{"id":64717,"date":"2020-04-25T22:14:33","date_gmt":"2020-04-25T22:14:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64717"},"modified":"2022-06-22T23:12:39","modified_gmt":"2022-06-22T23:12:39","slug":"como-iniciar-uma-conversa-no-tinder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-iniciar-uma-conversa-no-tinder\/","title":{"rendered":"Como iniciar uma conversa no Tinder e faz\u00ea-lo bem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So you\u2019re wondering how to start a conversation on Tinder? You&#8217;re at the right place!<\/p>\n<p>Online dating sites have revolutionized the dating game. Dating apps like Tinder or Bumble are the new places to be and find your soulmate (or hookups if that&#8217;s your thing).<\/p>\n<p>After swiping right and getting matched, you feel a wave of satisfaction \u2013 yay! But after that comes the nerve-wracking part \u2013 you wonder what to write to your Tinder match.<\/p>\n<p>A primeira mensagem pode ser decisiva ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64725 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente sentada no sof\u00e1 enquanto segura o computador port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A good or bad outcome is often based on initial impressions, so you don&#8217;t want to mess it up. Conversation starters are such a big deal!<\/p>\n<p>Claro que h\u00e1 diferentes formas de dar o primeiro passo. Depende de si e da forma como v\u00ea a outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re a funny person and you think your match will appreciate it, try go with something witty. If you think they&#8217;re more into flirty opening lines, start with something coquettish.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, tudo o que \u00e9 preciso fazer \u00e9 simplesmente dizer ol\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65661 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-applewatch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com apple watch a tocar no iPad\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-applewatch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-applewatch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-applewatch-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whatever you choose to write, keep it honest and try to match the words with your personality or else you&#8217;re going to get caught up and end with an <em>n\u00e3o coincidir<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you&#8217;re looking for some ideas on how to start a Tinder conversation, here&#8217;s a simple guide with very unobtrusive and interesting questions that can start up a good conversation and lead to a meet up in real life. And that&#8217;s what we want, right?<\/p>\n<h2>1. Comece com um elogio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64727 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-lying-on-the-floor-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher deitada no ch\u00e3o enquanto olha para o smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-lying-on-the-floor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-lying-on-the-floor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-lying-on-the-floor-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s good to start simple and friendly. If you noticed something notable in your match&#8217;s pictures, try to bring that up in the first Tinder message.<\/p>\n<p>Do they have a photo of their dog or cat or maybe some beautiful location you haven&#8217;t seen before? Maybe a themed party or picture with food?<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e1 em frente e fa\u00e7a um elogio. Toda a gente gosta de elogios e de saber que algu\u00e9m est\u00e1 a prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65663 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-holding-iPad.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente a segurar um iPad ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"559\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-holding-iPad.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-holding-iPad-300x210.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-holding-iPad-768x537.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Exemplos:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 That mountain photo is so amazing! Looks like it was a beautiful day, was it?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 You have the cutest cat! It&#8217;s yours, right?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Saw your BandName shirt. I love them too! What&#8217;s your favorite song?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Wow! I love your second photo. Where was that taken? I want to go.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 That superhero look looks really good on you. Do you like comic book movies or was it just a Halloween thing?<\/p>\n<h2>2. Fazer uma pergunta casual<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64728 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-smartphone-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a utilizar o smartphone em dourado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-smartphone-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-smartphone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-smartphone-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your Tinder match doesn&#8217;t have enough content on their profile, you obviously can&#8217;t be too specific. That doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t start things off with something good.<\/p>\n<p>Mantenha a sua abertura no Tinder casual e atenciosa.<\/p>\n<p>Exemplos:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Hey! How&#8217;s Monday treating you?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Hey, what&#8217;s up? Planning to do anything fun this week?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Hey, hope you&#8217;re having a happy Friday. How\u2019s it going so far?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 How are things going with you this week?