{"id":65159,"date":"2020-04-22T09:00:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T09:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65159"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:48:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:48:56","slug":"nao-mexer-com-os-sentimentos-dela","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-mexer-com-os-sentimentos-dela\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o se meta com os sentimentos dela s\u00f3 porque n\u00e3o tem a certeza dos seus"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\"<em>Don&#8217;t let the mixed signals fool you, indecision is a decision.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>We\u2019ve all been there. We\u2019ve all had that one person who was always on the fence about everything. And you know what? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Tens de os empurrar para fora da tua vida!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65162 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo-of-womans-face.jpg\" alt=\"foto do rosto de uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo-of-womans-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo-of-womans-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo-of-womans-face-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I spent way too much time giving my attention to someone who clearly didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n<p>I wasted the precious time of my life on someone who didn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n<p>Why should I bend over backward for someone who isn\u2019t even sure if he loves me and wants to spend time with me?<\/p>\n<p>Quem \u00e9 que precisa de uma pessoa indecisa na sua vida como parceiro?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65163 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-blue-skirt-going-somewhere.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de saia azul a ir para algum lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-blue-skirt-going-somewhere.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-blue-skirt-going-somewhere-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-blue-skirt-going-somewhere-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re indecisive about your food order, that\u2019s fine, but if you\u2019re indecisive about love, why the hell should I be sure about you?<\/p>\n<p>Love isn\u2019t something to play with and then leave when you get bored. Love isn\u2019t a toy, despite how the epidemic of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-passos-para-vencer-o-jogo-do-jogador\/\">actores<\/a> fez parecer.<\/p>\n<p>Players aren\u2019t what you need; don\u2019t let them mess with your head.<\/p>\n<p>Os seus sentimentos mudam como o tempo e deixam-nos confusos, sem saber o que esperar a seguir. Num momento, est\u00e3o em cima de si.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65164 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-leather-jacket-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com casaco de cabedal na praia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-leather-jacket-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-leather-jacket-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-leather-jacket-on-the-beach-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The next second, they go cold. One moment, they\u2019re saying I love you, and then they don\u2019t call you back for days.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t let anyone treat you like that.<\/p>\n<p>Brincar com os sentimentos \u00e9 uma forma de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fake-love\/emotional-abuse\/10-tipos-de-manipulacao-emocional\/\">manipula\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a> and you can be sure that when they do that, they don\u2019t care about you, no matter what they said before.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65165 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-holding-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de vestido branco com um smartphone na m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-holding-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-holding-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-holding-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O pior de tudo \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de indecis\u00e3o constante; nunca conseguem decidir nada ou at\u00e9 mesmo dizer a coisa mais simples que poderia salv\u00e1-lo de pensar demais.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s always something left in the air, regardless of how hard you try to communicate.<\/p>\n<p>They obviously have problems, but that doesn\u2019t mean you should let theirs become yours.<\/p>\n<p>If they\u2019ve been hurt before or even if they don\u2019t really like you, that doesn\u2019t give them the right to play with your feelings.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65166 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mulher encostada a uma parede branca\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The honest truth is always better than a lie. Because even if it\u2019s going to hurt you, at least you know where you stand.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not a certified psychologist to resolve someone\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/3-principais-estilos-de-vinculacao-e-como-afectam-a-sua-relacao\/\">problemas de liga\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>Por isso, desde que a pessoa aja de forma indecisa, pode dizer-lhe para se descobrir antes de tentar ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>E mesmo que fosse um terapeuta, isso exigiria um certo esfor\u00e7o da parte deles, que eles claramente nunca fazem.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65167 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-crop-field.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 num campo de cultivo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-crop-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-crop-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-crop-field-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>So, instead of scratching your head over someone\u2019s questionable decisions and statements, you could move on with your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Leaving all this mess behind will feel so good, trust me. Once you\u2019re over it, you won\u2019t let it happen again.<\/p>\n<p>Standing up for yourself is something you won\u2019t regret.<\/p>\n<p>If anything, you will know what you don\u2019t want and get a better idea of what you do want. You want someone who\u2019s determined to love you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65168 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-during-golden-hour.jpg\" alt=\"casal a abra\u00e7ar-se durante a hora dourada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-during-golden-hour.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-during-golden-hour-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-during-golden-hour-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 verdadeiro e mant\u00e9m as suas palavras. Algu\u00e9m que seja honesto e que queira o mesmo que tu.<\/p>\n<p>Queres algu\u00e9m que te fa\u00e7a sentir bem e que tenha orgulho em ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Life\u2019s too short to waste it on a person who isn\u2019t interested in fully loving you, isn\u2019t ready to commit, and can\u2019t make time for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead, you should decide to direct your attention to yourself. Don\u2019t wait for someone else to do it for you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65169 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-wooden-beach-chair.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com cadeira de praia de madeira\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-wooden-beach-chair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-wooden-beach-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-wooden-beach-chair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Trate-se como o seu melhor amigo. Fa\u00e7a-se feliz. Saiba exatamente o que quer e v\u00e1 em frente.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re sure of your worth, you won\u2019t be tempted to try another game with an immature man; you will know right away if he\u2019s the one for you.<\/p>\n<p>This whole problem highlights the importance of knowing what you want \u2013 in love and in life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65170 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-lips-and-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com l\u00e1bios vermelhos e \u00f3culos\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-lips-and-eyeglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-lips-and-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-lips-and-eyeglasses-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Saber o que se quer significa aceitar-se tal como \u00e9 e ser suficientemente s\u00e1bio para reconhecer as suas necessidades e a import\u00e2ncia de as satisfazer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Everyone deserves to feel they are cared for and important in the life of their loved one. That\u2019s what love\u2019s about.<\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, it\u2019s just a waste of time. Decide to do what\u2019s best for you and let him go.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65172 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o se meta com os sentimentos dela s\u00f3 porque n\u00e3o tem a certeza dos seus\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cDon&#8217;t let the mixed signals fool you, indecision is a decision.\u201d \u2013 Unknown We\u2019ve all been there. We\u2019ve all had that one person who was always on the fence about everything. And you know what? You need to push them right off that fence and out of your life! I spent way too much time&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":65161,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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