{"id":65176,"date":"2020-04-24T11:54:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-24T11:54:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65176"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:24:15","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:24:15","slug":"cansado-de-ser-solteiro-dicas-para-abracar-a-sua-vida-de-solteiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/cansado-de-ser-solteiro-dicas-para-abracar-a-sua-vida-de-solteiro\/","title":{"rendered":"Cansado de ser solteiro? 10 dicas para abra\u00e7ar a sua vida de solteiro"},"content":{"rendered":"

As fotografias bonitas de casais felizes nas redes sociais, os filmes rom\u00e2nticos e a press\u00e3o dos seus amigos e familiares mais pr\u00f3ximos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu estatuto de solteiro contribuem para que se sinta cansado de ser solteiro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa o que fa\u00e7as ou onde v\u00e1s, todas as pequenas coisas come\u00e7am a lembrar-te do teu estatuto de solteiro. E cansamo-nos disso!<\/p>\n

Cansamo-nos de todos aqueles lembretes merdosos de que as \u00fanicas pessoas que s\u00e3o verdadeiramente felizes s\u00e3o as que t\u00eam rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas.<\/p>\n

And even though you know that’s not true, you still get irritated about your single life and you wish things were different.<\/p>\n

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But I’ll tell you one thing: O estado da rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma medida de felicidade!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Just because you’re not in a relationship (yet), it doesn’t mean you should feel tired or lonely or excluded from society.<\/p>\n

The only reason why you’re still single at the moment is that you’re ought to be. Each person has their own unique path and being single is a part of your journey!<\/p>\n

Whenever you’re feeling tired of being single, here are 10 things to help you understand and embrace your single life:<\/p>\n

1. Don’t lose hope<\/h2>\n

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Toneladas de gelado, sess\u00f5es de ci\u00fames imagin\u00e1rios em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a casais, sentir-se s\u00f3 e cansado do seu estatuto de solteiro<\/em>. This is probably how you’ve been feeling lately, right?<\/p>\n

And that’s more than okay! It’s totally fine to feel shitty from time to time, even when you have no valid reason for that.<\/p>\n

It’s totally okay to lose hope from time to time because you’re surrounded by all those happy couples and worried that you’ll never find the One.<\/p>\n

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However, it’s not okay to feel like that every single day of your life. You shouldn’t lose hope no matter how shitty you feel about being single.<\/p>\n

Instead, you should open your eyes and realize that this is not a curse and you’re not missing anything in your life. Everything that happens in our life is in tune with time.<\/p>\n

Every single one of us has our own unique timeline and you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be at the moment!<\/p>\n

2. There’s probably a reason why you’re single at the moment<\/h2>\n

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We’re often unaware of this one but you know what they say: Tudo acontece por uma raz\u00e3o<\/strong><\/em><\/a>. Pode neg\u00e1-lo, ignor\u00e1-lo e n\u00e3o acreditar nele, mas continuar\u00e1 a ser verdade.<\/p>\n

There’s probably a reason why you’re single at the moment and those reasons vary from working on yourself to focusing on your career.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you’ve neglected your passions, which made you feel like you’re missing something in your life.<\/p>\n

All these things can make you feel unfulfilled to the extent of thinking that the only reason why you’re feeling the way you’re feeling is because you’re still single.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Convencemo-nos de que, quando conhecermos a nossa cara-metade, nos sentiremos finalmente livres e completos.<\/p>\n

Sim, mas s\u00f3 quando j\u00e1 estiveres completo sem eles.<\/p>\n

Being single is the right time to address all your issues and work on yourself because the only time you’ll be able to love others and be in a happy relationship is when you learn to love yourself first!<\/p>\n

3. It\u2019s better to be single than with the wrong person<\/h2>\n

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One of my good friends recently complained to me that she\u2019ll never meet a homem simp\u00e1tico<\/a> porque todos os bons j\u00e1 devem ter sido apanhados.<\/p>\n

Por isso, est\u00e1 convencida de que acabar\u00e1 por ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com uma pessoa de merda.<\/p>\n