<\/p>\n<h2>3. Inspirar-se nas informa\u00e7\u00f5es do perfil<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64731 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-laughing-while-looking-at-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"tr\u00eas mulheres a rir enquanto olham para um smartphone perto de um campo de flores\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-laughing-while-looking-at-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-laughing-while-looking-at-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-laughing-while-looking-at-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If nothing stands out or there&#8217;s not a ton on your match&#8217;s profile, you can comment on their location, education, or job, and then make follow-up questions inspired by their answers.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s enough just to start somewhere and then build up the convo from there.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65673 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beard-man-in-black-suit.jpg\" alt=\"homem barbudo de fato preto sentado num sof\u00e1 branco\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beard-man-in-black-suit.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beard-man-in-black-suit-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beard-man-in-black-suit-768x515.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beard-man-in-black-suit-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Exemplos:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Wow, never met anyone who works at JobName. You like your job?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 I&#8217;ve heard of CompanyName. It seems like a cool place to work at! Is it?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Hey! I&#8217;m new to the area, have you lived here a while?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 I see you&#8217;re from LocationName. How do you like it there?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Saw you went to the same school as my friend did! What year?<\/p>\n<h2>4. Come\u00e7ar a namoriscar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64733 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-black-shirt-standing-while-looking-at-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"homem de camisa preta de p\u00e9 enquanto olha para um smartphone com um copo na m\u00e3o esquerda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-black-shirt-standing-while-looking-at-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-black-shirt-standing-while-looking-at-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-black-shirt-standing-while-looking-at-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If there&#8217;s any place where it&#8217;s desirable to be flirty, it&#8217;s Tinder, but, of course, everything should be done tastefully.<\/p>\n<p>The opening message can be a pickup line \u2013 just make sure it&#8217;s not too much or cheesy because that can be a turn-off. You really don&#8217;t want that. Instead, be subtle yet be a tease.<\/p>\n<p>Exemplos:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 I&#8217;ve had a crush on you for 2 hours.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Is your personality as angelic as your hair?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Believe in love at first swipe?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 You&#8217;ve got the best smile on Tinder. What makes it come out the most?<\/p>\n<h2>5. Uma pergunta aleat\u00f3ria, interessante e cativante<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64735 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/white-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"smartphone branco rodeado de \u00edcones de notifica\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/white-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/white-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/white-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se notar que o seu par \u00e9 o tipo de rapariga ou rapaz que tem um bom sentido de humor, experimente um in\u00edcio de conversa no Tinder mais descontra\u00eddo.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re definitely going to make a good first impression with something like that rather than a bland and boring question.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65672 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-coat-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de casaco castanho com iPad na m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-coat-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-coat-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-coat-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Exemplos:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Hey, I was wondering where can I get the best fried chicken in town?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Are you more of a Marvel or DC type, and if you&#8217;re more DC \u2013 why?!<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 On a scale of one to America, how free are you tonight?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What do I have to do to get on your drunk dial list?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What\u2019s your favorite Keanu Reeves movie?<\/p>\n<h2>6. Enviar um GIF<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64738 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-man-with-backpack-holding-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"homem sorridente com mochila e smartphone na floresta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-man-with-backpack-holding-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-man-with-backpack-holding-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-man-with-backpack-holding-smartphone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re feeling uninspired, just send them a funny GIF and make them lol. Try to choose something relevant based on their preferences or maybe a funny remark on online dating.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody likes GIFs and everybody uses them. It&#8217;s proven that GIFs boost your response rate by 30% and that ensuing conversation lasts longer than average.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64740 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-lying-on-green-grass.jpg\" alt=\"homem de camisa branca deitado na relva verde enquanto utiliza um smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-lying-on-green-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-lying-on-green-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-lying-on-green-grass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s some good news because it means you don&#8217;t even have to come up with a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/melhores-abridores-do-tinder\/\">Linha de abertura de conversa no Tinder<\/a>. B\u00f3nus!