We don\u2019t want to know our loved one or our friend isn\u2019t as good of a person as we imagine them to be.<\/p>\n
Todos n\u00f3s somos v\u00edtimas da nossa pr\u00f3pria mente e do nosso ego, que nos fazem acreditar que tudo o que percebemos como verdadeiro \u00e9 absolutamente verdadeiro.<\/p>\n
S\u00e3o precisos anos, muitos anos, para conhecer realmente uma pessoa.<\/p>\n
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Por vezes, encontramo-nos num determinado momento da nossa vida em que precisamos de bondade. Conhecemos uma pessoa e precisamos que ela seja boa e, de repente, ela \u00e9.<\/p>\n
Precisamos de um homem para ser a nossa alma g\u00e9mea e fazemos com que acreditemos que ele o \u00e9. Precisamos de ter um verdadeiro amigo e a pessoa mais conveniente na nossa vida torna-se apenas isso na nossa mente.<\/p>\n
We recognize in people the things we\u2019re desperately searching for.<\/p>\n
Sometimes, we see people as we are, not as they are, because that\u2019s the only way we know.<\/strong><\/p>\n People don\u2019t have to persuade us to see them a certain way. We choose how we see them anyway.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why those among us who are the best possible people they can be get easily deceived. They get hurt by people because they suppose everyone is as good as they are.<\/p>\n Infelizmente, nem toda a gente o tratar\u00e1 da mesma forma que voc\u00ea os trata. There are some times when there\u2019s so much more to know that isn\u2019t tied to our direct experiences with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n Some people are so much more or so much less than we give them credit for. We create our image of a person based on the experiences we\u2019ve had with them.<\/p>\n Luckily, or sadly, depending on your point of view, the experiences they share with us aren\u2019t their only experiences in life. This is why it takes so much time to know someone.<\/p>\n Temos de passar muito tempo com eles para contar todas as nossas hist\u00f3rias e ter a oportunidade de viver muitas experi\u00eancias diferentes em conjunto.<\/p>\n It\u2019s the only way to truly get to know someone.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t trust your opinion of someone if you have just met them. Yes, there are instincts and there is intuition but before you follow them, ask yourself if your \u2018intuition\u2019 is telling you what you want to hear. Because our mind works in wondrous ways.<\/p>\n Por vezes, vemos uma pessoa como algo que ela pode ser e n\u00e3o como algo que ela realmente \u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>\n Muitas vezes, na vida, vemos as pessoas atrav\u00e9s deste prisma do seu potencial e das suas possibilidades. Para sermos brutais, muito poucas pessoas atingem todo o seu potencial.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s say you\u2019re in a relationship. Your boyfriend has some wonderful traits but also many flaws which, in the future, he can correct if he\u2019d only try to.<\/p>\n You just know he has it in him to be the most gentle, loving guy there is. The truth is, you\u2019re looking at him through your \u2018unachieved potential\u2019 goggles and chances are he\u2019s never ever going to change.<\/p>\n A parte mais maravilhosa de tudo isto \u00e9 que, por vezes, as pessoas podem surpreender-nos com o qu\u00e3o fant\u00e1sticas s\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n You might have met those people when they were at their lowest or maybe you were at your lowest and didn\u2019t see things clearly.<\/p>\n Yes, some people in your life are going to prove themselves to be so amazing that you won\u2019t believe it. You\u2019ll wonder how you didn\u2019t see them as those lovely persons before.<\/p>\n That\u2019s just it, we\u2019re not always able to create a completely true image of someone in our mind.<\/p>\n Rodeie-se de pessoas que o fa\u00e7am sentir bem, pessoas que sejam honestas e am\u00e1veis e espere o melhor.<\/strong><\/p>\n The truth is, we\u2019re all on this crazy ride together and the best we can do is love each other and hope things work out for us.<\/p>\n <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Yes, I know what\u2019s going through your mind right now: \u2018\u2019Of course, people aren\u2019t always who we think they are. Everyone has a limited perception.\u2019\u2019 Bear with me though. Has it ever happened to you to lose a friend over something they did that you thought to be impossible for them to do? 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