{"id":64682,"date":"2020-04-21T08:21:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T08:21:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64682"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:29:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:29:09","slug":"estas-com-o-tipo-errado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estas-com-o-tipo-errado\/","title":{"rendered":"O namoro moderno n\u00e3o \u00e9 mau, s\u00f3 est\u00e1 com o tipo errado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Seja com quem for que fales, todos te dir\u00e3o que namoro na era moderna<\/span><\/a> \u00e9 o pior pesadelo.<\/p>\n

Rarely anyone knows what\u2019s going on in their lives, everyone sleeps around, and almost no one is in a real relationship.<\/p>\n

Sounds familiar, right? After all, you\u2019re the one who is fighting the same battles with your so-called boyfriend as well.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tem sido assim desde o primeiro dia. You\u2019ve been trapped in a seemingly endless circle of make-ups and breakups, vanity games, tears, laughter, and a whole rollercoaster of emotions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Isto tem continuado a acontecer at\u00e9 hoje. Este homem continua a deixar-te e a voltar quando lhe apetece.<\/p>\n

Silly you, you always take him back. After all, you\u2019re the one who agreed to this kind of relationship the first time when you took his sorry ass back, even though you should have sent him to hell.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The worst part is that you\u2019re perfectly aware of how things are. Yes, you hope that he will change, but you don\u2019t deceive yourself believing in his faithfulness and loyalty.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In fact, he probably keeps on seeing other girls and you don\u2019t know where he spends most of his time. You\u2019re in no way involved in his life and you don\u2019t feel a part of it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve spent months trying to get to the bottom of his feelings and your main occupation in life has become decoding this guy\u2019s mixed signals.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Your entire existence has turned into waiting for him to remember that you exist \u2013 for him to text you or show the slightest sign of affection.<\/p>\n

Depois de todo este tempo, you\u2019re not even sure whether he is playing mind games with you or just doesn\u2019t care.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Estar\u00e1 ele a fazer-se de dif\u00edcil porque quer que se apaixone ainda mais por ele? Ou ser\u00e1 que ele n\u00e3o quer ser apanhado porque quer continuar a ser um jogador?<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

\u00c9 um fobia de compromissos<\/span><\/a> ou ele simplesmente n\u00e3o quer comprometer-se consigo?<\/p>\n

Is it true that he doesn\u2019t believe in labeling things? Or does he not want to get exclusive so he can have an excuse to keep on cheating on you?<\/p>\n

It would be logical to ask him all of these questions, right? Well, sadly, that\u2019s not possible.<\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>\n

First of all, you\u2019re not his girlfriend. Besides, the truth is you\u2019re too scared you\u2019ll chase him away if you open your heart to him.<\/p>\n

So, you accept this kind of almost relationship and pretend you\u2019re perfectly okay with it. You act like you couldn\u2019t care less about him either.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you\u2019re just trying to fit in.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Everyone around you lives similar lives, so there must be something wrong with you if you\u2019re the only one who can\u2019t seem to cope with the practices of modern dating.<\/p>\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos uma verdade que abre os olhos. Modern dating doesn\u2019t actually suck \u2013 your boyfriend does.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You see, when you find the right person, the age in which you meet becomes completely irrelevant. When someone loves you, he doesn\u2019t care about trends and society.<\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>\n

Basicamente, this guy you\u2019re with is a jerk and he would be one in all eras.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He\u2019s just using modern dating as an excuse. He\u2019s using it to justify his lack of emotions and morals.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se ele te amasse<\/span><\/a>, he wouldn\u2019t have treated you this way. He would respect you and give you the place you deserve in his life.<\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>\n

Se ele fosse um homem a s\u00e9rio, nunca usaria o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o bondoso. Nunca magoaria deliberadamente os teus sentimentos e dar-te-ia o que mereces.<\/p>\n

If this guy was mature enough, he wouldn\u2019t have the need to boost his ego this way. He wouldn\u2019t have to humiliate you in order to feel like more of a man.<\/p>\n

Se ele quisesse estar consigo a s\u00e9rio, t\u00ea-lo-ia feito.<\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso e ser fiel a uma s\u00f3 pessoa nunca passa de moda.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t blame modern dating for your pseudo-relationship. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Culpa o pirralho imaturo que tens ao teu lado e, no final do dia, culpa as tuas m\u00e1s escolhas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Whoever you talk to, everyone will tell you that dating in the modern age is the worst nightmare. Rarely anyone knows what\u2019s going on in their lives, everyone sleeps around, and almost no one is in a real relationship. Sounds familiar, right? After all, you\u2019re the one who is fighting the same battles with your…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":64692,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-64682","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Modern-Dating-Doesn\u2019t-Suck-You\u2019re-Just-With-The-Wrong-Guy.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64682","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64682"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64682\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/64692"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64682"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64682"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64682"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}