{"id":65683,"date":"2020-04-25T23:36:35","date_gmt":"2020-04-25T23:36:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65683"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:48:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:48:00","slug":"ninguem-me-ama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ninguem-me-ama\/","title":{"rendered":"No One Loves Me: Compreender e lidar com este sentimento"},"content":{"rendered":"

We’ve all been there at some point in our lives: set alone in our rooms wondering “What if no one loves me?” It’s a horrible thought to have.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a perfectly normal thought, though. We are all human beings and we have feelings.<\/p>\n

It’s only natural we desire closeness, connection, and love and it\u2019s natural that when we don\u2019t have those things in our life we feel scared.<\/p>\n

\"sozinho<\/p>\n

Em algum momento das nossas vidas, cada um de n\u00f3s sente-se s\u00f3 e esse sentimento consome-nos, fazendo-nos acreditar que ningu\u00e9m nos ama. Esse sentimento corr\u00f3i-nos por dentro e afecta a nossa autoestima.<\/p>\n

What if no one loves me? For me, the most important thing is self-love and that I’m always aware of my self-worth.<\/p>\n

It’s the only way I’ll feel comfortable in my own skin. <\/strong>I don’t care if no one else loves me. <\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o estou a mudar por ningu\u00e9m. Sei que se me mantiver fiel a mim pr\u00f3pria, algu\u00e9m vir\u00e1 e amar-me-\u00e1, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That’s the most sincere love, when someone loves you for what you are.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I have to be honest with you, I didn\u2019t think like this when I was younger. Then, I always wanted everyone to like me.<\/p>\n

\"bela<\/p>\n

I did things for my loved ones that I am not proud of. I didn’t think about my well-being at all.<\/p>\n

As outras pessoas eram mais importantes para mim e a sua felicidade era sempre mais importante do que a minha.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, este \u00e9 um erro comum de muitos adolescentes que est\u00e3o a lidar com problemas de autoestima.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

That’s why you should be more patient and understanding with them because we all know that puberty affects teenagers in many ways.<\/p>\n

My family members and my close friends didn\u2019t provide me with much support.<\/p>\n

In those difficult times, when I needed them the most, I didn’t have anyone to talk with and who could understand me.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Durante toda a minha vida fui a ovelha negra da minha fam\u00edlia. O meu irm\u00e3o jogava basquetebol e a minha irm\u00e3 tocava guitarra. Eram ambos muito bons nisso.<\/p>\n

I didn’t have a hobby. I didn’t like sports or music and I wasn’t good at them, either. History was my passion and I wanted to become an archaeologist.<\/p>\n

Os meus pais achavam piada porque eu era apenas uma crian\u00e7a, mas para mim era o meu objetivo na vida. Coleccionava pedras diferentes e utilizava o Google para aprender tudo sobre elas.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

At\u00e9 tinha os meus pequenos cadernos onde escrevia tudo sobre a minha investiga\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

My so-called \u2018friends\u2019 called me ‘stone collector’ and I didn’t know what to think about it. Many people thought I was strange and creepy.<\/p>\n

All this increased my feelings of self-doubt, loneliness – even self-hate. I thought that I would never find someone who would love me.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Even though it hurt me so bad, I couldn’t give up on my dream. I cried almost every night because I felt like no one cared for me but I promised myself that I wouldn\u2019t give up.<\/p>\n

And I didn’t. I decided that I needed to become best friends with myself. I decided to work more on myself and my dreams.<\/p>\n

I didn’t have time to bother with all those people who didn’t believe in me. I didn’t care who loved me or who didn\u2019t, because Compreendi que o amor-pr\u00f3prio era suficiente para mim<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If I could go back, I wouldn\u2019t change anything. I can say now that it all helped me. My past taught me that sometimes it’s okay to feel that no one cares for me.<\/p>\n

It taught me that sometimes it’s okay if no one loves me because it means that I am different and being different is always better, right?<\/p>\n

It helped me with my self-esteem. Now no one can hurt me because I am used to it and know that people won’t always love me.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And I’m fine with that because I know one person who’ll never stop loving me.<\/p>\n

A person who’ll believe in me and my dreams. A person who’ll always be there for me. Of course, that person is ME.<\/p>\n

Hoje, tenho uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa e muitos amigos novos, mas, de vez em quando, gosto de estar sozinha e, por vezes, ainda sinto que ningu\u00e9m me ama.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I think it’s okay to be alone from time to time. Being alone doesn’t mean that you are lonely<\/a>. It doesn’t mean that no one cares for you or that no one will ever love you.<\/p>\n

