{"id":6802,"date":"2017-10-13T14:13:04","date_gmt":"2017-10-13T14:13:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6802"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:40:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:40:23","slug":"tempo-para-parar-de-olhar-para-o-fecho-nos-sitios-errados","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tempo-para-parar-de-olhar-para-o-fecho-nos-sitios-errados\/","title":{"rendered":"Est\u00e1 na altura de parar de procurar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o nos s\u00edtios errados"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWe demand closure as though our lives were put together as neatly as novels, but the fact of the matter is they\u2019re not. In real life, relationships are messy and poorly written, ending too early or too late, and sometimes in the middle of a sentence.\u201d<\/em> Beau Taplin<\/strong><\/p>\n

A maioria de n\u00f3s anseia por uma conclus\u00e3o ap\u00f3s o fim de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/a> We always want to get to the bottom of things. We want to know the real reason, because all the words said at the end seem vague and unclear and they don\u2019t seem like enough.<\/p>\n

The worst thing is when people you were with refuse to give you clear explanations. You can\u2019t help like feeling there are some loose ends and that even though the relationship is over, it hasn\u2019t ended yet – at least not for you.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 n\u00e3o o consegues compreender. Fizeste de tudo para que as coisas funcionassem. Respeitaste a pessoa com quem estavas. Amaste-a mais do que as palavras podem descrever.<\/p>\n

And they leave without giving an explanation. At least they don\u2019t give an explanation you are satisfied with or one that you believe in.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7amos a sentir que, depois de todo o tempo que pass\u00e1mos juntos, n\u00e3o merecemos uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o. Depois de <\/em>todos you\u2019ve been through. After all the time and effort invested into that one person. Haven\u2019t you deserved more? More than them cowardly and silently leaving you?<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Est\u00e1<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa que se pode fazer quando as coisas ficam por dizer \u00e9 dizer algumas coisas a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, \u00e9 preciso perceber que h\u00e1 coisas que \u00e9 melhor n\u00e3o dizer.<\/a><\/strong> Se calhar, se obtivesse as respostas certas dessa pessoa, ela faria mais mal.<\/p>\n

Em segundo lugar, algumas pessoas est\u00e3o destinadas a ser apenas passageiros tempor\u00e1rios na nossa vida.<\/strong> That doesn\u2019t mean you were just a stop along the way. It means you needed each other for that certain period of time.
\nSome people are not meant to stay forever – they are just there to keep you company and teach you some things about life and love, till your forever person comes.<\/p>\n

Por fim, temos de encarar o facto de que, por vezes, as coisas simplesmente acontecem.<\/strong> Talvez n\u00e3o estejam a evoluir da forma que desejava. Talvez a separa\u00e7\u00e3o tenha acontecido quando menos se esperava. Mas quase nunca podemos estar preparados para o fim de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. O que h\u00e1 a fazer ent\u00e3o \u00e9 perceber que nem tudo est\u00e1 nas nossas m\u00e3os e que a melhor coisa a fazer \u00e9 deixar para tr\u00e1s e seguir em frente.<\/a><\/p>\n

Reconhecer\u00e1 que seguiu em frente simplesmente por se sentir livre, sem pensar no passado e sem qualquer emo\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a essa pessoa. Ir\u00e1 adorar essa sensa\u00e7\u00e3o libertadora de simplesmente n\u00e3o se importar mais.<\/p>\n

You have to realize that it\u2019s all up to you. Make peace with the fact that nobody can grant you closure. There is no explanation that would be adequate enough to make you feel better. Things end and they hurt for as long as they have to till you eventually see that you are the one who had to let it go.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica pessoa que pode dar-te uma conclus\u00e3o \u00e9 tu.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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