E a minha resposta foi: Why do you even worry about that? Remember that it’s better to be single than with the wrong person!<\/em><\/p>\n

As pessoas que est\u00e3o cansadas de ser solteiras esquecem-se muitas vezes do facto de que ser solteiro \u00e9 dez vezes melhor do que estar com a pessoa errada.<\/p>\n

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E se toda a gente \u00e0 sua volta tiver algu\u00e9m? E se todos os seus amigos e familiares estiverem numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz ou casados?<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that you won’t meet your special one someday and this doesn’t mean you should enter a relationship with just anyone just for the title of being in a relationship.<\/p>\n

It’s better to be single and happy than miserable in a relationship.<\/p>\n

4. Em vez de se preocupar em sair com os outros, comece a sair consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

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If you’re tired of being single but also tired of dating, you shouldn’t force yourself. Instead, you should start dating yourself!<\/p>\n

Now, you’re probably wondering how one can date themselves when dating is a concept that includes two people. Well, it’s not (I mean, not necessarily).<\/p>\n

Pode namorar consigo pr\u00f3prio da mesma forma que namora com os outros, mas f\u00e1-lo sozinho.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m um aspeto importante da sua sa\u00fade mental, porque namorar consigo pr\u00f3prio significa aprender a gostar de passar tempo consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

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Pode ir a um restaurante, ao cinema, tomar uma bebida, dar um passeio ou fazer um piquenique consigo pr\u00f3prio. Em vez de se preocupar em sair com os outros, deve fazer coisas consigo mesmo.<\/p>\n

Passar tempo sozinho e fazer coisas sozinho tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o partes importantes do autocuidado.<\/p>\n

Once you learn to enjoy spending time with yourself, you’ll never even think about dating others (at least, for the time being).<\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t lower your standards when meeting new people<\/h2>\n

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Even if you’re not feeling stressed out about dating, you still need to remember one thing and that is: Nunca, mas nunca, baixem os vossos padr\u00f5es, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se pensa que a \u00fanica forma de conhecer pessoas que s\u00e3o material de relacionamento \u00e9 baixando os seus padr\u00f5es, ent\u00e3o pense novamente.<\/p>\n

Maybe this will help you to enter a relationship but will you be truly happy once you lower your standards? I don’t think so.<\/p>\n

You’re probably familiar with the existing and new dating apps like Tinder that have made online dating a must if you\u2019re single (but have also increased the chances of meeting toxic people).<\/p>\n

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When going on a date for the first time with someone you just met, keep in mind to preserve your standard levels. Don’t find excuses for their shitty behavior or personality.<\/p>\n

Por mais aborrecidos que sejam os primeiros encontros, baixar os seus padr\u00f5es \u00e9 uma receita certa para o desastre. Alguns dos melhores conselhos sobre encontros para todas as pessoas solteiras s\u00e3o os seguintes:<\/p>\n

Stay consistent with yourself and maintain your standards because that’s the only sure path to true happiness!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Fique solteiro at\u00e9 atingir estes 10 objectivos de vida<\/a><\/p>\n

6. Aprender a gostar da sua pr\u00f3pria companhia \u00e9 uma receita para n\u00e3o se sentir s\u00f3<\/h2>\n

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Being alone and feeling lonely have become two interconnected terms lately but they don’t really have to be. Being alone has nothing to do with sentir-se s\u00f3<\/a> e tudo est\u00e1 na tua cabe\u00e7a!<\/p>\n

Just because you\u2019re a single woman or man, this doesn\u2019t mean you should feel lonely.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, the reason why you’re feeling lonely is that you haven’t learned to enjoy spending time with yourself.<\/p>\n

That’s why you’re convinced that the only way to not feel lonely is to be with someone in a relationship. But the truth is otherwise.<\/p>\n

O amor-pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 a for\u00e7a mais poderosa do universo e um assassino da solid\u00e3o!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Once you learn to love yourself and enjoy your own company, you’ll see that all this time, the key to happiness was buried within you.<\/p>\n

