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<\/p>\nWhat does love mean? Many people say that the world revolves around money \u2013 and the rest of them say it’s love that makes the world spin.<\/p>\n
Tendo isso em mente, podemos dizer com seguran\u00e7a que o amor \u00e9 uma coisa muito importante para a humanidade. Se n\u00e3o for o mais importante.<\/p>\n
O amor \u00e9 algo universal, conhecido por todos, mas inexplic\u00e1vel e misterioso. Uma contradi\u00e7\u00e3o geralmente reconhecida.<\/p>\n
Yes, there are many definitions of love, but it’s impossible to say one definition of love is completely and utterly true and right for everyone.<\/p>\n
It’s safe to say that love is a lot of things for a lot of people. It can’t be removed from individual experience.<\/p>\n
Os seres humanos conhecem muitos tipos de amor: amor rom\u00e2ntico, amor de melhor amigo, amor de fam\u00edlia, amor de animal de estima\u00e7\u00e3o e outros milh\u00f5es de tipos de amor.<\/p>\n
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Os gregos antigos, por exemplo, tinham sete palavras diferentes para amor!<\/p>\n
O dicion\u00e1rio ingl\u00eas Oxford define o amor como uma s\u00e9rie de estados emocionais e mentais fortes e positivos, desde a mais sublime virtude ou bom h\u00e1bito e o mais profundo afeto interpessoal, at\u00e9 ao mais simples prazer.<\/p>\n
E embora isso pare\u00e7a bastante claro \u00e0 primeira vista, sei por experi\u00eancia pr\u00f3pria que se traduz na vida quotidiana sob a forma de v\u00e1rios ditados po\u00e9ticos sobre o amor que ouvimos a toda a hora.<\/p>\n
Por isso, quis reunir aqui alguns dos ditados mais frequentes do quotidiano e tentar chegar ao cerne do seu verdadeiro significado.<\/p>\n
Here’s what love is when it’s not just saying simple Eu amo-te<\/em>, according to\u2026 all humankind.<\/p>\n Ouvimos muito esta frase, mas ser\u00e1 que sabemos o que significa?<\/p>\n Unconditional love means appreciating someone despite their imperfections \u2013 body or personality wise.<\/p>\n Significa aceitar o seu ente querido tal como ele \u00e9, sem procurar beneficiar dele.<\/p>\n Unconditional love doesn’t look for something in return. It supports and respects regardless of one’s success, appearance, or social status.<\/p>\n O mais importante \u00e9 a pr\u00f3pria rela\u00e7\u00e3o. S\u00f3 pelo facto de existir tal como \u00e9.<\/p>\n It’s a choice to stay with someone no matter the circumstances, it means putting someone else’s needs before your own, prioritizing their happiness.<\/p>\n H\u00e1 quem diga que o amor incondicional \u00e9 simplesmente o que queremos dizer quando dizemos amor<\/em>, um amor verdadeiro.<\/p>\n O amor incondicional significa que o seu parceiro o encoraja a ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n They don’t shame you for your actions or needs. They don’t judge you for your choices.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, respondem com empatia e preocupam-se com o seu bem-estar.<\/p>\n Tamb\u00e9m significa que pode falar livremente, sem se sentir desconfort\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n And even when you get into an argument, you try to understand each other\u2019s points of view and have no hard time forgiving each other.<\/p>\n O objetivo \u00e9 encontrar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o que vos fa\u00e7a felizes a ambos.<\/p>\n When you’re loved unconditionally, you’re not afraid to be yourself completely \u2013 because there’s nothing to prove, you know you’re not being judged.<\/p>\n There’s no expectation you need to fulfill. You can let your guard down. Even on your bad days!<\/p>\n There’s no mind games or compromises that make you feel bitter. Every decision is respective to your boundaries. You bring out the best in each other.<\/p>\n O amor cego \u00e9 frequentemente um tema em v\u00e1rios tipos de arte.<\/p>\n The lovers are portrayed as blind to their partners’ negative traits and with a tendency to idealize them.<\/p>\n Porque \u00e9 que amamos tantas vezes a imagem idealizada de uma pessoa em vez da imagem real? O que \u00e9 que nos faz acreditar nela?<\/p>\n It’s strange to think that in the early stage of romantic relationships people tend to have and maintain what is called ilus\u00f5es positivas<\/em> em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu parceiro.<\/p>\n It’s almost like an attempt to live out their dream, their fantasy seeing only what they perceive as desirable and ignoring the rest.<\/p>\n Other than that, it’s not unusual for people to tend to keep justifying something they invested so much time and put so much attention into, and disregard everything they don’t really like yet won’t admit initially.<\/p>\n Depois da paix\u00e3o inicial, vem o choque com a realidade.<\/p>\n Suddenly, a person feels like they misinterpreted their partner qualities, while in reality it’s more likely it was partly their fault for not wanting to see anything but the good qualities.<\/p>\n Muitas vezes, o amor rom\u00e2ntico \u00e9 confundido com a simples lux\u00faria, especialmente numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n And while sexual desire is an important aspect if you’re in for a long-term relationship, still, sometimes it’s just an easily extinguished fire with no real meaning.