{"id":64768,"date":"2020-04-23T18:13:14","date_gmt":"2020-04-23T18:13:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64768"},"modified":"2022-01-12T21:26:40","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T21:26:40","slug":"odeio-o-meu-namorado-6-razoes-possiveis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/odeio-o-meu-namorado-6-razoes-possiveis\/","title":{"rendered":"Odeio o meu namorado: 6 poss\u00edveis raz\u00f5es para isso (e o que fazer)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everything he says or does annoys you, his habits are driving you crazy, you can&#8217;t look him in the eyes without feeling discomfort, and all you can think is: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Odeio o meu namorado<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t know when or how this happened, but you know that nothing is the same anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66278 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-embracing-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga a abra\u00e7ar um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-embracing-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-embracing-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-embracing-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o a faz feliz e o sentimento de impot\u00eancia invade o seu corpo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele costumava ser o seu <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/tudo-o-que-eu-realmente-quero-e-um-amante-que-seja-tambem-o-meu-melhor-amigo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor amigo<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O seu parceiro no crime e um namorado fant\u00e1stico, mas agora quer que algu\u00e9m lhe explique o que mudou exatamente.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Como \u00e9 que come\u00e7aste a odiar o teu namorado? Aconteceu de um dia para o outro?&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66279 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/thoughtful-woman-standing-in-the-kitchen.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa de p\u00e9 na cozinha\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/thoughtful-woman-standing-in-the-kitchen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/thoughtful-woman-standing-in-the-kitchen-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/thoughtful-woman-standing-in-the-kitchen-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/thoughtful-woman-standing-in-the-kitchen-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qual \u00e9 a verdadeira raz\u00e3o pela qual j\u00e1 n\u00e3o o v\u00ea da mesma forma que antes? E, mais importante, o que \u00e9 que pode fazer em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To these, and many other questions, you&#8217;ll find the answers below:<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>1. Odeia-o pelo que ele fez\/faz ou por quem ele \u00e9?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66321 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-getting-angry-at-her-man.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga zangada com o seu homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-getting-angry-at-her-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-getting-angry-at-her-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-getting-angry-at-her-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re probably familiar with that wise, old saying: &#8220;There&#8217;s a reason behind every action.&#8221;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s also a reason why you hate your boyfriend, and you need to ask yourself whether you hate him for what he did or does, or for who he is?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Simply put, you need to ask yourself whether you hate him for his actions or you hate him as a person, because there&#8217;s a big difference between the two.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele enganou-a, mentiu-lhe, manipulou-a ou tomou-a por garantida? Foi v\u00edtima de <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-tacticas-que-os-abusadores-emocionais-usam-para-manter-o-controlo-numa-relacao\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abuso emocional<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66280 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-covering-her-head-with-hands-while-her-man-sits-next-to-her.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a cobrir a cabe\u00e7a com as m\u00e3os enquanto o seu homem se senta ao seu lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-covering-her-head-with-hands-while-her-man-sits-next-to-her.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-covering-her-head-with-hands-while-her-man-sits-next-to-her-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-covering-her-head-with-hands-while-her-man-sits-next-to-her-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Has he stopped making an effort in the relationship and now you&#8217;re the only one trying to save what&#8217;s left of it?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you hate him for all that, or do you hate him for some other reasons that you can&#8217;t put into words?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you can&#8217;t think of any other reason why you hate him, chances are you no longer like him as a person (or you never even liked him). <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>O QUE FAZER<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66328 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-look-thoughtful.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com ar pensativo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-look-thoughtful.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-look-thoughtful-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-look-thoughtful-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every relationship has its ups and downs and overcoming them is the ultimate goal. If you hate him for his actions and it&#8217;s evident that his behaviour has changed for the worse, tell him so.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you still feel hurt about something he did to you, don&#8217;t pretend that everything is okay because it&#8217;s not.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s normal to feel hatred toward him for treating you like shit and you should let him know how you feel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66296 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-talking-at-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-talking-at-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-talking-at-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-talking-at-cafe-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Diga-lhe o que realmente sente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es e tente encontrar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tudo \u00e9 poss\u00edvel se a pessoa estiver disposta a mudar. Sabe o que se diz: <\/span><b>&#8220;Where there is a will, there is a way&#8221;!