{"id":67022,"date":"2020-05-05T14:00:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-05T14:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=67022"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:26:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:26:07","slug":"coisas-de-que-os-homens-tem-medo-quando-estao-numa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-de-que-os-homens-tem-medo-quando-estao-numa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"10 coisas de que os homens t\u00eam medo quando est\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Existem alguns medos comuns que todos os homens t\u00eam quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es, mesmo que nem sempre estejam dispostos a admiti-los.<\/p>\n

Sometimes they\u2019re not even aware of the exact reason they are blocked from moving on further in their relationships, but they can feel there\u2019s something stopping them from committing to one girl.<\/p>\n

Veja estas dez coisas que assustam tanto os homens que eles podem n\u00e3o estar dispostos a procurar relacionamentos verdadeiros.<\/p>\n

1. Perder-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest, relationships take a lot of our free time.<\/p>\n

Os homens receiam que, ao passarem muito tempo com as suas namoradas, n\u00e3o tenham tempo suficiente para se dedicarem aos seus hobbies e interesses.<\/p>\n

Dia ap\u00f3s dia, isto pode resultar (nas suas mentes) na perda total de si pr\u00f3prios. Basicamente, t\u00eam medo que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com uma rapariga se torne a maior parte da sua personalidade.<\/p>\n

2. N\u00e3o respeitar o c\u00f3digo de conduta<\/h2>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma das grandes. Os rapazes t\u00eam a sua reputa\u00e7\u00e3o a defender. Uma das maiores regras do c\u00f3digo dos manos diz que o rapaz deve escolher os seus amigos em vez das raparigas em qualquer altura.<\/p>\n

When one particular girl becomes important to them and they actually prefer spending time with her over his buddies, this doesn\u2019t go unnoticed.<\/p>\n

His friends will begin calling him out for this, and even though they\u2019re probably only joking and messing with him, he still might be scared of what they actually think of him now.<\/p>\n

3. Compromisso e liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Some guys are incredibly afraid of commitment. Even those who aren\u2019t in the red zone of commitment fears aren\u2019t completely insensitive to this one.<\/p>\n

T\u00eam medo de se comprometerem com uma rapariga e de se ligarem emocionalmente. Este medo est\u00e1 relacionado com o medo de serem magoados no final.<\/p>\n

This is the strongest in those men who have been hurt in the past and don\u2019t want to go through the same again.<\/p>\n

They prefer having many relationships in which they don\u2019t have the time to get overly connected to the girl, and therefore lower their chances of getting their heartbroken.<\/p>\n

4.(Perder contra) a concorr\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Men are afraid of rejection. They are even more afraid of rejection that\u2019s connected to the girl picking someone else over them.<\/p>\n

This \u201ccompetition\u201d they are afraid of maybe completely fictional and have nothing to do with reality.<\/p>\n

Their jealousy and insecurities might get them to think a girl is choosing others over him, and this scares them \u2013 a lot.<\/p>\n

5. Andar demasiado devagar ou demasiado depressa<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Moving too slow may cause a guy to wonder if he\u2019s good enough. He may start having doubts whether the girl simply doesn\u2019t like him enough to move forward in their relationship.<\/p>\n

Quanto a avan\u00e7ar demasiado depressa, isso normalmente est\u00e1 relacionado com o facto de n\u00e3o estarem preparados para se comprometerem ou passarem a rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o n\u00edvel seguinte (mudarem-se, trocarem as chaves de casa, casarem).<\/p>\n

The \u201cwhere is this relationship going\u201d talk freaks them out and they aren\u2019t ready for it to go anywhere.<\/p>\n

6. N\u00e3o gostar dos seus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"quatro<\/p>\n

Men are afraid of their girlfriends having friends they don\u2019t like. The truth is, each one of us is tied to our friends, sometimes even more than family.<\/p>\n

Recorremos a eles para pedir conselhos, come\u00e7amos a comportar-nos como eles e partilhamos muitos interesses e comportamentos com eles.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t like the girl\u2019s friends, he might be afraid that she is a different kind of person then he imagined her to be, or might turn into one of those people he dislikes.<\/p>\n

7. N\u00e3o ter interesses comuns<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Os rapazes t\u00eam medo de n\u00e3o ter nada para falar com as raparigas ou de n\u00e3o ter nada para fazer em conjunto.<\/p>\n

If a girl\u2019s interests are way too different from his, he will immediately imagine having no ways to spend his time with her.<\/p>\n

A guy also afraid of getting pushed to pursue her interests instead of his \u2013 something no guy wants to do.<\/p>\n

8. A rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a desmoronar-se<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O tempo passa. A rela\u00e7\u00e3o que j\u00e1 foi \u00f3ptima revela-se imposs\u00edvel de continuar. Ele magoa-se.<\/p>\n

Yup, that\u2019s right, it all basically ties to guys\u2019 fear of being hurt in the end. They hate the thought of investing themselves and their emotions into something that\u2019s going to go to waste.<\/p>\n

9. Conhecer os seus pais<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

This one is obvious. They are afraid of meeting the girl\u2019s parents. There\u2019s this pressure to impress the girl\u2019s friends and family, but most importantly parents.<\/p>\n

They are scared that they won\u2019t come off great and that the girl\u2019s parents dislike of them will mean the girl will start to find faults in them too.<\/p>\n

10. Alterar<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Em \u00faltima an\u00e1lise, t\u00eam medo da mudan\u00e7a. Todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es trazem mudan\u00e7as \u00e0 nossa vida, quer nos apercebamos disso ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re not talking about girls trying to change guys on purpose, but rather the common course of every relationship.<\/p>\n

Some guys hate the thought of their lives being different then what they are. They have their little rituals and the ways they want to go through the day, and changing this doesn\u2019t seem appealing to them.<\/p>\n

T\u00eam de aceitar a ideia de que a mudan\u00e7a \u00e9 necess\u00e1ria e, de facto, boa para eles, e encontrar a rapariga pela qual vale a pena mudar de vida.<\/p>\n

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