<\/p>\n While this saying sounds quite sentimental, for many people it’s the truth they live by.<\/p>\n Para al\u00e9m de soar lamechas, se come\u00e7armos a pensar mais profundamente no assunto e nos perguntarmos realmente porque \u00e9 que o amor \u00e9 tudo o que precisamos, come\u00e7am a surgir algumas respostas interessantes.<\/p>\n It’s pretty clear that we need love to feel valuable and accepted, which then gives our lives meaning. Love isn’t just sweet words and hugging.<\/p>\n It’s something we need in order to go about our everyday life not feeling devastated and miserable.<\/p>\n We feel devastated and miserable when our needs aren’t met. It affects our quality of life.<\/p>\n The way we do things \u2013 the way we eat, sleep, make connections.<\/p>\n It all boils down to love. That’s why it is essential to us.<\/p>\n Love isn’t just a feeling, it’s also an action. It motivates you to do things in life. It gives you purpose.<\/p>\n It makes you commit. There’s nothing people can stick to if there isn\u2019t some aspect of love involved.<\/p>\n Por falar em ditados sentimentais, este tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 um deles. No entanto, este tem um significado um pouco mais filos\u00f3fico.<\/p>\n O amor eterno \u00e9 o amor que n\u00e3o tem fim, obviamente.<\/p>\n What that means is, there’s no obstacle that can stop the people who love each other from loving each other.<\/p>\n You might ask yourself if eternal love is really possible, but let me tell you \u2013 we all witnessed that long-lasting, Tipo de bloco de notas<\/em>, rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa pelo menos uma vez.<\/p>\n You know you saw that cute older couple holding hands and thought to yourself, ”Real love exists and it doesn’t get old. I want that kind of love.”<\/p>\n Throughout human history, there were so many proofs of eternal love, so many legends, fairy-tales and real historical stories about undying love, so it’s most likely true.<\/p>\n Maybe it’s not as frequent because it requires a lot of work and sacrifices, but it’s wrong to say it doesn’t exist when it clearly does.<\/p>\n Cada pessoa tem a sua pr\u00f3pria linguagem amorosa.<\/p>\n For one it’s coming home from work and having dinner prepared for them, for others it’s constant words of appreciation and encouragement or receiving a love song.<\/p>\n However, when you truly love someone or something, all of your personal preferences are put aside; there’s no thing that is off-limits.<\/p>\n O tempo mostrou-nos tantas coisas altru\u00edstas, fascinantes, quase imposs\u00edveis, que as pessoas fizeram em nome do amor.<\/p>\n From risking their lives in extraordinary situations to astonishing sacrifices they’ve made in everyday life, such as dedicating their life to greater a purpose of making the life of others more humane, healthier and happier.<\/p>\n Everyday, people’s lives are changed and saved solely because of love.<\/p>\n No interest could make a person risk their own life for somebody else’s. It can only be love.<\/p>\n And that’s where the mystery of love lies.<\/p>\n A slightly darker view on love. After I’ve said everything I’ve said about love and it’s importance in the life of a person, it’s needless to say that not having or missing it hurts like hell.<\/p>\n When it’s good, it’s great; but when it’s bad it’s the worst thing you can imagine.<\/p>\n Pain can cause total eclipse of one’s seemingly healthy mind. There’s so many things that could go wrong.<\/p>\n The person you’re in love with doesn’t love you back. The person who supposedly loves you – abuses you.<\/p>\n The person you loved has passed away. You’re unable to help your loved one while they are suffering from life threatening illness.<\/p>\n Your best friend for life has betrayed you. Your love at first sight turned out to be a high-functioning narcissist. You’ve been cheated on or lied to.<\/p>\n There are so many ways to break a heart. Sometimes it takes just one person \u2013 just one relationship to change your views on love forever. For better or worse.<\/p>\n A heart is so fragile that sometimes you don’t even need someone else to break it.<\/p>\n Pode faz\u00ea-lo voc\u00ea mesmo, colocando-se em situa\u00e7\u00f5es que lhe causam desconforto e dor, n\u00e3o cuidando de si, colocando-se em \u00faltimo lugar e sendo o seu pior inimigo.<\/p>\n After the trauma it’s hard to believe in love again. Your perception of love becomes distorted.<\/p>\n Deixamos de associar o amor a sentimentos de seguran\u00e7a ou felicidade, mas sim a sentimentos de medo e perda e, a dada altura, perguntamo-nos inevitavelmente: O que \u00e9 o amor, afinal?<\/p>\n As I said before, while we can write off sayings like this as being sentimental, it’s still true that when people are confronting the difficult experiences in life such as dying or surviving some type of trauma they suddenly start asking themselves about the meaning of life.<\/p>\n And according to the experiences of many psychologists around the world, there’s one answer that keeps popping up in the life of many when it comes to searching for the meaning of life, and you might have already guessed what it is – it’s the love.