{"id":65123,"date":"2020-04-22T08:22:14","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T08:22:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65123"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:50:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:50:51","slug":"ele-nao-te-deixa-crescer-deixa-o-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-nao-te-deixa-crescer-deixa-o-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele n\u00e3o te deixa crescer, tens de o deixar ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e1 uma verdade que ningu\u00e9m pode contestar: a maioria dos os homens t\u00eam medo do sucesso e mulheres fortes<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Of course, not all men feel this way but weak and selfish men are definitely terrified of independent women who don\u2019t need them to survive or function.<\/p>\n

You see, when you\u2019re involved with a guy who hasn\u2019t made anything out of his life, he can\u2019t stand the fact that you are better than him.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O facto de ganhar mais dinheiro do que ele, de as pessoas gostarem de si ou de ter constru\u00eddo uma carreira mais bem sucedida est\u00e1 a com\u00ea-lo vivo.<\/p>\n

Consequentemente, a sua inveja transforma-o no seu pior inimigo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Ele aproveita todas as oportunidades que tem para o manter em baixo e para o sabotar no seu caminho para o sucesso.<\/p>\n

Em vez de remover os obst\u00e1culos do seu caminho, ele torna-se a sua maior pedra de trope\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

\"T-shirt<\/p>\n

Em vez de o ajudar a afastar os seus desafios, faz com que passe por um inferno antes de conseguir qualquer coisa a que se proponha.<\/p>\n

Este tipo est\u00e1 claramente intimidado por ti<\/strong>. Ele v\u00ea-se como um homem macho que tem a necessidade de estar acima da sua parceira.<\/p>\n

However, the situation is actually the complete opposite. He is a narcissist in disguise who feels threatened and vulnerable when you\u2019re in front of him.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que nada disto \u00e9 culpa sua, apesar de ele fazer tudo para a culpar.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t feel guilty for being too much for the wrong men.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s his fault that he can\u2019t keep up with you. He is the weak one, the incapable one and the one who isn\u2019t enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Assim, em vez de trabalhar em si pr\u00f3prio, ele aproveita todas as oportunidades que tem para diminuir o seu valor.<\/p>\n

Em vez de tentar aumentar o seu pr\u00f3prio valor, faz tudo o que est\u00e1 ao seu alcance para o fazer descer ao seu n\u00edvel.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This man is perfectly aware that sooner or later, you\u2019ll outgrow him.<\/p>\n

That one of these days, you\u2019ll take off your rose-tinted glasses and see him for who he really is\u2014an immature boy whose life isn\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

He is terrified that once the butterflies are gone and once you see his true colors, you\u2019ll realize that he doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

At that moment, you\u2019ll wonder what you have been doing next to someone so beneath you, that you\u2019ll walk away from him and never come back.<\/p>\n

No entanto, he can\u2019t afford to lose you. Not because he loves you but because he knows that you\u2019re a catch.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele sabe que nunca poder\u00e1 encontrar outra mulher como tu, por isso tem de encontrar uma forma de te manter ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

De facto, a melhor maneira de ele evitar que o deixe \u00e9 destruir a sua auto-confian\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s to cut off your branches in time and not to let you grow.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, in that case, it\u2019s time to let this man go as soon as possible. Unless you want to waste your entire life by his side.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to dump his sorry ass and turn to your personal improvement without allowing him to keep on holding you back.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u00c9 altura de deixar de se preocupar com o facto de o intimidar ou n\u00e3o e trabalhar para se tornar uma vers\u00e3o ainda mais forte e poderosa de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Prometo-vos que um dia destes, um verdadeiro, homem maduro<\/a> entrar\u00e1 na sua vida.<\/p>\n

Um homem bem sucedido que estar\u00e1 concentrado em tornar-se tamb\u00e9m a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 um homem que ser\u00e1 o teu maior f\u00e3. Um homem que vai aplaudir e torcer por ti.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Este homem vai empurrar-te para a frente, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer. Ele ser\u00e1 o vento sob as tuas asas e a tua maior inspira\u00e7\u00e3o para continuares a andar.<\/p>\n

Ele acreditar\u00e1 em ti, mesmo quando perderes a f\u00e9 nas tuas pr\u00f3prias capacidades e aptid\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

This guy won\u2019t try walking behind or in front of you. Instead, you two will go through life shoulder to shoulder.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mais importante ainda, he\u2019ll never feel threatened by your successes. <\/strong><\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have the need to compete with you or be jealous of something you managed to accomplish.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead, he\u2019ll be proud of the woman he has by his side. <\/strong><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be proud of himself for the fact that he can go through life hand in hand with someone like you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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There is one truth nobody could argue against: most men are afraid of successful and strong women. Of course, not all men feel this way but weak and selfish men are definitely terrified of independent women who don\u2019t need them to survive or function. You see, when you\u2019re involved with a guy who hasn\u2019t made…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":65142,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65123","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Let-You-Grow-You-Have-To-Let-Him-Go.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65123","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65123"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65123\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/65142"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65123"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65123"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65123"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}