{"id":6535,"date":"2020-09-09T08:59:47","date_gmt":"2020-09-09T08:59:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6535"},"modified":"2022-05-11T20:02:42","modified_gmt":"2022-05-11T20:02:42","slug":"a-uma-curta-distancia-a-pe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-uma-curta-distancia-a-pe\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que foi t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil para ele afastar-se de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Muitas vezes, as mulheres queixam-se de ter uma grande queda nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Everything seems fine, you&#8217;re enjoying each other and then all of the sudden, he disconnected. He disappeared and probably never came back.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s get things straight here\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/10-undeniable-signs-hes-truly-madly-deeply-love\/\">se um homem est\u00e1 verdadeiramente apaixonado por si e est\u00e1 loucamente interessado em si<\/a>, then none of the things here are necessary to look at, because he will not walk away from you easily\u2014never.<\/p>\n<p>Se a rela\u00e7\u00e3o terminar para um homem assim, ele ficar\u00e1 realmente muito magoado e ser\u00e1 mais dif\u00edcil para ele seguir em frente do que para a mulher.<\/p>\n<p>Assim <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/os-homens-estao-a-ganhar-vantagem-na-fase-inicial\/\">se um gajo se afastasse<\/a> from you suddenly and without explanation, then he really wasn\u2019t that into you in the first place. This is the most important and key fact on this topic.<\/p>\n<p>Pode estar a passar dias e dias a perguntar-se porque \u00e9 que ele se foi embora t\u00e3o subitamente e, para al\u00e9m da falta de amor por si, estas s\u00e3o as raz\u00f5es mais comuns:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re not what he was looking for<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79787 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/unhappy-couple-walking-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"casal infeliz a passear na praia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/unhappy-couple-walking-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/unhappy-couple-walking-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/unhappy-couple-walking-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Most of the men are looking for a challenge, for a prize to win. If he starts realizing you\u2019re not a prize worthy of his efforts, he will back off. Maybe he is looking for a cool girl or a girl that is shy and cute.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he is looking for the chemistry between a couple and if you\u2019re insufficient for his demands, he will go away.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que ele tenha come\u00e7ado a sentir algo por si, ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cil para ele afastar-se porque percebeu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/telltale-signs-hes-not\/\">you\u2019re just not his type<\/a>, not what he\u2019s looking for.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that it has nothing to do with you. You are unique and beautiful in your own way, so don\u2019t bother with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-as-pessoas-nao-gostam-de-mim\/\">people who don\u2019t like you<\/a>\u2014not everyone has good taste.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re doing something that pulls him away<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79788 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/back-view-of-woman-holding-blanket-outside.jpg\" alt=\"vista traseira de uma mulher a segurar um cobertor no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/back-view-of-woman-holding-blanket-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/back-view-of-woman-holding-blanket-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/back-view-of-woman-holding-blanket-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is probably the most common reason. Maybe you\u2019re doing something that freaks him out. Men get scared when they feel dominated by a woman.<\/p>\n<p>Se uma mulher parecer demasiado forte e independente, o homem fica assustado e afasta-se.<\/p>\n<p>Men have that protective nature, and they love when you feel safe and protected around them, so seeing that you\u2019re totally fine on your own and that you don\u2019t need him to protect you can scare him off.<\/p>\n<p>The second thing could be that you\u2019re putting too much pressure on him.<\/p>\n<p>If he is getting calls and texts while he is working and you\u2019re complaining about him not picking up the call or not replying, it will be a huge red flag for him.<\/p>\n<p>Also, he can feel pressure when you\u2019re rushing into things. You want him to commit too fast, to secure him, but he doesn\u2019t feel that way.<\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t invest enough in you to actually be ready for something like that. A relationship should be built on attraction, without any rush.<\/p>\n<p>Com uma atra\u00e7\u00e3o constante, ele come\u00e7ar\u00e1 lentamente a gostar mais de si, a sentir mais a sua falta e, finalmente, a preparar-se para ser verdadeiramente seu.<\/p>\n<p>The third thing is the opposite\u2014he is not getting enough. When he sends you a text and you don\u2019t reply the way he expected, he will think that you\u2019re too cold.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re out with your friends you didn\u2019t text him or did that just when you came back home.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que n\u00e3o tenha feito nada de errado e ele saiba disso, a falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o e de dedica\u00e7\u00e3o a ele pode faz\u00ea-lo desistir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/5-razoes-para-afastar-um-amor\/\">5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais afastamos a pessoa que amamos<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dizem-lhe para n\u00e3o chorar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79786 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/portrait-of-man-with-black-background.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de homem com fundo preto\" width=\"800\" height=\"544\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/portrait-of-man-with-black-background.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/portrait-of-man-with-black-background-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/portrait-of-man-with-black-background-768x522.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>From their childhoods, men are told not to cry, not to show certain emotions because \u201cit\u2019s not manly\u201d. He has some feelings for you and that scares him.<\/p>\n<p>He is in pain, but he has been taught that if he shows that pain, it is proof that he isn\u2019t \u201cman\u201d enough.<\/p>\n<p>He left because he is scared to show weaknesses, to show vulnerability and in order to \u201cman up\u201d, he has to walk away from you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79784 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Why-It-Was-So-Easy-For-Him-To-Walk-Away-From-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Porque \u00e9 que foi t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil para ele afastar-se de ti\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Why-It-Was-So-Easy-For-Him-To-Walk-Away-From-You-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Why-It-Was-So-Easy-For-Him-To-Walk-Away-From-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many times women complain about having a big dip in their relationships. Everything seems fine, you&#8217;re enjoying each other and then all of the sudden, he disconnected. He disappeared and probably never came back. Let\u2019s get things straight here\u2014if a guy is truly in love with you and is madly into you, then none of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":79785,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6535","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Why-It-Was-So-Easy-For-Him-To-Walk-Away-From-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6535","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6535"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6535\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79785"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6535"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6535"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6535"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}