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, if you hate him as a person, there&#8217;s not much you can do about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Significa que o odeias pelo que ele \u00e9. Odeia a sua maneira de pensar, de respirar e os seus h\u00e1bitos est\u00e3o a deix\u00e1-la louca.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66281 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-arguing-in-the-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Casal a discutir no caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-arguing-in-the-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-arguing-in-the-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-arguing-in-the-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It means you don&#8217;t like his vibe and his personality and that&#8217;s why you feel like you hate him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You don&#8217;t really hate him, but it&#8217;s evident that you don&#8217;t like him. In that case, a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">romper<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 muitas vezes inevit\u00e1vel (a n\u00e3o ser que comeces a gostar dele (outra vez)).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>2. Tem expectativas elevadas ou irrealistas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu parceiro?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66325 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-couple-sitting-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"casal de namorados sentado em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-couple-sitting-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-couple-sitting-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-couple-sitting-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He doesn&#8217;t spend <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tempo suficiente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with you (according to your standards), he doesn&#8217;t share your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">interesses sexuais<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, estados de esp\u00edrito ou interesses. Ele nunca ou raramente escreve <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/as-frases-mais-bonitas-para-ele-e-para-ela\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eu amo-te<\/span><\/i><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sobre <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">redes sociais<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando ele n\u00e3o faz algo que se espera dele, a \u00fanica coisa que se pode pensar \u00e9: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">odiar-vos<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">! <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando ele cumpre os teus padr\u00f5es, a \u00fanica coisa que consegues pensar \u00e9: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eu amo-te<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Your moods shift in accordance with his ability to meet your expectations and that&#8217;s the biggest <\/b><b>sinal de aviso<\/b><b> que tem expectativas irrealistas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66295 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-2.jpg\" alt=\"casal chateado a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acha que ele deve passar todo o seu tempo livre ou cada <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">um \u00fanico dia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> consigo?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Achas que ele deve concordar com tudo o que tu queres na rela\u00e7\u00e3o porque a prioridade dele deve ser fazer-te feliz?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sente-se devastada e tra\u00edda quando ele se recusa ou se esquece de fazer algo que voc\u00ea queria que ele fizesse? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If yes, then you&#8217;re suffering from a syndrome called &#8220;having unrealistic expectations of a partner in a relationship&#8221;.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>O QUE FAZER<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66300 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"um homem abra\u00e7ou a sua namorada triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Antes de mais, \u00e9 preciso compreender que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-regras-de-relacionamento-a-seguir-se-quiser-ter-uma-vida-amorosa-feliz\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> n\u00e3o se trata de passar todo o tempo juntos ou de esperar que o seu parceiro fa\u00e7a tudo a seu gosto.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rather, it is about also having your own lives outside the relationship and respecting each other&#8217;s wishes and differences.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> That&#8217;s how every healthy <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00f5es funcionam<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Compromisso, compreens\u00e3o, paci\u00eancia.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66299 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face..jpg\" alt=\"Um casal de ra\u00e7as misturadas frente a frente.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face..jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face.-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face.-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gastar um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">muito tempo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> com o seu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">outra pessoa significativa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou que satisfa\u00e7am todas as suas expectativas n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma receita para a felicidade. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is a recipe for disaster &#8211; and that&#8217;s the main reason why you feel hatred toward him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You hate him because he&#8217;s incapable of filling the role you want for him.&nbsp; <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o t\u00eam a ver com pap\u00e9is ou expectativas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66317 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties.jpg\" alt=\"Casal jovem com dificuldades de relacionamento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They&#8217;re about understanding each other&#8217;s wishes and needs, being patient, and being willing to compromise instead of imposing your own regimen.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando perceberes tudo isto, a tua perspetiva mudar\u00e1 completamente. