{"id":68016,"date":"2020-05-06T16:49:37","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T16:49:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=68016"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:15:30","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:15:30","slug":"coisas-a-parar-coisas-a-comecar-a-fazer-se-esta-a-procura-de-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-a-parar-coisas-a-comecar-a-fazer-se-esta-a-procura-de-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"4 coisas para parar e 4 coisas para come\u00e7ar a fazer se estiver \u00e0 procura de amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

PARAR<\/h2>\n

1. …choosing the guy you know is unavailable<\/h2>\n

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Este \u00e9 um padr\u00e3o auto-sabotador que muitas mulheres seguem.<\/span><\/p>\n

No matter the reason for him being unavailable, don\u2019t choose him. If you can see he\u2019s emotionally distanced, stop pursuing a relationship with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s one of the boys who are open about never wanting to get married or have a committed relationship – don\u2019t let yourself fall for him.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve noticed that you constantly lose interest in guys who were unavailable and then become available – work on this issue.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. …looking for romance and look for partnership instead<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

There is a certain type of guy or a certain type of situation that will probably attract you if you\u2019re looking for romance.<\/span><\/p>\n

If your thoughts and ideas of love consist of incredibly romantic, passionate scenarios – you might be on the wrong track.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re searching for love<\/a>Se n\u00e3o se sentir bem com o amor, deve deixar de o equacionar com o romance e come\u00e7ar a v\u00ea-lo como uma parceria. Isto mudar\u00e1 a sua perce\u00e7\u00e3o e afectar\u00e1 a forma como escolhe os seus potenciais parceiros.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once you know you\u2019re looking for a person who will become your partner and be there for you for better or for worse, you\u2019ll think twice when you\u2019re choosing the one to be with.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. …focusing on your phone so much<\/h2>\n

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Seriously, adjust your focus elsewhere. While there\u2019s a chance you\u2019ll find love online, the old fashioned ways work better.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, if you\u2019re constantly following different people\u2019s lives, it might seem to you that their love lives are amazing.<\/span><\/p>\n

It may seem to you like they\u2019re continuously celebrating their love and enjoying every single moment of their romance and this can give you false expectations.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, stop following other people\u2019s lives and trying to recreate other people\u2019s love stories. Instead, get up, go out, and try to create your own, unique story.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. …thinking the perfect relationship won\u2019t require work<\/h2>\n

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Talking about false expectations, movies and books might have given you the idea that true love requires no work. Well, that\u2019s false.<\/span><\/p>\n

Embora o amor verdadeiro seja simples e se possa sentir a liga\u00e7\u00e3o com a alma g\u00e9mea, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es exigem sempre trabalho.<\/span><\/p>\n

You spend so much time with someone and share so much it\u2019s impossible for it to always go perfectly.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, people change with time and the relationship changes with them. Both partners need to be equally ready to compromise and get used to each other and each other\u2019s needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, isto significa que deve deixar de esperar que tudo corra sempre bem e deixar de desperdi\u00e7ar boas rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00f3 porque ocorre um pequeno problema. <\/span><\/p>\n

INICIAR<\/h2>\n

1. …enjoying time on your own<\/h2>\n

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\u00c9 preciso aprender a gostar de estar sozinho antes de encontrar a pessoa com quem partilhar a vida. Desfrute do seu tempo sozinho. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t enjoy your own company, you can\u2019t really expect anyone else to, either.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are many benefits to being single and you should take advantage of all of them, because once you find your soulmate you\u2019ll be taken forever.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. …building up your confidence<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ser confiante \u00e9 importante para o seu bem-estar e tamb\u00e9m atrai outras pessoas. Pense nas suas melhores caracter\u00edsticas e lembre-se delas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se h\u00e1 coisas a melhorar, fa\u00e7a-as. Fa\u00e7a tudo o que a faz sentir-se bem consigo pr\u00f3pria.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to become aware of your own worth so others don\u2019t make you think you\u2019re worth less than you actually are.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. …understanding your own needs<\/h2>\n

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Before you enter a relationship and while you\u2019re still searching for love you should use that time to think about your actual wants and needs. <\/span><\/p>\n

What is it you\u2019re looking for in a partner? What are some things he simply needs to be\/do? What are some things he should never do?<\/span><\/p>\n

Que tipo de pessoa \u00e9 capaz de satisfazer as suas necessidades? <\/span><\/p>\n

Mergulhe fundo na sua mente, pense nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas e onde \u00e9 que elas correram mal e decida de que forma precisa de ser amado e que tipo de pessoa lhe pode dar o tipo de amor que merece.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. …going to places people with the same interests as you go to<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Os opostos atraem-se, mas tamb\u00e9m fortalece uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o ter alguns interesses comuns. Tamb\u00e9m facilita o in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, porque lhe d\u00e1 algo para falar e para se relacionar.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you have any particular interests (and everyone does), go to places where you\u2019ll find people with those same interests. If you like books – visit libraries, if you like tennis – go play on a public court, you see where I\u2019m going with this?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ir a locais onde possa encontrar pessoas que sejam semelhantes a si de uma forma ou de outra dar-lhe-\u00e1 a oportunidade de estabelecer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m que ser\u00e1 capaz de o compreender.<\/span><\/p>\n

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