<\/p>\n<p>Para al\u00e9m destes guias de perguntas, eis algumas regras e conselhos gerais e pr\u00e1ticos a seguir quando se trata do Tinder e de garantir que faz o swipe certo.<\/p>\n<h2>N\u00e3o se limite a <em>ei<\/em>.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65664 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-cardigan.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de casaco de malha cinzento a falar ao telefone enquanto segura o iPad\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-cardigan.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-cardigan-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-cardigan-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is the most boring thing you can do. And no, an emoji won&#8217;t help you either.<\/p>\n<p>Existem muitas op\u00e7\u00f5es e formas de iniciar uma conversa interessante com uma rapariga ou um rapaz de quem gostamos, pelo que nunca devemos optar por uma conversa fraca <em>ei<\/em> ou hi ou qualquer outra vers\u00e3o da mesma coisa.<\/p>\n<p>Hey is considered lazy and unengaged. When you just type one greeting word, that means you&#8217;re letting your match come up with a question and do all the work. That&#8217;s not very attractive.<\/p>\n<p>Your match may feel like you&#8217;re not really interested. If you&#8217;re not really interested, what&#8217;s the point?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure we can all do better than that. If you want that first date, show it.<\/p>\n<h2>Fazer perguntas a que todos queiram responder.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64742 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada numa cadeira ao ar livre enquanto utiliza um smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-outdoor-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s in human nature to love exploring ourselves and feeling special and understood. Ever wondered why online quizzes are so popular?<\/p>\n<p>As pessoas adoram poder relacionar-se com algo.<\/p>\n<p>Tamb\u00e9m gostam de mostrar a sua singularidade sem medo de parecerem egoc\u00eantricos.<\/p>\n<p>Pode utilizar esta carater\u00edstica em seu benef\u00edcio e fazer as perguntas mais interessantes! Podem ser engra\u00e7adas ou espec\u00edficas de alguma forma.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64743 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-dress-sitting-on-lazy-bag.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de vestido preto sentada num saco pregui\u00e7oso enquanto utiliza um smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-dress-sitting-on-lazy-bag.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-dress-sitting-on-lazy-bag-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-dress-sitting-on-lazy-bag-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Leia as suas biografias no Tinder e pesquise os seus perfis para saber mais sobre eles.<\/p>\n<p>After that, think about the things that might be interesting to them. Make a guess about their favorite genre of movies or music \u2013 maybe even ask them what they are?<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s something many people are passionate about. It&#8217;s also a way to evoke emotion and make a connection on an emotional level.<\/p>\n<h2>Seja breve.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65665 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-2.jpg\" alt=\"homem de camisa branca com um iPad na m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Conversation starters don&#8217;t have to be long by any means. In fact, it&#8217;s better if they are shorter. Writing long questions can feel too serious or like you&#8217;re trying too hard.<\/p>\n<p>Mantenha-as curtas e cativantes! Preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s respostas e baseie nelas a sua pr\u00f3xima pergunta.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s how to start a conversation on Tinder that will get you somewhere.<\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re on your first date there&#8217;s going to be enough time to talk about everything you want to say. Until then, just keep questions interesting and short \u2013 and keep \u2018em coming!<\/p>\n<h2>Don\u2019t make them feel awkward.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64744 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-gray-coat.jpg\" alt=\"homem de casaco cinzento a utilizar um smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-gray-coat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-gray-coat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-gray-coat-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be that screenshot they will send to their friend with question marks above their heads. No! Avoid sending risky messages at the start. Take time to not make them feel awkward.<\/p>\n<p>You always need to be respectful. Everything can be done tastefully. Don&#8217;t ask questions that are too personal, don&#8217;t start conversations by saying their name, and don&#8217;t be offensive.<\/p>\n<p>Pense na sua mensagem e no seu impacto num estranho. Gostaria que lhe perguntassem isso?<\/p>\n<h2>Mostre que est\u00e1 interessado.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64745 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-orange-turtleneck-sweater.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher com camisola de gola alta laranja segurando um smartphone preto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-orange-turtleneck-sweater.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-orange-turtleneck-sweater-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-orange-turtleneck-sweater-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Make sure you read their whole Tinder profile and then make sure to be prepared for good conversation. If you want to get their phone number, you have to show some effort. Don&#8217;t stop writing after one line of <em>haha<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Se gostares deles, continua a conversa.<\/p>\n<p>There are many people on Tinder and it&#8217;s a very competitive place. If you see something you want, make sure to keep it and eventually turn in into something more \u2013 because if you don&#8217;t, somebody else will.