00e7\u00e3o for \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia ou se os seus antecedentes culturais forem muito diferentes.<\/p>\n Nem toda a gente est\u00e1 preparada para virar a vida de pernas para o ar depois de terem passado pouco tempo juntos.<\/p>\n As I said, men are conditioned to hide their feelings and strive to be as tough as possible and that doesn\u2019t include cuddling after sex and making you breakfast in bed.<\/p>\n There\u2019s a reason those gestures are considered romantic (are rare). Most men feel awkward thinking about doing something like that \u2013 even if they want to!<\/p>\n He’s probably falling in love with you and if it’s his first time, I think that it’s pretty normal that it scares the hell out of him. In his head, this means he won\u2019t be able to control his emotions and that can lead him to get hurt.<\/p>\n Este cen\u00e1rio pode explicar porque \u00e9 que os homens se afastam e as suas comportamento evitante<\/a>especialmente se souber intuitivamente que o seu o homem gosta mesmo de si<\/a>.<\/p>\n Antes de mais, \u00e9 preciso saber que a paci\u00eancia \u00e9 o seu maior aliado neste caso. Tem de lhe dar algum tempo e espa\u00e7o e deixar que ele venha ter consigo primeiro.<\/p>\n Eu sei que a simples ideia de perder o seu <\/i>ente querido<\/i> pode ser de partir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, mas \u00e9 preciso acreditar no vosso amor e esperar que o tempo esteja do vosso lado.<\/i> \u00c9 preciso ser forte e paciente para salvar a sua pr\u00f3pria sa\u00fade emocional e mental.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso ser paciente<\/a>, below are a few more short but efficient relationship advice on how to cope with your loved one’s pulling away.<\/p>\n If he doesn\u2019t, it\u2019s time for you para seguir em frente<\/a>. There\u2019s no reason why you should invest yourself in a guy who doesn\u2019t care enough.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t use an accusing tone of voice and try to not sound like you\u2019re attacking him. Maybe his answer will surprise you \u2013 you never know.<\/p>\n Live your life as you would without him. Go out and have fun, don\u2019t pay attention, and see what happens.<\/p>\n Importante <\/b>conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b> ALERT: don’t ever normalize <\/b>comportamento desrespeitoso<\/b><\/a> and before you decide to be intimate with someone ask yourself if you really want to do it, or whether you feel like it\u2019s something that\u2019s required of you.<\/b><\/p>\n Women should be able to have sex for enjoyment\u2019s sake and not as a way of proving something or conforming to the norm.<\/p>\nPorque \u00e9 que os homens mudam depois de dormirmos com eles?<\/h2>\n
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Before we start dispensing dating advice and exploring possible reasons for guys’ odd behavior after they get physical with a girl, we should explain the chemical factor first. Sex changes a man\u2019s mind and, most of the time, they aren’t even aware of it.<\/p>\n![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-leaning-on-wall-2.jpg\")
<\/p>\nPorque \u00e9 que os homens se tornam distantes depois da intimidade?<\/h2>\n
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There are many cases, though, when this chemical factor alone isn\u2019t enough to explain a man\u2019s behavior. Unfortunately, sometimes men pull away after being intimate with a woman because they didn’t want to start uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/a> com ela em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\nJ\u00e1 n\u00e3o sente a adrenalina da persegui\u00e7\u00e3o inicial (conseguiu o que queria)<\/h3>\n
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Os homens gostam de perseguir as mulheres por algumas raz\u00f5es. Em primeiro lugar, ajuda-os a determinar o quanto gostam realmente de uma mulher. Al\u00e9m disso, gostam de competitividade, de namoriscar e de jogar jogos<\/a> is fun for them, and it\u2019s good for their ego.<\/p>\n![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-concrete-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEle est\u00e1 a fugir de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/h3>\n
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It\u2019s important to understand the difference between physical and non-physical attraction.<\/p>\n![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-standing-outdoor-4.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEle nunca planeou dormir contigo mais do que uma vez<\/h3>\n
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Isto est\u00e1 relacionado com a raz\u00e3o anterior. Ele s\u00f3 queria um caso de uma noite<\/a>. Como \u00e9 que se pode saber isso de antem\u00e3o?<\/p>\nAs coisas est\u00e3o a avan\u00e7ar demasiado depressa e isso assusta-o<\/h3>\n
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It\u2019s possible that you\u2019re moving too fast for him. If you spent the night together and the next morning you cook him breakfast and start planning your weekend together \u2013 that might scare him away.<\/p>\nYou\u2019re acting overly attached<\/h3>\n
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O apego e a car\u00eancia podem ser grande desinteresse para muitas pessoas<\/a>, especially for men. So, it’s better to put down the phone and skip his phone call from time to time.<\/p>\n![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-touching-his-hair.jpg\")
<\/p>\nHe\u2019s scared of intimacy<\/h3>\n
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It\u2019s not uncommon for men to be assustado<\/a> de se apaixonar<\/a>. H\u00e1 muitas raz\u00f5es poss\u00edveis para os homens t\u00eam medo<\/a> para entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso.<\/p>\nHe hasn\u2019t made up his mind yet<\/h3>\n
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If a guy distances himself after intimacy it doesn\u2019t always mean he\u2019s not into you<\/a> or something is wrong. Maybe it\u2019s just too soon for him to have decided whether ele gosta de si<\/a> dessa forma ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\nHe\u2019s afraid of how much he loves you<\/h3>\n
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Ok, eu sei que isto parece inacredit\u00e1vel e clich\u00e9, mas \u00e9 poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\nO que fazer quando ele se afasta?<\/h2>\n
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Just when you thought that it’s time to take your relationship to the next level, your man has started distancing himself. I know this can be pretty confusing, especially if this is the first time you feel that your man is afastar-se<\/a>.<\/p>\nDar-lhe espa\u00e7o<\/h3>\n
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Ao dar-lhe espa\u00e7o, evita parecer carente e testa o seu verdadeiro interesse por si. Se ele gosta mesmo de ti<\/a>ele dar\u00e1 o pr\u00f3ximo passo.<\/p>\nPe\u00e7a-lhe a sua opini\u00e3o sincera<\/h3>\n
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If his behavior is really bugging you and you want to find out the truth, be open and direct and ask him why he\u2019s acting like that?<\/p>\nContinuar o jogo<\/h3>\n
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Se achas que a fa\u00edsca ainda existe, apesar do comportamento dele, continua a jogar o jogo. Faz com que ele te persiga<\/a>. Show him you don\u2019t need him.<\/p>\nNo seu todo<\/h2>\n
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I hope I\u2019ve given you an answer to the question \u201cwhy do guys distance themselves after intimacy?\u201d and that now you know how to deal with it.<\/p>\n
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