Sometimes you need to be alone to think about everything that’s happening in your life. Sometimes being alone can help you to find yourself, just like it helped me.<\/p>\n

Trust me, it’s much worse when you are in a relationship but you feel lonely. It’s much worse when you are surrounded by people who make you feel unlovable.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Do meu ponto de vista, as redes sociais s\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m um dos culpados por este tipo de sentimentos que os adolescentes t\u00eam.<\/p>\n

Estes sentimentos est\u00e3o intimamente relacionados com o sentimento de depress\u00e3o e os meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o social s\u00e3o os principais culpados pela depress\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Young people post everything on social media and it has become more important for them than their real life. They compete for who has more friends, who have better clothes…<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Some teens feel like no one likes them because they don’t have enough friends or likes on Facebook or Instagram.<\/p>\n

They don’t understand that those friends are actually fake and that those likes aren’t important.<\/p>\n

All they can see is other people posting pictures with their ‘friends’ and getting hundreds of likes. Believe me, as you get older, it’ll become clearer to you.<\/p>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

You can’t have that many friends in life. Actually, you should be happy if you have two honest friends.<\/p>\n

Amigos que te amam verdadeiramente e que nunca te deixariam sentir que ningu\u00e9m te ama.<\/p>\n

Don’t feel desperate if you haven’t found love, yet. It doesn’t mean that you’ll never find someone who will love you.<\/p>\n

Confiar em Deus<\/a> e o tempo da sua vida.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A lot of people will pass through your life and not all of them will like you. And that’s fine because not everyone will make it to your future.<\/p>\n

Aprende a gostar da tua pr\u00f3pria companhia, porque \u00e9s a \u00fanica pessoa com quem passar\u00e1s definitivamente o resto da tua vida.<\/p>\n

Say \u201cI love you\u201d to yourself every day and believe that it is the most important love. Self-love.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You can’t build a strong relationship with another human being if you don\u2019t manage to do it with yourself.<\/p>\n

Look at it as a foundation for all other relationships in your life. If you can’t love yourself, how could someone else possibly love you?<\/p>\n

Don’t try too hard to get people to love you. Sometimes you’ll only lose yourself and your dignity that way. And the sad part is that those people probably aren\u2019t worth it.<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m me ama cita\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o algumas cita\u00e7\u00f5es inspiradoras famosas sobre a solid\u00e3o que me ajudaram a lidar com os meus sentimentos.<\/p>\n

Se achas que ningu\u00e9m te ama, d\u00e1 uma vista de olhos a esta lista de cita\u00e7\u00f5es. Espero que tamb\u00e9m o ajudem.<\/p>\n

1. \u201cA season of loneliness and isolation is when the caterpillar gets its wings. Remember that next time you feel alone.\u201d \u2013 Mandy Hale<\/em><\/p>\n

2. \u201cPeople think being alone makes you lonely, but I don\u2019t think that\u2019s true. Being surrounded by the wrong people is the loneliest thing in the world.\u201d \u2013 Kim Culbertson<\/em><\/p>\n

3. \u201cSometimes you need to be alone. Not to be lonely, but to enjoy your free time being yourself.\u201d \u2013 Desconhecido<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

4. \u201cI used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It\u2019s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone.\u201d \u2013 Robin Williams<\/em><\/p>\n

5. \u201cSometimes you need to take a break from everyone and spend time alone to experience, appreciate, and love yourself.\u201d \u2013 Robert Tew<\/em><\/p>\n

6. \u201cSometimes, you just need a break. In a beautiful place. Alone. To figure everything out.\u201d \u2013 Desconhecido<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

7. \u201cNothing can bring you peace but yourself.\u201d \u2013 Ralph Waldo Emerson<\/em><\/p>\n

8. \u201cA man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he doesn’t love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.\u201d \u2013 Arthur Schopenhauer<\/em><\/p>\n

9. \u201cIt is better to be lonely than allow people who are not going anywhere keep you from your destiny.\u201d \u2013 Joel Osteen<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

10. \u201cWhen we cannot bear to be alone, it means we do not properly value the only companion we will have from birth to death \u2013 ourselves.\u201d \u2013 Eda J. LeShan<\/em><\/p>\n

11. \u201cIt takes a strong person to remain single in a world that is accustomed to settling with anything just to say they have something.\u201d \u2013 Desconhecido<\/em><\/p>\n

12. \u201cI like being alone. I have control over my own shit. Therefore, in order to win me over, your presence has to feel better than my solitude. You\u2019re not competing with another person, you\u2019re competing with my comfort zones.\u201d \u2013 Hor\u00e1cio Jones<\/em><\/p>\n

