{"id":6584,"date":"2017-10-10T12:17:07","date_gmt":"2017-10-10T12:17:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6584"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:45:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:45:59","slug":"antes-de-se-apaixonar-por-uma-rapariga-que-ja-passou-pelo-inferno-saiba-isto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/antes-de-se-apaixonar-por-uma-rapariga-que-ja-passou-pelo-inferno-saiba-isto\/","title":{"rendered":"Antes de se apaixonar pela rapariga que j\u00e1 passou pelo inferno, saiba isto"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 verdade que todos n\u00f3s temos um passado, mas alguns de n\u00f3s pass\u00e1mos por tantas coisas m\u00e1s durante as nossas vidas<\/a>. Isso \u00e9 algo que uma rapariga com um passado negro sabe muito bem.<\/p>\n

She has been through so much severe shit in her life but she didn\u2019t let that bring her down. Instead, it made her even stronger, so now she knows that life has its own rules and we need to play by them.<\/p>\n

A girl like this is not like the rest of the girls you meet. She is more than that – strong and independent but at the same time complex and difficult to handle.<\/p>\n

Se alguma vez tiveres a oportunidade de sair com ela ou de te apaixonares por ela, h\u00e1 algumas coisas importantes que tens de saber.<\/p>\n

1. She won\u2019t open up to you immediately<\/span><\/h2>\n

It is very difficult to talk about your dark past to a stranger. That\u2019s why she won\u2019t open up to you at the beginning<\/a> mas se lhe der algum tempo, ela vai descontrair-se e, passo a passo, contar-lhe a sua hist\u00f3ria. O problema \u00e9 que ela sabe que o seu passado \u00e9 feito de pormenores terr\u00edveis e, se o contar imediatamente, arrisca-se a perd\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

Se fores esperto, podes ajud\u00e1-la a ultrapassar os traumas da sua vida e a voltar a ser ela mesma. No final, ela continua a ser aquela menina assustada que s\u00f3 precisa de algu\u00e9m que lhe mostre como encontrar a sua pr\u00f3pria for\u00e7a enorme.<\/p>\n

Espero que sejas tu!<\/p>\n

2. \u00c9 uma pessoa que pensa demais<\/span><\/h2>\n

She will be overthinking a lot. But don\u2019t be too harsh on her because that is just a consequence of her dark past.<\/p>\n

Se ela vir que algo n\u00e3o est\u00e1 bem na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tentar\u00e1 falar convosco e far-vos-\u00e1 tantas perguntas que pensar\u00e3o que ela \u00e9 uma agente da CIA.<\/p>\n

That is just her defense mechanism, so answer all her questions and make her believe that everything is okay and that she needs to relax a little bit more. If she continues like that, she will burn out in a short time. Be her support and don\u2019t let that happen.<\/p>\n

\"Antes<\/p>\n

3. She thinks she doesn\u2019t deserve love<\/span><\/h2>\n

Just because of her dark past and all those scars in her heart and soul, she feels that she is broken and that like that, she doesn\u2019t deserve love.<\/p>\n

A \u00faltima coisa de que ela precisa agora \u00e9 que a julgue e lhe diga que devia ter feito algumas coisas de forma diferente.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, seja a for\u00e7a dela e seja o homem que valeu a pena esperar. Seja a sua m\u00e3o de salva\u00e7\u00e3o e em breve perceber\u00e1 que a rapariga com um passado sombrio ama o melhor, \u00e0 sua maneira, diferente.<\/p>\n

4. Ela tem os seus pr\u00f3prios gatilhos<\/span><\/h2>\n

Sometimes it will be a song or a movie that will make her cry. A scene from a trailer can remind her of the terrors that she had in her past relationship with a man who wasn\u2019t ready to accept her just the way she was.<\/p>\n

Trust me, she doesn\u2019t want you to see her falling apart but sometimes she can\u2019t control her emotions.<\/p>\n

Se ela \u00e9 suficientemente forte para chorar consigo, voc\u00ea deve ser suficientemente forte para lhe estender a m\u00e3o e dizer-lhe que a aceita com todas as suas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es, porque a tornam t\u00e3o perfeita e \u00fanica<\/a>.<\/p>\n

5. Desfruta da sua felicidade ao m\u00e1ximo<\/span><\/h2>\n

Uma rapariga com um passado negro passou por muitas coisas m\u00e1s na sua vida e todas essas coisas fizeram dela uma mulher forte e independente. S\u00f3 por isso, ela pode realmente apreciar as pequenas coisas da vida.<\/p>\n

She knows that money can\u2019t buy happiness and that a good relationship with her friends and family is what is most important. Once upon a time, she didn\u2019t cherish small things but now, she has learned her life lesson.<\/p>\n

She knows that all that it needs for her to be happy is blue sky, the sun\u2019s rays and a hand that will hold her tight, for better or worse.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It is true that we all have a past, but some of us have been through so many bad things during our lives. That is something a girl with a dark past knows way too well. She has been through so much severe shit in her life but she didn\u2019t let that bring her down….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":6587,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6584","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/christiana-rivers-258740.jpg",800,514,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6584","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6584"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6584\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6587"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6584"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6584"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6584"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}