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">J\u00e1 n\u00e3o odiar\u00e1 o seu parceiro por n\u00e3o corresponder \u00e0s suas expectativas, mas dar-lhe-\u00e1 algum espa\u00e7o para se exprimir e sentir-se livre para ser quem realmente \u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>3. \u00c9 muito sens\u00edvel, <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/apaixonar-se-rapariga-emocional-mente-ansiosa-saber\/\"><b>ansioso<\/b><\/a><b> ou deprimido?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66329 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-hugging-pillow-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a abra\u00e7ar uma almofada em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-hugging-pillow-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-hugging-pillow-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-hugging-pillow-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sa\u00fade mental<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> desempenha um papel crucial em todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es. Como algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 altamente sens\u00edvel e sofre de dist\u00farbios de ansiedade, posso dizer com certeza que isso pode influenciar muito o nosso comportamento e a perce\u00e7\u00e3o dos nossos parceiros.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-maneiras-como-ser-uma-mulher-altamente-sensivel-afecta-a-sua-relacao\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">altamente sens\u00edvel<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, cada coisa que eles fazem vai deixar-te louco. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You will hate all kinds of sounds they make while they&#8217;re sleeping (not to mention their snoring).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66302 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-have-a-problem-with-her-man-in-bedroom-1.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher triste tem um problema com o seu homem no quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-have-a-problem-with-her-man-in-bedroom-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-have-a-problem-with-her-man-in-bedroom-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-have-a-problem-with-her-man-in-bedroom-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Detestar\u00e1 a forma como come\u00e7am a mexer-se quando v\u00eaem televis\u00e3o juntos e, por vezes, detestar\u00e1 mesmo a forma como respiram quando est\u00e3o sentados ao seu lado.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tudo isto varia consoante o n\u00edvel da sua sensibilidade. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nenhum dia \u00e9 igual ao outro e, por vezes, coisas que antes o incomodavam passam despercebidas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se sofre de ansiedade ou de depress\u00e3o, por vezes culpa inconscientemente o seu parceiro por isso.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66303 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-holding-cup-and-thinking-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste com uma ch\u00e1vena na m\u00e3o e a pensar em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-holding-cup-and-thinking-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-holding-cup-and-thinking-at-home-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-holding-cup-and-thinking-at-home-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pode culp\u00e1-los por coisas triviais e pelo seu estado de esp\u00edrito atual.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando os seus n\u00edveis de ansiedade e depress\u00e3o aumentam, pode sentir \u00f3dio pelo seu parceiro sem qualquer raz\u00e3o aparente. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&#8217;re feeling sad, alone and lost, you subconsciously start observing everything from a no-so-bright perspective.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>O QUE FAZER<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66326 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-drinking-water-after-running.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a beber \u00e1gua depois de correr\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-drinking-water-after-running.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-drinking-water-after-running-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-drinking-water-after-running-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ser muito sens\u00edvel, ansioso ou deprimido \u00e9 uma condi\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria que, por vezes, tem de ser tratada com medica\u00e7\u00e3o.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No meu caso, a pr\u00e1tica de um estilo de vida saud\u00e1vel, ir ao gin\u00e1sio regularmente, comer alimentos saud\u00e1veis e exprimir-me (desenhar, escrever, cantar) ajudaram a reduzir a minha ansiedade para um n\u00edvel aceit\u00e1vel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to relationships and this specific matter, the most important thing to do is to understand your mental state; why you sometimes feel the way you&#8217;re feeling.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66304 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Portrait-of-beautiful-pensive-woman-relaxing-on-windowsill.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma mulher bonita e pensativa que relaxa no parapeito de uma janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Portrait-of-beautiful-pensive-woman-relaxing-on-windowsill.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Portrait-of-beautiful-pensive-woman-relaxing-on-windowsill-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Portrait-of-beautiful-pensive-woman-relaxing-on-windowsill-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&#8217;re able to understand that feeling sad or sensitive is not connected with your partner, but with your current state of mind, you will succeed in differentiating between the two.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hating the condition you&#8217;re in often results in hating your partner. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s important to separate these two things, stop for a moment, and ask yourself: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do I feel the way I&#8217;m feeling?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Respire fundo e pense em todas as emo\u00e7\u00f5es, sentimentos e pensamentos que passam pela sua cabe\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66305 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste deitada com a cabe\u00e7a no sof\u00e1 da sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Depois, pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio se t\u00eam alguma coisa a ver com o seu parceiro.