{"id":65091,"date":"2020-04-22T07:41:56","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T07:41:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65091"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:02:47","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:02:47","slug":"para-de-lutar-pelo-amor-comeca-a-lutar-por-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-de-lutar-pelo-amor-comeca-a-lutar-por-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00e1ra de lutar pelo amor, come\u00e7a a lutar por ti pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e3o vou mentir e dizer-vos que o amor rom\u00e2ntico deve ser a \u00faltima coisa em que devem pensar.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, I\u2019ll be honest and admit that it\u2019s important for every human being.<\/p>\n<p>Quer goste de o admitir ou n\u00e3o, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica saud\u00e1vel pode melhorar significativamente a qualidade da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Pode torn\u00e1-lo mais feliz e mais satisfeito.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65105 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-with-backpack.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz com mochila\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-with-backpack.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-with-backpack-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-with-backpack-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should chase it at all costs.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean you should make it the centre of your universe or that you should disregard all of your other successes just because you don\u2019t have a happy love life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It doesn\u2019t mean that you should fight for it, at the risk of destroying yourself. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Because at the end of the day, it\u2019s always better to lose a romance than to lose yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65106 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-cap-and-jacket.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de bon\u00e9 e casaco preto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-cap-and-jacket.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-cap-and-jacket-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-cap-and-jacket-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not trying to claim that a mature relationship doesn\u2019t require time, patience, and energy.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, tem de ser trabalhado. H\u00e1 mesmo quem diga que o verdadeiro amor precisa de ser combatido e que requer muitas batalhas para ser ganho.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, <strong>it is one thing to put effort into making your relationship function, it\u2019s another to put your entire life on hold just to prevent it from tearing apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Isto aplica-se especialmente se o seu namorado n\u00e3o for seu aliado e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-assim-que-sabes-que-encontraste-o-teu-parceiro-no-crime\/\">parceiro no crime<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65107 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de top preto a beber caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-drinking-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-drinking-coffee-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he is the one you\u2019re fighting against and your biggest opponent.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nesse caso,<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deixar-de-lutar-por-ele-e-ir-se-embora\/\"> deixar de lutar pelo amor<\/a> e come\u00e7a a lutar por ti<\/strong>. Because you\u2019re the one who matters more than anything.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not selfish to understand that the relationship you have with yourself is more important than any relationship you have with someone else, including your romantic partner.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65108 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com camisa castanha de manga comprida\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-shirt-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>P\u00e1ra de fazer sacrif\u00edcios para salvar este homem.<\/p>\n<p>Accept that your efforts are in vain because he doesn\u2019t want to be saved and that you can\u2019t be the one to rescue him.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, quando vires como as coisas est\u00e3o a correr, foge para salvar a tua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Salva-te, antes que seja demasiado tarde para fazer alguma coisa e antes que fiques destru\u00eddo para sempre.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65109 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-coat-wearing-headphones.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de casaco com auscultadores\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-coat-wearing-headphones.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-coat-wearing-headphones-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-coat-wearing-headphones-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Stop chasing him and accept that sadly, he doesn\u2019t want to be caught.<\/p>\n<p>Stop wasting your precious time and youth on this man who clearly isn\u2019t capable of giving you what you need and want.<\/p>\n<p>Deixar de se contentar com as migalhas da sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o porque <strong>at the end of the day, you\u2019re not actually <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/ha-uma-grande-diferenca-entre-lutar-pelo-amor-e-implorar-por-ele\/\">lutando pelo seu amor<\/a> \u2013 you\u2019re begging for it<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that: you\u2019re also losing your dignity and pride along the way. So <strong>em vez de perseguir um homem, comece a perseguir as suas ambi\u00e7\u00f5es e sonhos<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65110 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-sweater-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisola branca a pensar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-sweater-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-sweater-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-sweater-thinking-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Redirect all of your energy towards your goals and don\u2019t give up until you accomplish each one of them.<\/p>\n<p>Deixar de o colocar em primeiro lugar. Aceite o facto de que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma prioridade apenas para si, enquanto que para ele est\u00e1 sempre em segundo lugar.<\/p>\n<p>Understand that you\u2019re dealing with a selfish jerk who only thinks of his needs and couldn\u2019t care less about your feelings.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65111 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-on-sunflower-field.jpg\" alt=\"mulher num campo de girass\u00f3is\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-on-sunflower-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-on-sunflower-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-on-sunflower-field-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Deixar de pensar que o seu futuro \u00e9 igual ao futuro da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Deixar de associar a sua felicidade em geral \u00e0 felicidade no amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sim, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel pode melhorar a qualidade da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s nice having someone \u2013 someone who loves you no matter what and someone to hold your back.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65112 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-4.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada numa cadeira\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-4-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No entanto, <strong>it doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t be <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/9-coisas-que-acontecem-quando-se-e-solteiro-e-esta-a-arrasar\/\">happy while you\u2019re single.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean that you have to fulfill certain society standards and that once you do, everything in your life will magically fall into place.<\/p>\n<p>Guess what: it won\u2019t! If you&#8217;re miserable when single, you\u2019ll be even more miserable in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Your problems won\u2019t go away the moment your romance starts to function and your life won\u2019t suddenly start to make sense in that second.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65113 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-under-green-tree.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 debaixo de uma \u00e1rvore verde\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-under-green-tree.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-under-green-tree-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-under-green-tree-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, please stop being obsessed with finding the perfect match and a flawless romantic relationship because it won\u2019t bring you the changes you expect.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, work on the relationship you have with yourself and make it as amazing as possible since that\u2019s the one that matters the most.<\/p>\n<p>O mais importante:<strong> Come\u00e7a a amar-te e a respeitar-te mais. Porque ningu\u00e9m o far\u00e1 em seu nome.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65118 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"P\u00e1ra de lutar pelo amor, come\u00e7a a lutar por ti pr\u00f3prio \" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I won\u2019t lie and tell you that romantic love should be the last thing on your mind. Instead, I\u2019ll be honest and admit that it\u2019s important for every human being. Whether you like to admit it or not, a healthy romantic relationship can significantly improve the quality of your life. It can make you happier&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":65104,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65091","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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