{"id":6813,"date":"2020-10-13T14:33:50","date_gmt":"2020-10-13T14:33:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6813"},"modified":"2022-02-06T16:34:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T16:34:31","slug":"a-beleza-de-ser-quebrado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-beleza-de-ser-quebrado\/","title":{"rendered":"A beleza de ser quebrado"},"content":{"rendered":"

We\u2019re all a bit broken, aren\u2019t we?<\/strong> And we\u2019re still beautiful human beings who deserve to see that there is more to life than things and people who broke us. Quando se parte<\/a>, the story doesn\u2019t end. It\u2019s where your story starts, in fact.<\/p>\n

When you get broken, and it usually happens when you trust somebody with your whole heart, you feel like it\u2019s the end of the world. You repeatedly say how you can\u2019t do it anymore and you question the meaning of everything.<\/p>\n

All you have inside are dark thoughts because there isn\u2019t space for happiness when you get broken. There is only dark and dark is so damn scary when you\u2019re broken.<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019re left alone in the dark room, all that you\u2019ve been through, all the demons start flooding your mind, whether in the form of a person or your insecurities.<\/p>\n

And there isn\u2019t anything you can do other than to let it overwhelm you. That\u2019s why you feel like you\u2019re choking. No matter how hard you swim, you\u2019re still sinking.<\/p>\n

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I wish there was a magic wand to heal broken people, but there isn\u2019t<\/strong>. E qualquer conselho que eu vos d\u00ea pode n\u00e3o se aplicar. A \u00fanica constante que cura as feridas \u00e9 o tempo.<\/p>\n

Precisas de tempo para sarar. Precisas de tempo para processar o que te aconteceu. Precisas de tempo para pensares claramente sobre o que passaste e precisas de tempo para conseguires pensar nas li\u00e7\u00f5es que aprendeste depois de te teres partido. H\u00e1 tanta beleza com o tempo.<\/p>\n

See, you loved and you got broken and that\u2019s fucking heroic if you ask me.<\/strong> Despite knowing that there are bad people who\u2019ll take your heart and squeeze the life out of it with their bare hands before your own eyes, you still did it.<\/p>\n

Amaste, apesar de saberes que n\u00e3o o devias fazer, e acabaste por ficar destro\u00e7ado. Ficaste com um cora\u00e7\u00e3o cheio de fendas<\/a>O que \u00e9 que se passa?<\/p>\n

Despite your demons, you get up every morning and you fight through the day like only you can. You fight each new day that tries to break you again. You might be broken, but you\u2019re still a warrior, you\u2019re still a hero.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

O lado feio de ser quebrado<\/a> is that the world doesn\u2019t stop for you. But that\u2019s also the beauty of it.<\/p>\n

When you get broken, you hit rock bottom, but you don\u2019t have to stay there.<\/strong> Ali mesmo, no fundo do po\u00e7o, tens a oportunidade de come\u00e7ar tudo de novo. Tem a oportunidade de iniciar a sua viagem em dire\u00e7\u00e3o ao topo e certificar-se de que, desta vez, o faz bem.<\/p>\n

When you get broken, you become an empty shell. But eventually, if you decide to fight it, you can create the new beautiful pearl. You can be everything you\u2019ve never been.<\/p>\n

Podemos aprender a ver o mundo com outros olhos e os peda\u00e7os partidos podem acrescentar mais valor \u00e0 nossa vida se aprendermos a utiliz\u00e1-los. Depois de ficar partido, a dor \u00e9 inevit\u00e1vel, mas o quanto sofre depende de si.<\/p>\n

The more you allow yourself to feel, the quicker you\u2019ll get over it. Just try to look at it as one episode of your life – the whole show doesn\u2019t need to be about it.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

When you get broken, your love gets broken, too. But what you don\u2019t know is that once broken, you will always be able to love harder than before. Once you\u2019ve been in the dark, you learn to appreciate everything that shines.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Acabamos por amar de novo, acabamos por ter outras pessoas para preencher as falhas que uma pessoa causou. Acabamos por casar com algu\u00e9m maravilhoso que promete amar-nos para sempre. Acabamos por ter filhos e por p\u00f4r em dia a vida que nos abandonou quando fic\u00e1mos destro\u00e7ados.<\/p>\n

Todos os dias ficamos um pouco menos destro\u00e7ados, porque cada vez que algu\u00e9m nos ama, as nossas fendas ficam cheias de amor dourado. E cada vez que algu\u00e9m, que n\u00e3o a pessoa que te partiu, decide derramar mais amor no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, ele acaba por ficar mais bonito e mais brilhante do que nunca.<\/p>\n

Never-broken hearts don\u2019t shine like broken ones, because there are no cracks to pour love into. And that\u2019s the most beautiful part about it.<\/a><\/p>\n

Dorme em paz. Deste o teu melhor. Amaste com o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. O teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o magoado \u00e9 apenas um sinal de que viveste e amaste sem te conteres. Poucas pessoas t\u00eam coragem para isso.  <\/em><\/p>\n

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