{"id":67616,"date":"2020-05-08T16:05:53","date_gmt":"2020-05-08T16:05:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=67616"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:28:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:28:09","slug":"nao-sou-solteira-nem-estou-comprometida-estou-a-espera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-sou-solteira-nem-estou-comprometida-estou-a-espera\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o estou solteira ou comprometida, estou \u00e0 espera de algu\u00e9m que me mere\u00e7a"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>I\u2019m not single.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67621 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com os olhos fechados a coser mulher com os olhos fechados\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nWell, I am in one sense of the word. I\u2019m single in the sense that I\u2019m not dating anyone right now, sure. But I\u2019m not what you think of when you think about a single girl.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not desperate for love, <strong>I\u2019m not desperate for anyone to give me any little bit of attention they can spare<\/strong>. I won\u2019t go for that.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need several men going through my life showing me how nasty relationships can be and making me regret I ever started one.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not willing to be with just any guy my friends set me up with. I won\u2019t believe some hot guy\u2019s lies and promises or lie to myself that I think they\u2019re right for me to escape from being on my own.<\/p>\n<p>Me being single doesn\u2019t involve pity parties about how difficult it is to find the one, while simultaneously allowing narcissistic schmucks to draw me into their toxic webs.<\/p>\n<p>Nope, me being single doesn\u2019t mean I wait for any guy to notice me so I can start creating a false story in my head about how perfect we are for each other.<\/p>\n<h2>I\u2019m not taken either.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67622 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-pink-blazer-and-pink-pants.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de blazer cor-de-rosa e cal\u00e7as cor-de-rosa sentada em degraus brancos \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-pink-blazer-and-pink-pants.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-pink-blazer-and-pink-pants-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-pink-blazer-and-pink-pants-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not in a relationship. I\u2019m not stuck in my past, waiting for an ex-boyfriend to come and apologize with a grand gesture of love.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no one in my life right now or from my past who I wish to be with. I still haven\u2019t met him. I\u2019ve met many boys I\u2019ve liked one way or the other.<\/p>\n<p>Alguns deles eram bons, mas n\u00e3o eram correctos. A maior parte deles, no entanto, eram parvos que n\u00e3o sabiam nada sobre o amor.<\/p>\n<p>Men who don\u2019t know what they want out of their lives don\u2019t interest me; those ones who instead of pursuing a happy, harmonious future try to ruin mine with their lies and secrets.<\/p>\n<p>I have no words to say to them. There\u2019s no resentment on my side. <strong>I honestly feel sorry for them because no matter how much they\u2019ve hurt me, I\u2019m past that. They are the ones stuck with themselves forever.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be with just anyone. I\u2019m perfectly happy being on my own for as long as I need to be.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m happier not being taken than being taken advantage of.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>I\u2019m giving it time and waiting for someone worthy of me.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67624 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-blazer.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com blazer cor-de-rosa sentada num sof\u00e1 vermelho\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-blazer.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-blazer-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-blazer-768x515.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-blazer-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I need him to be perfect. I don\u2019t need him to be perfect for everyone though. I don\u2019t need him to fill anyone else\u2019s expectations but mine.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m willing to give my all to someone who\u2019s worthy of me. I know he\u2019s out there.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m absolutely sure there\u2019s a man who will love me perfectly. He\u2019ll be honest and kind and never try to lie and deceive me.<\/p>\n<p>Ele valoriza-se a si pr\u00f3prio e saber\u00e1 valorizar-me.<\/p>\n<p>Ele tem um car\u00e1cter forte e saber\u00e1 como lidar com o meu.<\/p>\n<p>Ele nunca, nem nos seus sonhos mais loucos, faria jogos mentais horr\u00edveis comigo para manipular a rela\u00e7\u00e3o de modo a que fosse do seu agrado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Real men don\u2019t do that and the man I\u2019m on standby for is a real man for sure.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67627 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-under-umbrella.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher de p\u00e9 sob um guarda-chuva na estrada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-under-umbrella.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-under-umbrella-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-under-umbrella-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He will meet me and accept me the way I am and I\u2019ll do the same because his honest approach will sweep me off my feet, I just know it.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t be afraid to commit to me or show me his emotions because he\u2019ll be a mature person, a grown man and not a boy who doesn\u2019t know how to live or love.<\/p>\n<p>Ele vai apreciar e proteger a minha vulnerabilidade emocional e certificar-se de que nunca me magoa.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll lead me when I want his guidance and follow me when I know where I\u2019m going.<\/p>\n<p>I know that kind of man is rare but I\u2019ll wait for him because, you know, I\u2019m rare too. I\u2019ll go to hell and back for the one who would be worthy of me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>For that kind of man, I\u2019ll give my all.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E para esse tipo de homem, o meu tudo ser\u00e1 mais do que suficiente.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67637 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I\u2019m-Not-Single-Or-Taken-I\u2019m-On-Standby-For-Someone-Worthy-Of-Me-Pinterest--683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o estou solteira ou comprometida, estou \u00e0 espera de algu\u00e9m que me mere\u00e7a\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I\u2019m-Not-Single-Or-Taken-I\u2019m-On-Standby-For-Someone-Worthy-Of-Me-Pinterest--683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I\u2019m-Not-Single-Or-Taken-I\u2019m-On-Standby-For-Someone-Worthy-Of-Me-Pinterest--200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I\u2019m-Not-Single-Or-Taken-I\u2019m-On-Standby-For-Someone-Worthy-Of-Me-Pinterest--768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I\u2019m-Not-Single-Or-Taken-I\u2019m-On-Standby-For-Someone-Worthy-Of-Me-Pinterest-.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m not single. Well, I am in one sense of the word. I\u2019m single in the sense that I\u2019m not dating anyone right now, sure. But I\u2019m not what you think of when you think about a single girl. I\u2019m not desperate for love, I\u2019m not desperate for anyone to give me any little bit&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":70012,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-67616","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I\u2019m-Not-Single-Or-Taken-I\u2019m-On-Standby-For-Someone-Worthy-Of-Me.jpg",800,537,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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