{"id":6818,"date":"2020-10-13T14:41:24","date_gmt":"2020-10-13T14:41:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6818"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:29:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:29:54","slug":"o-tipo-da-carta-deixa-a-rapariga-certa-ir-embora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-tipo-da-carta-deixa-a-rapariga-certa-ir-embora\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o homem que deixou a rapariga certa ir embora"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o est\u00e1 a perceber, pois n\u00e3o?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ainda n\u00e3o se apercebeu do facto de que deixaste ir a rapariga que era a certa.<\/a> Aquela que podias apresentar aos teus pais e aquela que n\u00e3o tinhas vergonha de mostrar em p\u00fablico. \u00c9 que ela era uma mulher para amar.<\/p>\n

Mas foste t\u00e3o cego para ver o que tinhas mesmo ao teu lado. E agora, devias pagar pelos teus pecados. Devias pagar por toda a dor que causaste \u00e0 pessoa certa.<\/p>\n

You were selfish enough to forbid her to smile when you were sad, as you didn\u2019t want to see that she was having a good time without you.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 pensavas em ti e nas tuas necessidades.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

And her? Like any woman in love, she blindly listened to all that you had to say. She respected all your decisions, even if she didn\u2019t like them. She suffered to prove to you how big her love was.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t even want to fight for her. Instead of that, you were fighting with her.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Every single day was a battle without an end. And every time it broke her heart to pieces. She couldn\u2019t understand that a man who she loved so much could hurt her so tremendously. She couldn\u2019t understand that you had the power to ruin her day by saying only a sentence.<\/p>\n

As tuas palavras m\u00e1s partiram-lhe o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, mas ela continuava de p\u00e9, fingindo que estava tudo bem, enquanto ela se estava a desmoronar por dentro.<\/a><\/p>\n

When I stop and think now, I don\u2019t get how a man can be so stupid and blind.<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t he see that the woman next to him accepted all his imperfections and that she is still there?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Why doesn\u2019t he respect a woman like that? That is the least he can do. But no! His fucking ego doesn\u2019t let him do it. That\u2019s why he hurt her, pushed her to the boundary of losing her mind, just like you did to her. Did you think it would change something if you hurt her? Did you think she would finally be a puppet in your hands while you were the master puppet, making her do everything that you wanted?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t have a clue what you were thinking but one thing is for sure – you shouldn\u2019t have let the right one go.<\/a><\/p>\n

Sei que te sentes mal com isso agora. Sei que h\u00e1 pensamentos que n\u00e3o param de surgir quando te deitas sozinho na tua cama. E perguntas a ti pr\u00f3prio se poderia ter havido outra forma de acabar tudo.<\/p>\n

Poderia ter sido diferente?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

You see, it could have been way different if you\u2019d had the guts to love her sincerely. But since you are fucked up, you can\u2019t love anyone without hurting them.<\/p>\n

E tu devias ter-lhe dito isso. Devias ter dito que n\u00e3o estavas pronto para uma rapariga perfeita, como ela estava. E era muito claro que ela o amava com todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

She showed you that so many times while you just neglected her, because you took her for granted, thinking that she would stay no matter what you did. You see, you were wrong. A good woman is always aware of her worth and she won\u2019t settle for less than she deserves.<\/p>\n

Agora, depois de tantos anos sem ela, ainda est\u00e1 a sofrer, tentando encontrar o amor em lugares escuros.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 \u00e0 procura de mulheres para encontros de uma noite, mas deve saber que elas nunca o v\u00e3o amar como ela o fez. Agora, h\u00e1 outro homem na vida dela, aquele que n\u00e3o a est\u00e1 a tomar por garantida. Aquele que \u00e9 o homem certo para ela.<\/p>\n

Aquele que \u00e9 o seu amante, amigo e alma g\u00e9mea ao mesmo tempo.<\/a> And no, she doesn\u2019t think about you anymore. She decided to leave the past where it belongs.Yo<\/em><\/strong>Pode ter saudades dela, mas ela nunca voltar\u00e1 para quem a abandonou.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

You can call but she will never pick up. You can fall apart but she won\u2019t see it, because she finally realized that you were never enough for her. She realized that you couldn\u2019t give her all that love and affection that she desperately needed.<\/p>\n

Agora, s\u00ea um homem a s\u00e9rio e lida com a dor. S\u00f3 por um segundo, sente o mesmo que ela sentiu quando a deixaste sozinha e destro\u00e7ada. E chora como ela chorou. Ningu\u00e9m ver\u00e1 as tuas l\u00e1grimas, mas pelo menos aprender\u00e1s como n\u00e3o tratar uma mulher que te ama. E um dia, quando finalmente seguires em frente, espero que sejas capaz de te perdoar por toda a merda que lhe fizeste.<\/p>\n

Because, darling, you can bet that she won\u2019t!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You don\u2019t get it, do you? You are still not aware of the fact that you let go of the girl who was the right one. The one you could introduce to your parents and the one who you were not ashamed to show in public. You see, she was a woman to love. But…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":123554,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6818","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Let-The-Right-Girl-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6818","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6818"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6818\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123554"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6818"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6818"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6818"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}