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65666 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-black-t-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"homem de camisa preta a utilizar um computador\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-black-t-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-black-t-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-black-t-shirt-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t put emphasis on their looks. Make them feel more comfortable and ask them to talk about their interests or something they experienced.<\/p>\n<p>Por exemplo, o local onde a fotografia foi tirada ou algo do g\u00e9nero.<\/p>\n<h2>Evitar a c\u00f3pia.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64747 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-glass-mug-.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar uma caneca de vidro enquanto est\u00e1 sentada ao lado de uma mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-glass-mug-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-glass-mug--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-glass-mug--768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Everything that\u2019s been said here isn&#8217;t for mere copy-pasting \u2013 it&#8217;s just inspiration for your own version. Make every question personalized. Don&#8217;t copy because they will know.<\/p>\n<p>There are probably tons of guys of girls who think just like you. You don&#8217;t want to be the 10th person who sent them the same opening line. That&#8217;s a hard no.<\/p>\n<p>Crie a sua pr\u00f3pria frase e fa\u00e7a-os sentir-se especiais.<\/p>\n<h2>Desperte uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o emocional sem ser demasiado pessoal.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64748 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-sweater-holding-white-cellphone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisola vermelha segurando um telem\u00f3vel branco enquanto est\u00e1 sentada ao lado de uma mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-sweater-holding-white-cellphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-sweater-holding-white-cellphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-sweater-holding-white-cellphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you make your Tinder match feel something when they read your question, that means you made an instant connection. It&#8217;s more likely they&#8217;re going to take time when replying.<\/p>\n<p>Pergunte-lhes qual \u00e9 a sua sobremesa preferida, o seu programa de televis\u00e3o ou as suas f\u00e9rias ideais. Toda a gente adora pensar nisso! Traz automaticamente recorda\u00e7\u00f5es felizes.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se do que aprendeu sobre eles e utilize-o mais tarde como refer\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<h2>S\u00ea quem tu \u00e9s.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65668 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-5.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada numa cadeira enquanto utiliza o iPad\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-5-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the most important things! Don&#8217;t fake anything. Be authentic. Don&#8217;t change your answers and yourself just to impress a person you don&#8217;t even know.<\/p>\n<p>What for? If they&#8217;re right for you, they\u2019ll want to see the real you.<\/p>\n<p>If you see they&#8217;re interested in something you&#8217;re not, don&#8217;t start the conversation on that topic.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no point in talking about something you&#8217;re not so familiar with or don&#8217;t care for. Try to ask questions and find something you both are interested in.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Don&#8217;t overthink<\/strong> e<strong> clicar em enviar.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64751 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-biting-pencil-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a morder um l\u00e1pis enquanto est\u00e1 sentada numa cadeira em frente ao computador\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-biting-pencil-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-biting-pencil-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-biting-pencil-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s okay to be careful and thoughtful, but overthinking is something else. There&#8217;s no need to be that nervous when it comes to online dating.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody on Tinder is obviously there for similar reasons, so you&#8217;re not different from anybody else. Don&#8217;t take everything so seriously, relax instead. Relax and have a good time. That&#8217;s what Tinder&#8217;s for!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65669 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-crew-neck-t-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"homem de t-shirt branca com gola redonda e \u00f3culos de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-crew-neck-t-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-crew-neck-t-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-crew-neck-t-shirt-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s okay to get rejected, it&#8217;s even okay to be ghosted. If someone doesn\u2019t answer your message, don&#8217;t take it personally.<\/p>\n<p>After all, they don&#8217;t even know you and you don&#8217;t know the reason they didn&#8217;t answer.<\/p>\n<p>Deixe-o ir, carregue no bot\u00e3o enviar e divirta-se.<\/p>\n<h2>Tenta ser paciente.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64752 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada no sof\u00e1 enquanto utiliza o computador port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x515.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-the-couch-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you hit the send button, sit back and forget about it. It&#8217;s important to be patient in this kind of situation. There are a million reasons your match isn&#8217;t answering right away.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they&#8217;re in the middle of something, maybe they&#8217;re having a bad week, or maybe they don&#8217;t open the app that much. Who knows?<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, you can&#8217;t control any of it, so why think about it? Be patient and do what you think is best.