You will no longer feel this void in your soul and you’ll understand that it is possible to be alone and not to feel lonely. After all, every single one of us came into the world alone.<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that we don’t need any other human being but it means that we’re perfectly capable of doing things on our own and enjoying our own company.<\/p>\n

Significa que temos a capacidade de ser felizes enquanto esperamos pela coisa certa!<\/p>\n

7. Exprima as suas paix\u00f5es e passe tempo com as pessoas certas<\/h2>\n

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Outro fator que mata a solid\u00e3o \u00e9 a paix\u00e3o. Aprender a exprimir as suas paix\u00f5es ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a entrar em sintonia consigo pr\u00f3prio e a esquecer o seu estatuto de solteiro.<\/p>\n

Instead of only watching Netflix, now is the time to work on expressing yourself. It\u2019s time to ask yourself what it is that makes you feel alive and happy.<\/p>\n

Quais s\u00e3o as actividades que enchem o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o de calor e inspira\u00e7\u00e3o? Gosta de desenhar, cantar, cozinhar, dan\u00e7ar ou criar arte?<\/p>\n

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Whatever it is, if it’s something that makes you happy while doing it, then it’s your passion and you should focus on doing it as much as you can.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, deve passar tempo com as pessoas certas; com aqueles que o amam e o compreendem.<\/p>\n

Instead of only focusing on what’s missing in your life, focus on embracing what you already have!<\/p>\n

8. Encontrar o lado bom da vida dentro de si<\/h2>\n

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Sempre que penso no positivismo, lembro-me imediatamente desta poderosa cita\u00e7\u00e3o de The Silver Linings Playbook de Matthew Quick<\/em>:<\/p>\n

“You know what? EXCELSIOR, EXCELSIOR! It means you know what I’m gonna do, I’m gonna take all this negativity and use it as fuel and I’m gonna find a silver lining, that\u2019s what I’m gonna do. And that’s no bullshit. That’s no bullshit. That takes work and that’s the truth.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Encontrar um lado positivo significa encontrar um aspeto positivo em todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es. Por isso, use todo esse cansa\u00e7o de ser solteiro como combust\u00edvel para encontrar um lado positivo!<\/p>\n

I also suggest watching this amazing movie or reading the book (if you haven’t yet).<\/p>\n

9. Em vez de se concentrar em encontrar o \u00danico<\/a>concentrar-se em viver o momento<\/h2>\n

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Viver o momento \u00e9 uma das coisas mais inspiradoras que pode fazer por si e pelos outros.<\/p>\n

Instead of focusing on chasing what you don’t have (yet), focus on living in the moment and appreciating what’s in front of you.<\/p>\n

Life is a miracle. Just because you’re still single, this doesn’t mean you should feel less worthy or you should be persistent in finding the One at any cost.<\/p>\n

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A vida \u00e9 um verdadeiro milagre e viver o momento \u00e9 a \u00fanica maneira de viver a vida ao m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\n

After a year or more, you’ll laugh to yourself at all the things that bothered you now.<\/p>\n

You’ll realize that being single and gozar a vida<\/a> \u00e9 uma das maiores d\u00e1divas, se a aceitarmos como tal!<\/p>\n

10. Manter-se paciente<\/h2>\n

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And the most important tip: Stay patient! Remember what we said about the timeline and that everything happens for a reason? Keep that one in mind because it’s the only truth.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you’re tired of being single, you need to stay patient!<\/p>\n

If you do things on impulse, you’ll risk being unhappy. But if you stay patient, time will reward you.<\/p>\n

Lembrem-se que as coisas boas v\u00eam para aqueles que esperam!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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No matter how clich\u00e9d it sounds, your love life will flourish and you\u2019ll find your loved one when you least expect it.<\/p>\n

You cannot know when it will happen or how but you know that it will. And when it does, you’ll be happy that you waited. So, wait and believe!<\/em><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 11 raz\u00f5es pelas quais estou feliz por ser solteira (e porque tamb\u00e9m devias estar)<\/a><\/p>\n

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