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;ll probably realize that all this is in your head and you don&#8217;t really hate your partner &#8211; you just hate the feeling of helplessness and confusion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-saber-quando-terminar-uma-relacao\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Como saber quando <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? 20 sinais de que deve terminar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><b>4. Acha que o seu parceiro \u00e9 respons\u00e1vel pela sua felicidade?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66320 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-talking-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"casal a conversar em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-talking-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-talking-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-talking-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We often unwittingly put our happiness into someone else&#8217;s hands. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Muitas vezes pensamos que a nossa <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">outra pessoa significativa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 respons\u00e1vel pela nossa felicidade.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And when they don&#8217;t make us happy, we blame them for that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> We start to hate them and we think they&#8217;re no longer good for us.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If they can&#8217;t make us happy, they haven&#8217;t fulfilled their &#8220;duty&#8221; and we have every right to be mad at them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66307 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-the-bed-and-typing-on-their-phone.jpg\" alt=\"casal deitado na cama e a escrever no telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-the-bed-and-typing-on-their-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-the-bed-and-typing-on-their-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-the-bed-and-typing-on-their-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At least that&#8217;s what we think. But, the reality is somewhat different.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A verdade \u00e9 que a \u00fanica pessoa respons\u00e1vel pela sua felicidade \u00e9 voc\u00ea mesmo!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Baixa <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autoestima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e falta de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autoestima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can sometimes trick you into believing that you&#8217;re not capable of being happy on your own. That you need others to introduce you to the term called happiness.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Coloca o seu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bem-estar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, your feelings, and everything else in other people&#8217;s hands and you hold them responsible if they fail to make you happy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>O QUE FAZER<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66323 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-lying-on-woman-legs-while-smiling-with-her.jpg\" alt=\"homem deitado nas pernas de uma mulher enquanto sorri para ela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-lying-on-woman-legs-while-smiling-with-her.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-lying-on-woman-legs-while-smiling-with-her-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-lying-on-woman-legs-while-smiling-with-her-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se pensa que o seu parceiro \u00e9 respons\u00e1vel pela sua felicidade, precisa de come\u00e7ar a trabalhar para abra\u00e7ar e compreender o seu verdadeiro eu. Tu \u00e9s suficiente!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You need to understand that you&#8217;re perfectly capable of being happy on your own and you should never put your own happiness in the hands of others.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&#8217;t mean they shouldn&#8217;t make you happy. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mas isso deve ser o resultado da sua vontade e n\u00e3o uma necessidade.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66308 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/emotionless-young-couple-leaning-against-each-other-while-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal sem emo\u00e7\u00e3o encostado um ao outro, sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/emotionless-young-couple-leaning-against-each-other-while-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/emotionless-young-couple-leaning-against-each-other-while-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/emotionless-young-couple-leaning-against-each-other-while-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O seu parceiro \u00e9 um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ser humano<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> que n\u00e3o \u00e9 obrigado a fazer-te feliz, mas que quer fazer-te feliz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And there&#8217;s a huge difference between the two. When you think of it as a must, it creates hatred and frustration.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Mas, quando se pensa nisso como um presente, cria-se compreens\u00e3o e apre\u00e7o.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>5. Concordas com o seu estilo de vida?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66319 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-replacing-chair-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"casal a substituir a cadeira em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-replacing-chair-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-replacing-chair-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-replacing-chair-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu queres ir correr, mas ele quer brincar <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">jogos de v\u00eddeo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O seu dia est\u00e1 cheio de actividades e obriga\u00e7\u00f5es divertidas, enquanto a principal ocupa\u00e7\u00e3o dele \u00e9 deitar-se no sof\u00e1 e ver Netflix.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re trying your best to live a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/estilo-de-vida-holistico-15-maneiras-simples-de-viver-uma-vida-saudavel-e-feliz\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">estilo de vida hol\u00edstico<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, comer alimentos saud\u00e1veis, fazer exerc\u00edcio e melhorar a sua sa\u00fade, enquanto <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-meu-namorado-e-aborrecido\/\">o teu namorado aborrecido<\/a> \u00e9 passar pela vida com o m\u00ednimo de esfor\u00e7o e vontade.