{"id":64961,"date":"2020-04-21T22:30:08","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T22:30:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64961"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:54:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:54:31","slug":"rapariga-que-esta-habituada-a-despedidas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/rapariga-que-esta-habituada-a-despedidas\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que se habituou a despedidas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que te lembras, as pessoas t\u00eam-te deixado de uma forma ou de outra.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s always the same; as soon as you  <\/span>baixar a guarda<\/span><\/a> e come\u00e7ares a acreditar em algu\u00e9m, eles provam sempre que est\u00e1s errado.<\/p>\n

As soon as you get used to someone\u2019s presence, they make sure to show you it was the biggest mistake you could have made. Because people always leave and there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Deixam-nos por outra pessoa ou porque nunca gostaram suficientemente de n\u00f3s.<\/strong> They forget that you ever existed while you\u2019re stuck with your memories.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s been like this ever since you can remember, with your family, friends and, finally, with men. Sooner or later, everyone told you their final goodbye.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know why but everyone you ever loved abandoned you at one point in your life.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Deixaram-te sozinho a lutar contra os teus dem\u00f3nios e nunca ningu\u00e9m cumpriu a promessa de ficar ao teu lado para sempre.<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, estava convencido de que o problema era seu. Devia estar a fazer alguma coisa para afugentar toda a gente.<\/p>\n

Sentiu-se culpado e continuou a procurar uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o. Why couldn\u2019t you be good enough for someone to stay?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

What\u2019s wrong with you? Why do people walk away from you?<\/p>\n

Depois, passado algum tempo, habituamo-nos a isso. Isto era especialmente verdade para os rapazes; nunca lhes permitias que te enganassem e acreditassem nas suas falsas promessas.<\/p>\n

Sabia que todos os seus romances eram tempor\u00e1rio<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Que chegaria um dia em que cada um dos teus namorados te viraria as costas e te deixaria da mesma forma que todos os outros antes deles o fizeram.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sabia que a tua felicidade sempre teve um prazo de validade<\/strong>. Ent\u00e3o, aproveitaram enquanto durou.<\/p>\n

No entanto, ao mesmo tempo, estava sempre atenta. Por muito bem que as coisas estivessem a correr com algu\u00e9m, nunca se permitia relaxar demasiado.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, o fim estava sempre pr\u00f3ximo. Era muito melhor esper\u00e1-lo do que deix\u00e1-lo apanhar-nos desprevenidos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Well, even though all of this sounds sad and it definitely did change the essence of your being, let me tell you that it\u2019s not so bad being the girl who got used to goodbyes.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tens consci\u00eancia da for\u00e7a que tudo isto te deu. Todas as pessoas de quem gostaste j\u00e1 te abandonaram, por isso, o que \u00e9 que te pode magoar agora?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s imaginable for you to always get heartbroken by some unimportant guy who goes through your life with you. But basically, it is impossible for anyone\u2019s departure to destroy you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019re still hurt by your losses. However, you know that no matter who you lose, you\u2019ll always keep on living.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Getting used to goodbyes made you completely independent. It helped you realize that you don\u2019t need anyone and especially not a man to survive this harsh world.<\/p>\n

It turned you into a girl who doesn\u2019t take crap from anyone. After all, when you\u2019re aware that you can make it without your partner perfectly well, why would you put up with him?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Assim, em vez de contentar-se com menos<\/span><\/a>, you became the one who said goodbye. The one who didn\u2019t stick around and the one who left when she was not treated right.<\/p>\n

Devias estar orgulhoso de ti pr\u00f3prio por isto. Todas essas pessoas horr\u00edveis pelo menos serviram-te por alguma raz\u00e3o. Ensinaram-te a n\u00e3o ter medo das despedidas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m here to give you a different perspective on things. I\u2019m here to promise you that you don\u2019t have to get used to departures any longer.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to give you hope that one of these days, someone special will walk into your life. When he does, he\u2019ll never walk out of it again.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to tell you that when you least expect it, you\u2019ll meet a man who will never leave your side. A man who will love you, no matter what.<\/p>\n

This man\u2019s love won\u2019t be temporary. It won\u2019t have an expiration date and it will last a lifetime.<\/p>\n

I promise you one thing: When this man comes, he\u2019ll come to stay.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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