<\/p>\n And so often, everything else we thought was important in life, our jobs, money, recognition, looks… it all steps aside.<\/p>\n For some people that’s the first moment in their life when they actually start living.<\/p>\n O amor \u00e9 o sentido da vida porque s\u00f3 o amor tem o poder de nos ligar ao nosso verdadeiro objetivo.<\/p>\n Living in a materialistically inclined world we’re often faced with problems of materialistic nature.<\/p>\n It seems impossible to live life without money, without a job – without some guarantee we’re going to survive. And it’s true that we do need those things to survive.<\/p>\n But behind every action we take, there’s constant need for fulfillment, different from just a physical need.<\/p>\n Muitas pessoas famosas e ricas admitiram que, no auge do seu sucesso, se sentiam muitas vezes completamente infelizes e insatisfeitas.<\/p>\n Para nos sentirmos felizes, precisamos de satisfazer uma necessidade. Algo que desejamos. E essa necessidade \u00e9 o amor.<\/p>\n It doesn’t have to be obvious. It can be masked as need for attention, need for approval, need for safety\u2026 all kinds of things.<\/p>\n But ultimately, it’s always love.<\/p>\n Para concluir este texto, que espero seja esclarecedor e \u00fatil, preciso de dizer mais algumas coisas.<\/p>\n In today’s world where life is happening on social media, traditional dating is replaced with dating apps, everything that was considered the norm is being put on online, and people in general are becoming more closed off, it’s important to always recognize the true face of love in all its forms.<\/p>\n The meaning of love can’t be found in a book or heard in a class. It can’t be learned.<\/p>\n It can’t be magically understood in just one moment \u2013 it’s something we learn about the whole time, it’s something that has to be lived out every day of our lives.<\/p>\n Estar apaixonado \u00e9 a necessidade da alma, tal como a alimenta\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a necessidade do nosso corpo.<\/p>\n It’s important to understand that love doesn’t really need to be defined but rather felt and given.<\/p>\n Sentir-se amado e dar amor vem sempre de algum tipo de considera\u00e7\u00e3o a\u00e7\u00e3o<\/em>. That’s how love expresses itself \u2013 by what we fazer<\/em>.<\/p>\n O que significa o amor? Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 importante?<\/em><\/p>\n To be moved by a song or a sentence is a wonderful thing, and there’s nothing better than seeing your action has made a world a better place \u2013 even for just one day \u2013 and you don\u2019t need an explanation for that.<\/p>\n Depois de tudo o que disse, s\u00f3 quero partilhar algumas cita\u00e7\u00f5es sobre o amor, esperando que o inspirem a encontrar o amor em tudo o que faz:<\/p>\n ”I already love in you your beauty, but I am only beginning to love in you that which is eternal and ever precious \u2013 your heart, your soul. Beauty one could get to know and fall in love with in one hour and cease to love it as speedily; but the soul one must learn to know. Believe me, nothing on earth is given without labour, even love, the most beautiful and natural of feelings.” \u2013 Leo Tolstoy<\/p>\n \u2018\u2019Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.\u2019\u2019 \u2013 Lao Tzu<\/p>\n \u2018\u2019In the flush of love’s light, we dare be brave. And suddenly we see that love costs all we are, and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free.\u2019\u2019 \u2013 Maya Angelou<\/p>\n \u2018\u2019The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.\u2019\u2019 \u2013 Victor Hugo<\/p>\n \u2018\u2019I’m not saying that love always takes you to heaven. Your life can become a nightmare. But that said, it is worth taking the risk.\u2019\u2019 \u2013 Paulo Coelho<\/p>\n \u2018\u2019When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.\u2019\u2019 \u2018\u2019Just in case you have forgotten today: You matter. You are loved. You are worthy. You are magical.\u2019\u2019 What does love mean? Many people say that the world revolves around money \u2013 and the rest of them say it’s love that makes the world spin. Keeping that in mind, we can confidently say that love is a pretty important thing to humanity. If not the most important. 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O amor \u00e9 incondicional<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n2. O amor \u00e9 cego<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. O amor \u00e9 tudo o que precisas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. O amor \u00e9 eterno<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. O amor n\u00e3o conhece limites<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. O amor magoa<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. O amor \u00e9 o sentido da vida<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. Nada \u00e9 poss\u00edvel sem amor<\/h2>\n
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\nJimi Hendrix<\/p>\n
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