{"id":6602,"date":"2017-10-10T12:52:46","date_gmt":"2017-10-10T12:52:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6602"},"modified":"2022-01-09T22:32:23","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T22:32:23","slug":"5-coisas-que-acontecem-deixam-o-psicopata-emocional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-acontecem-deixam-o-psicopata-emocional\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas que acontecem quando se deixa um psicopata emocional"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando se entra pela primeira vez uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um psicopata emocional<\/a>, you have no idea you are dealing with a sick and dangerous man. Even when you realize you are not living the life you are supposed to live and which you deserve, you hope against hope you can \u2018fix\u2019 him and turn him into something he\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

Muitas vezes, isso leva-nos a ficar ainda mais magoados do que j\u00e1 estamos. Leva-o a desperdi\u00e7ar o seu tempo e a sua juventude com algu\u00e9m que o usa e o esgota emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

At first, you don\u2019t get that you are in an abusive relationship. Only when you escape, you realize you\u2019ve been emotionally abused.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Throughout your relationship with a psycho, you start to accept his destructive behavior towards you as standard\u2014as something completely normal. You think it\u2019s your fault he treats you like that. You think you have to change yourself.<\/p>\n

This can seriously damage you. This can seriously damage and have a bad influence on your personality. This can change you after everything if you don\u2019t escape in time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If he succeeded in messing with your head, don\u2019t feel lost. Once you were a strong woman. There\u2019s no doubt that you will get that confidence and independence back.<\/p>\n

Ele escolheu-te por uma raz\u00e3o.<\/strong> He could easily have chosen someone who was weak, someone who was an easy prey. But that wasn\u2019t challenging. He needed you, a strong woman, to hurt and try to destroy. Only then was he going to feel like he achieved something\u2014like he won. But you fucked up his plans.<\/p>\n

You broke free from his cold chains that left bruises on your neck. You took control of your life and you left him. But that doesn\u2019t mean being with him didn\u2019t leave any consequences. It did. You needed to go through hell and back to be able to heal and trust someone all over again.<\/p>\n

1. Aprendes a amar-te de novo<\/span><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s the first and most important step of healing. If you want to move on with your life and not to be crippled with the pain he caused you, you have to discard all he has done to you and start afresh. You slowly start to realize you are the most important person to yourself right now.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re slowly starting to see that you deserve the best.<\/a> You deserve everything he\u2019s not. You realize that you need to show yourself some respect because you are first spending the rest of your life with yourself, and then with someone else.<\/p>\n

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2. Ficar preso em frente a uma parede emocional<\/span><\/h2>\n

You reach the point of total emptiness. You don\u2019t know how to handle all these new feelings that are taking over you. If you meet someone who is interested in you and treats you the way you deserve, you get lost.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o est\u00e1 habituado a n\u00e3o ser manipulado. N\u00e3o est\u00e1 habituado a que a sua voz seja ouvida. N\u00e3o est\u00e1 habituado a ser o \u00fanico que importa.<\/p>\n

3. Observa todos os pormenores<\/span><\/h2>\n

You cannot relax. It\u2019s hard. You expect bad things to happen. Esperas que outro idiota entre na tua vida com a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de a destruir. <\/a>That\u2019s why you start to overanalyze people and their actions.<\/p>\n

You break situations into small fragments and examine them one by one until you are sure it\u2019s safe to move on. Because of this fear, you keep your distance from everybody, because you are scared of going through the same thing all over again.<\/p>\n

4. Tem problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/span><\/h2>\n

Of course, this one goes without saying. How can you trust anyone after you\u2019ve been used and almost destroyed? You played with fire, you know it, and you got burned. It\u2019s true that you could have left him the moment you realized something was wrong, but you hoped you could fix him.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t. You got burned. But sometimes you need to get burned to aprender a li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. O facto \u00e9 que pagou por esta li\u00e7\u00e3o de vida muito mais do que alguma vez poderia ter imaginado.<\/p>\n

5. V\u00ea a vida sem limites<\/span><\/h2>\n

Acabaram-se as amea\u00e7as, os jogos mentais, as desculpas por tudo, as mentiras. Tudo isso j\u00e1 passou. Podes finalmente viver a tua vida da forma que quiseres.<\/p>\n

You get to live a life with no boundaries, no red signs and no dead-end streets. You are the one who calls all the shots now. And even if you screw up, you\u2019ll know it\u2019s because of something you did and not someone else.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/strong> \u00c9 assim que os narcisistas manipuladores, os psicopatas e outras pessoas t\u00f3xicas nos prejudicam<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you first enter a relationship with an emotional psychopath, you have no idea you are dealing with a sick and dangerous man. Even when you realize you are not living the life you are supposed to live and which you deserve, you hope against hope you can \u2018fix\u2019 him and turn him into something…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":6604,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6602","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/zachary-nelson-171606.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6602","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6602"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6602\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6604"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6602"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6602"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6602"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}