{"id":67657,"date":"2020-05-06T16:13:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T16:13:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=67657"},"modified":"2022-01-18T01:08:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T01:08:50","slug":"o-confinamento-pode-fazer-ou-desfazer-uma-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-confinamento-pode-fazer-ou-desfazer-uma-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"Como o confinamento pode fazer ou desfazer a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>O distanciamento social torna dif\u00edcil manter as nossas rela\u00e7\u00f5es, n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade?<\/p>\n<p>A doen\u00e7a leva-nos a um mundo totalmente diferente, com necessidades, desejos e vontades que mudam subitamente, o que trava a nossa vida quotidiana.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e1-nos tempo para questionar tudo na nossa vida, especialmente as nossas rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 certas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-lista-de-controlo-do-casal-que-pode-fazer-a-diferenca-na-sua-relacao\/\">coisas que podem acontecer e que podem fazer ou desfazer a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>dependendo da sua for\u00e7a inicial.<\/p>\n<h2>Pode encontrar formas mais saud\u00e1veis de discutir ou n\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67676 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-together-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados juntos ao lado da cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-together-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-together-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-together-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest, lockdown will bring out the best and the worst in all of us. While arguing is usually a big part of every romantic relationship, there are only a few couples who actually do it right.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re living together, being together for too long and all the time will get you arguing even more. You\u2019ll both be on edge and every little thing will tick you off.<\/p>\n<p>A similar scenario happens if you don\u2019t live together and are suddenly constantly apart because of the lockdown. Not meeting up enough in person might also cause you to fight more.<\/p>\n<p>Encontrar uma forma de resolver os vossos conflitos de uma forma inteligente e respeitosa tornar\u00e1 a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o mais forte.<\/p>\n<p>Se todas as discuss\u00f5es fizerem sobressair o que h\u00e1 de pior em si e o levarem a bater abaixo da cintura, \u00e9 quase certo que esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o ir\u00e1 destruir a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2>Pode finalmente resolver todos os problemas que estava a varrer para debaixo do tapete ou que o sobrecarregavam<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67672 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-beside-bed.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados ao lado da cama enquanto o homem est\u00e1 a servir caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-beside-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-beside-bed-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-beside-bed-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At the beginning of a relationship, things seem perfect. A little time into the relationship, you start recognizing some flaws of your partner and issues that you decide to keep silent about because you don\u2019t want to be pushy or too critical.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c0 medida que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o progride, esses problemas aumentam ou muitos outros pequenos problemas acumulam-se para criar uma certa teia que parece demasiado complicada para sair.<\/p>\n<p>Durante o confinamento, pode finalmente decidir dedicar tempo e energia para tentar resolver todas estas quest\u00f5es, o que pode ajud\u00e1-lo a construir uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o mais forte e a criar uma base mais s\u00f3lida para o desenvolvimento futuro da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>If you or your partner can\u2019t find it in you to finally discuss everything that\u2019s been bugging you for a while then I\u2019m afraid you\u2019re going to get overwhelmed by them and your relationship won\u2019t be able to make it.<\/p>\n<h2>Pode ser que finalmente tenham tempo suficiente para falar ou que se apercebam que n\u00e3o t\u00eam nada para falar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67674 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados na cama enquanto abra\u00e7am uma almofada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As vossas vidas antes do distanciamento social podem ter sido muito ocupadas e encontrar tempo um para o outro pode ter sido uma tarefa muito dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, t\u00eam muito tempo para fazer tudo o que queriam fazer, como abra\u00e7ar, sentar-se no sof\u00e1 ou ter longas conversas que duram toda a noite.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re apart, it can all boil down to talking about, well, anything and everything. Talking more will mean getting to know each other better.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 claro que isto ir\u00e1 aprofundar a vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o e torn\u00e1-los mais fortes do que nunca.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s only one problem here&#8230; What if there\u2019s nothing to talk about? You might realize you have very few similar interests, ideas or attitudes about life, or even very little interest to actually talk to your partner.<\/p>\n<p>If this doesn\u2019t break your relationship, I don\u2019t know what will.<\/p>\n<h2>You can realize how well-balanced your relationship is or realize you\u2019re doing all the work<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67678 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-resting-her-head-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a repousar a cabe\u00e7a na cama durante o dia\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-resting-her-head-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-resting-her-head-on-bed-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-resting-her-head-on-bed-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Isto aplica-se sobretudo aos casais que vivem juntos. Na vida quotidiana normal, ambos v\u00e3o para o trabalho e ningu\u00e9m sabe quanto tempo passam realmente a trabalhar e quantas das suas queixas de cansa\u00e7o s\u00e3o apenas queixas por nada.<\/p>\n<p>Now, in lockdown, you\u2019re both likely working from home and can see just how much time your jobs actually take.<\/p>\n<p>Pode fazer com que ambos os parceiros se apercebam do equil\u00edbrio da sua vida quotidiana e se ambos est\u00e3o a fazer praticamente a mesma quantidade de trabalho (como as tarefas dom\u00e9sticas).<\/p>\n<p>If you notice that your partner has been overly complaining about how drained they are from work while you thought you had it much easier at your job so were doing more at home, you\u2019ll start to grow resentment over all the household work they\u2019ve been letting you do for them all this time.<\/p>\n<h2>Podem aprofundar a vossa amizade ou perceber que nunca foram verdadeiros amigos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67682 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-playing-video-games.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a jogar videojogos sentados na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-playing-video-games.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-playing-video-games-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-playing-video-games-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ter o mundo neste estado confuso em que se encontra atualmente pode fazer com que aprecie mais do que nunca ter o seu parceiro ao seu lado.<\/p>\n<p>As suas palavras reconfortantes e os seus abra\u00e7os carinhosos podem fazer toda a diferen\u00e7a entre cair no desespero e sentir-se positivo em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao resultado.<\/p>\n<p>Podem mostrar-nos como s\u00e3o bons amigos e como a nossa for\u00e7a adv\u00e9m do facto de os termos na nossa vida.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, se ter o seu parceiro ao seu lado n\u00e3o significa nada para si e ele n\u00e3o pode fazer absolutamente nada para o fazer sentir melhor como qualquer verdadeiro amigo pode fazer, isso pode faz\u00ea-lo perceber que voc\u00eas os dois nunca formaram a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com base na amizade e isso pode faz\u00ea-lo questionar tudo o que tem com ele.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67689 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Como o confinamento pode fazer ou desfazer a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Social distancing makes it hard to maintain our relationships, am I right? It brings us into this whole different world of suddenly changed needs, wants and desires each of us has, putting a hold on our regular, everyday lives. It gives us time to question everything about our lives, especially our relationships. There are certain&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":67661,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-67657","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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