\"m\u00e3o<\/p>\n

13. \u201cThere are worse things than feeling alone. Things like being with someone and still feeling alone.\u201d \u2013 Poesia M.W<\/em><\/p>\n

14. \u201cSome people can\u2019t stand being alone. I love solitude and silence. But when I come out of it, I\u2019m a regular talking machine. It\u2019s all or nothing for me.\u201d \u2013 Celine Dion<\/em><\/p>\n

15. \u201cThe best part about being alone is that you really don\u2019t have to answer to anybody. You do what you want.\u201d \u2013 Justin Timberlake<\/em><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

16. \u201cAs I get older I\u2019m more and more comfortable being alone.\u201d \u2013 Sienna Miller<\/em><\/p>\n

17. \u201cRemember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life\u2019s cruelest irony.\u201d \u2013Douglas Coupland<\/em><\/p>\n

18. \u201cWhen I get lonely these days, I think: So be lonely, Liz. Learn your way around loneliness. Make a map of it. Sit with it, for once in your life. Welcome to the human experience. But never again use another person\u2019s body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilled yearnings.\u201d \u2013 Elizabeth Gilbert<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

19. \u201cWhat a lovely surprise to finally discover how unlonely being alone can be.\u201d \u2013 Ellen Burstyn<\/em><\/p>\n

20. \u201cSometimes I think that my own company is more suitable for me than if I were around others. Because of the person that I am.\u201d \u2013 Kyle Labe<\/em><\/p>\n

21. \u201cFind company within yourself and you\u2019ll never spend a day alone. Find love within yourself and you\u2019ll never have a lonely day.\u201d \u2013 Connor Chalfant<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

22. \u201cI\u2019m fascinated with myself and love hearing the sound of my own voice. I\u2019d like to hear what I have to say. A lot of people don\u2019t like being alone because they truly don\u2019t like themselves but I love me.\u201d \u2013 Gene Simmons<\/em><\/p>\n

23. \u201cLonely hours is the best time of life, because it\u2019s the only time I share my deepest secrets with the most trusted person in the world, MYSELF.\u201d \u2013 Desconhecido<\/em><\/p>\n

24. \u201cNever search your happiness in others, it will make you feel alone. Search it in yourself, you will feel happy even when you are left alone.\u201d \u2013 Desconhecido<\/em><\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

25. \u201cIt is far \u00e9 melhor estar sozinho do que estar em m\u00e1 companhia<\/a>.\u201d \u2013 George Washington<\/em><\/p>\n

26. \u201cIn solitude, the mind gains strength and learns to lean upon itself.\u201d \u2013 Laurence Sterne<\/em><\/p>\n

27. \u201cIt\u2019s only natural to feel lonely after the enjoyable moments pass. But as you experience new joys those feelings of sorrow will start to fade.\u201d \u2013 Mizu Sahara<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

28. \u201cSolitude is where one discovers one is not alone.\u201d \u2013 Marty Rubin<\/em><\/p>\n

29. \u201cKnowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.\u201d \u2013 Desconhecido<\/em><\/p>\n

30. \u201cWe need solitude, because when we\u2019re alone, we\u2019re free from obligations, we don\u2019t need to put on a show, and we can hear our own thoughts.\u201d \u2013 Tamim Ansary<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

31. \u201cDon\u2019t fear solitude: If you are never alone, you cannot know yourself. But don\u2019t get too attached to it \u2013 it may become an addiction.\u201d \u2013 Paulo Coelho<\/em><\/p>\n

32. \u201cIf you\u2019re lonely when you\u2019re alone, you\u2019re in bad company.\u201d \u2013 Jean-Paul Sartre<\/em><\/p>\n

33. \u201cEven in the loneliest moments, I have been there for myself.\u201d \u2013 Sanober Khan<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

34. \u201cI love to be alone. I never found a companion that was so companionable as solitude.\u201d \u2013 Henry David Thoreau<\/em><\/p>\n

Don’t feel sorry for yourself because you think that no one loves you. Stand up and do something about it. Show all those people that it’s their loss, not yours.<\/p>\n

Don’t let self-pity poison your life. I accepted the fact that no one loves me. But, it only encouraged me to work on myself and to pay more attention to my self-esteem and self-love.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Never chase others. Put your hopes in God. Your soulmate is out there somewhere and he’s also waiting for you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

He’ll be your lover and your best friend. His love will be all you need. Just don’t stop hoping.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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