{"id":6724,"date":"2019-10-12T11:37:51","date_gmt":"2019-10-12T11:37:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6724"},"modified":"2022-06-21T00:03:41","modified_gmt":"2022-06-21T00:03:41","slug":"a-pessoa-que-me-ama-a-seguir-por-favor-perdoe-me-por-estar-um-pouco-quebrado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-pessoa-que-me-ama-a-seguir-por-favor-perdoe-me-por-estar-um-pouco-quebrado\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a pessoa que me ama a seguir: Por favor, perdoe-me por estar um pouco quebrado"},"content":{"rendered":"

I promise you, it\u2019s not a big deal being a little bit broken.<\/strong> Ao fim de algum tempo, habituamo-nos.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a bit down sometimes and sometimes you have bad memories of what happened to you coming in waves and absolutely flood your head, but you learn to cope with it eventually.<\/p>\n

Those floods came a bit more often before, but now I’ve reduced it as much as I can. I\u2019m no longer broken,<\/a> I\u2019m just a little bit broken now.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 assim que eu sou, por isso, por favor, poupe-nos tempo e don\u2019t try to fix me<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to erase my past because I\u2019m the only one who can do that. I erased as much pain as I could.<\/p>\n

I decreased the projecting of my insecurities on others as much as I was able to. But I\u2019ll always be a little bit broken.<\/p>\n

My broken ass was once very brave. I\u2019m not sure if I was brave or insane, but you get the point. I was fearless in everything I did and Nunca amei com metade do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dei sempre o melhor de mim, \u00e0 minha fam\u00edlia, aos meus amigos, \u00e0s pessoas que amava. Apostei tudo e fiz uma grande aposta com o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. E quando se aposta muito, \u00e9 preciso estar preparado para perder muito tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what happened to me. Dei o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e, em troca, fiquei com ele partido.<\/a> It\u2019s fine, not too big of a deal.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to say is that I chose to be brave again and I chose to love you, too. I\u2019m saying that I\u2019ll always fight my past when it tries to stand between us.<\/p>\n

But you\u2019ll have to be patient with me.<\/p>\n

Quando fiquei destro\u00e7ado, implorei para ser outra pessoa. Chorei e quis desesperadamente n\u00e3o ser quem eu era. Eu s\u00f3 queria que a dor fosse embora.<\/p>\n

But if you have ever been as broken as I was, you\u2019d know that things don\u2019t really work that way. You can\u2019t make the pain go away.<\/p>\n

Pode simplesmente permitir-se senti-lo, mas proibi-lo de o consumir.<\/p>\n

Eventualmente, a minha fraqueza<\/a> transformou-me na pessoa que sou hoje. Aprendi muito com isso quando consegui silenciar a dor e concentrar-me na aprendizagem e, eventualmente, tudo fez sentido.<\/p>\n

A li\u00e7\u00e3o mais bonita que aprendi<\/a> after I got broken is that you can actually love even if you\u2019re broken. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Na verdade, amas mais intensamente e de forma mais bela do que qualquer outra pessoa que nunca tenha sido quebrada. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Agarramo-nos ao amor com tanta for\u00e7a e sentimos tudo com uma emo\u00e7\u00e3o tr\u00eas vezes maior.<\/strong><\/p>\n

At first, I didn\u2019t know how to put my heart back together and I had no idea if I was ever going to be able to love again. And then someone told me that I can\u2019t let the bad things that happened to me define me or define my future.<\/p>\n

Esse algu\u00e9m tamb\u00e9m disse que eu tenho muito mais poder sobre o meu futuro do que sobre o meu passado. E eu decidi aceitar isso.<\/p>\n

I learned how to patch my heart back together, and although you can still see the cracks, I\u2019m ready for the new chapter of my life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because of the cracks that remain, because I\u2019m still a little bit broken, loving me won\u2019t be perfect. Loving me will be challenging and full of ups and downs and sometimes you might even ask yourself if what I\u2019m putting you through is worth it.<\/p>\n

But if you stick around long enough, if you decide to disregard my imperfections, I promise you, we’ll have the journey of our lives.<\/p>\n

Se me perdoares por estar um pouco quebrado, se me aceitares como sou, prometo esfor\u00e7ar-me mais para estar um pouco menos quebrado todos os dias.<\/p>\n

E prometo tamb\u00e9m nunca fazer nada de prop\u00f3sito para te quebrar. Porque eu sei o quanto d\u00f3i e sei que algumas pessoas nunca recuperam totalmente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I could never carry the burden of having broken someone’s heart on my shoulders. It would crush me.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se escolheres amar-me, o eu quebrado, prometo amar-te de volta com o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o cheio de fendas e com cada fenda amando-te mais do que te amo por inteiro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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