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ve become disappointed in his way of living and the first thing to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aparecer<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> no teu c\u00e9rebro \u00e9: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deus, <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Odeio o meu namorado<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66313 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-feels-sad-cause-lack-of-attention-from-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sente-se triste por falta de aten\u00e7\u00e3o do namorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-feels-sad-cause-lack-of-attention-from-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-feels-sad-cause-lack-of-attention-from-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-feels-sad-cause-lack-of-attention-from-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gostaria que ele fosse mais ativo ou que passasse menos tempo a jogar <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">jogos de v\u00eddeo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deseja que ele seja um homem a s\u00e9rio, capaz e disposto a cuidar de si pr\u00f3prio e a trabalhar sobre si pr\u00f3prio. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The longer you ignore all this and pretend it&#8217;s not a big deal, the more hatred accumulates.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t agree with his lifestyle and you wish something would change, but you don&#8217;t know how to initiate it because everything you try ends up in accusations or judging. Is there a way to deal with this successfully? Let&#8217;s see.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>O QUE FAZER<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66318 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-making-salad-together.jpg\" alt=\"casal a fazer salada juntos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-making-salad-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-making-salad-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-making-salad-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don&#8217;t agree with his lifestyle because he&#8217;s doing harm to his own <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bem-estar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> se fuma demasiado, come comida de pl\u00e1stico e \u00e9 um viciado no sof\u00e1, tem todo o direito de o reconhecer. Mas deve faz\u00ea-lo de uma forma n\u00e3o acusat\u00f3ria.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tell him that you&#8217;re worried about him and that you wish he was more productive and engaged.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Motivate him to roll up his sleeves and start working on himself, but don&#8217;t give him ultimatums.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66310 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-holding-laptop-and-talking-to-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a segurar um computador port\u00e1til e a falar com uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-holding-laptop-and-talking-to-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-holding-laptop-and-talking-to-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-holding-laptop-and-talking-to-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After you&#8217;ve tried everything, if still nothing changes and you&#8217;re not happy with his way of living, you should seriously reconsider your decision to be with him in the first place.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s hard to watch someone you care about destroying themselves without even trying to make things better.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, everyone has a right to choose their own lifestyle and if you don&#8217;t approve of it, you also have a right to choose not to put up with it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>6. Tem dificuldade em reconhecer a sua participa\u00e7\u00e3o nos conflitos?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66330 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-standing-outside-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada \u00e0 porta de casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-standing-outside-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-standing-outside-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-standing-outside-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por vezes, ficamos t\u00e3o ocupados com os nossos parceiros que n\u00e3o conseguimos reconhecer os nossos pr\u00f3prios erros.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> We give all out=r attention to what they&#8217;re doing thus missing what we are doing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acha que o seu namorado \u00e9 o \u00fanico culpado quando o conflito surge? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acha que as \u00fanicas coisas que influenciam a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o as suas palavras e ac\u00e7\u00f5es?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66312 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-woman-holding-her-head-beside-her-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher perturbada a segurar a cabe\u00e7a ao lado do seu homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-woman-holding-her-head-beside-her-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-woman-holding-her-head-beside-her-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/upset-woman-holding-her-head-beside-her-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>&#8220;It takes two to tango.&#8221; It also takes two to be in a relationship and to fight.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perhaps you hate your boyfriend because you&#8217;re convinced that he&#8217;s the main villain in your relationship and he&#8217;s the only one who should apologize after a conflict or when something bad happens.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talvez se recuse a reconhecer o seu papel, a aceitar as consequ\u00eancias dos seus actos e a pedir desculpa, se for caso disso.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>O QUE FAZER<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66324 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-floor-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente sentada no ch\u00e3o em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-floor-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-floor-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-floor-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this is the case, you need to stop thinking of your relationship as a unit where one partner is wrong and the other one is right. No one&#8217;s wrong and no one&#8217;s right.