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64753 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-drinking-glass.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com um smartphone na m\u00e3o e um copo na m\u00e3o, sentada ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-drinking-glass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-drinking-glass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-drinking-glass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Also, don&#8217;t go and send more questions after the initial unanswered question, it&#8217;s more likely to stay unanswered that way.<\/p>\n<p>Depois de iniciarem a conversa, se repararem que o vosso par gosta de responder a perguntas com significado, podem tentar responder a perguntas que vos fa\u00e7am apaixonar.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking about the kind of questions you ask to get to know a person on a deeper level.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66146 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-using-tablet-computer.jpg\" alt=\"homem de camisa branca a utilizar um computador tablet enquanto est\u00e1 sentado ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-using-tablet-computer.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-using-tablet-computer-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-using-tablet-computer-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por exemplo:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Which <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/letras-de-cancoes-para-legendas\/\">letra de m\u00fasica<\/a> teve o maior impacto em si?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What\u2019s the most childish thing you still love to do?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What bad habit have you managed to break?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What couple do you look up to?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What would constitute a perfect day for you?<\/p>\n<p>Se gosta deste tipo de perguntas, consulte <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/100-perguntas-ao-homem-para-o-conhecer-melhor\/\">esta lista<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64754 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-iPhone.jpg\" alt=\"pessoa a segurar o iPhone enquanto utiliza a aplica\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-iPhone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-iPhone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-iPhone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Afinal, as conversas no Tinder n\u00e3o s\u00e3o assim t\u00e3o diferentes das conversas na vida real. Aplica-se o mesmo processo.<\/p>\n<p>Primeiro, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio fazer a intera\u00e7\u00e3o inicial com uma sauda\u00e7\u00e3o e uma pergunta ou frase de engate relevante e, depois, continuar a fazer perguntas com base nas respostas. \u00c9 necess\u00e1rio ser respeitoso e mostrar interesse no que est\u00e3o a dizer.<\/p>\n<p>Some people will like you, others won&#8217;t bother \u2013 you shouldn&#8217;t be stressed about it. A quarter of the users said they\u2019ve been ghosted in the past, while a fifth said they\u2019ve ghosted another individual.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65670 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-grey-shirt-using-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisa cinzenta a usar o smartphone na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-grey-shirt-using-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-grey-shirt-using-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-grey-shirt-using-smartphone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s how the app is made and everyone is different anyway. However, if they like you, ask them meaningful questions to make them more comfortable and open up.<\/p>\n<p>For some people dating apps can be overwhelming. The whole concept of swiping left or right is unacceptable to some. And that&#8217;s okay too.<\/p>\n<p>Seeing someone&#8217;s picture isn&#8217;t enough to capture the whole person, since you&#8217;re looking only at their physical looks.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66136 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-green-sweater.jpg\" alt=\"homem com camisola verde a utilizar um computador port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-green-sweater.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-green-sweater-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-green-sweater-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are many invisible elements of attractiveness, like the tone of someone\u2019s voice, how often they make eye contact, the way they move and laugh. This means that a chance for real connection still depends on a physical date and chemistry.<\/p>\n<p>Everything that has been said here can change your life or just be fun, it&#8217;s for you to decide. Either way, you&#8217;ll need to know how to start a conversation on Tinder and this is how you do it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64763 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Como iniciar uma conversa no Tinder e faz\u00ea-lo bem\" width=\"800\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right-Pinterest.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So you\u2019re wondering how to start a conversation on Tinder? You&#8217;re at the right place! Online dating sites have revolutionized the dating game. Dating apps like Tinder or Bumble are the new places to be and find your soulmate (or hookups if that&#8217;s your thing). After swiping right and getting matched, you feel a wave&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":64718,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29640],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-64717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29640,"label":"seducing women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right.jpg",800,537,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29640,"name":"seducing women","slug":"seducing-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29640,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing women requires a unique set of skills and mastering lots of dating tips. 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