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You need to stop thinking that you&#8217;re always right and that your partner is the one to blame for everything. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o uma mistura de altos e baixos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66309 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Sad-couple-not-talking-to-each-other-after-the-argument..jpg\" alt=\"Um casal triste que n\u00e3o fala um com o outro depois de uma discuss\u00e3o.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Sad-couple-not-talking-to-each-other-after-the-argument..jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Sad-couple-not-talking-to-each-other-after-the-argument.-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Sad-couple-not-talking-to-each-other-after-the-argument.-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Both partners make mistakes and what&#8217;s important is that they apologize for it and they do their best to make things right. Effort is the keyword here.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of focusing on hating your boyfriend after every conflict, focus on trying to understand what happened and how you can make it right with mutual effort. And that&#8217;s the key to a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E a \u00faltima pergunta:<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Achas que serias mais feliz com outra pessoa? Porqu\u00ea?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66327 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-gets-flowers-from-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher recebe flores do homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-gets-flowers-from-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-gets-flowers-from-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-gets-flowers-from-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deixem-me reformular isto:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you hate your boyfriend because you&#8217;re unhappy with him or because you think there is someone better out there for you? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fantasia frequentemente com uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita com outra pessoa?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">N\u00f3s <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">seres humanos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> often forget that perfection doesn&#8217;t exist. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We get convinced that what we have in front of us is not worthy of our time and effort because there&#8217;s something better out there that won&#8217;t require fixing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66315 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-unhappy-cheerless-woman-standing-near-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste, infeliz e sem alegria perto do seu namorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-unhappy-cheerless-woman-standing-near-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-unhappy-cheerless-woman-standing-near-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-unhappy-cheerless-woman-standing-near-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Iludimo-nos a pensar que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/10-signs-of-the-grass-is-greener-syndrome-and-how-to-overcome-it\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a relva \u00e9 mais verde<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on the other side of the fence. But, it&#8217;s not.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es exigem esfor\u00e7o, sacrif\u00edcio e paci\u00eancia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A coisa mais f\u00e1cil que pode fazer \u00e9 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">romper<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with someone and hope that the next relationship won&#8217;t be so demanding.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A coisa mais f\u00e1cil que pode fazer \u00e9 repetir na sua cabe\u00e7a <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Odeio o meu namorado<\/span><\/i> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e decidir n\u00e3o fazer nada a esse respeito.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Tentar terminar uma batalha antes mesmo de ela ter come\u00e7ado \u00e9 o que fazem os soldados fracos.&nbsp;<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, you&#8217;re not like that. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re not a weak soldier.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66314 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-man-on-cheek-with-eyes-closed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a tocar na bochecha de um homem com os olhos fechados\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-man-on-cheek-with-eyes-closed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-man-on-cheek-with-eyes-closed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-touching-man-on-cheek-with-eyes-closed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re a strong woman who will do her best to find out why she&#8217;s feeling a certain way about her boyfriend, and who will try to fix things together (if you still care about saving your relationship).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all that, if you still feel like there&#8217;s something missing, you will finish your battle gracefully and like a real soldier.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You won&#8217;t dwell upon the thought &#8216;What if&#8217;. You will sail into the future with an open mind and a brave heart, knowing you did everything you could.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-resolver-uma-relacao-desfeita\/\">Como consertar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o estragada? 10 maneiras de consertar as coisas<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66212 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Hate-My-Boyfriend_-6-Possible-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Odeio o meu namorado: 6 poss\u00edveis raz\u00f5es para isso (e o que fazer)\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Hate-My-Boyfriend_-6-Possible-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Hate-My-Boyfriend_-6-Possible-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Hate-My-Boyfriend_-6-Possible-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Hate-My-Boyfriend_-6-Possible-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Hate-My-Boyfriend_-6-Possible-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Hate-My-Boyfriend_-6-Possible-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Everything he says or does annoys you, his habits are driving you crazy, you can&#8217;t look him in the eyes without feeling discomfort, and all you can think is: I hate my boyfriend. 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