{"id":6823,"date":"2020-08-13T14:48:53","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T14:48:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6823"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:46:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:46:35","slug":"as-amizades-nao-sao-feitas-para-durar-uma-epoca-da-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-amizades-nao-sao-feitas-para-durar-uma-epoca-da-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"Algumas amizades n\u00e3o foram feitas para durar mais do que uma temporada da sua vida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s funny how<a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/judith-johnson\/when-your-partner-becomes_b_6542624.html\" rel=\"noopener\"> algu\u00e9m que era t\u00e3o pr\u00f3ximo de si \u00e9 agora um estranho<\/a>. That happens to a lot of friendships because they aren\u2019t meant to last forever.<\/p>\n<p>Even though the ending of a relationship and a friendship are two different things, ending a friendship can be just as devastating and heartbreaking. And it\u2019s something difficult we need to cope with and let go of.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you and your childhood friend grow up to be two completely different individuals who can\u2019t get along so well anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Hanging out and talking isn\u2019t as easy as it used to be. Once you might\u2019ve had a lot of things in common, a variety of different topics. Now the conversation is forced and you have a lot of moments of awkward silence.<\/p>\n<p>You often meet new friends in school, in your studies, at work or near to where you live. Your timetables are similar and it\u2019s convenient and easy for you guys to spend time together. When things change, friendship changes too.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You drift apart because it\u2019s not so convenient to spend time together anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/health\/archive\/2015\/10\/how-friendships-change-over-time-in-adulthood\/411466\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Agora, os hor\u00e1rios t\u00eam de ser ajustados e \u00e9 preciso arranjar tempo para os amigos.<\/a> \u00c9 aqui que se v\u00ea se ela era apenas uma conveni\u00eancia e n\u00e3o uma verdadeira amiga.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111989 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uma loira triste senta-se \u00e0 janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Of course, if she was a true friend, you would make an effort, you would stay in touch and give the best of you to make it work. If not, then it\u2019s just not worth crying over.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As rela\u00e7\u00f5es tamb\u00e9m podem interferir com a amizade.<\/strong> Quando alguns dos nossos amigos se apaixonam, optam por passar todo o tempo com a pessoa amada, pelo que tendem a perder-te de vista.<\/p>\n<p>They just don\u2019t have the time, unless they are having troubles in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Nessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o, eles voltar\u00e3o a rastejar para si, porque n\u00e3o t\u00eam um ombro para chorar como o seu. Esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o torna-se muito velha muito em breve. Sentimos que estamos a ser usados e que a amizade vai acabar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There are times when you don\u2019t really know the people you are friends with.<\/strong> Ao fim de algum tempo, mostram a sua verdadeira face.<\/p>\n<p>Ou descobrimos que s\u00e3o duas caras e que nunca os podemos conhecer verdadeiramente. Confiaste-lhes tudo e eles tra\u00edram-te.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111990 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher triste sentada \u00e0 beira-mar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even though you might feel like the biggest fool, you weren\u2019t just good friends in this case. They were meant to be in your life to teach you a lesson and make you grow. Be grateful for the experience.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As amizades precisam de ser trabalhadas.<\/strong> Friends aren\u2019t the ones who are there only when it\u2019s convenient or when they have nothing better to do. They will find the time and make an effort and they will expect the same from you.<\/p>\n<p><em>Os amigos est\u00e3o l\u00e1 durante as dificuldades e as dores. Eles est\u00e3o l\u00e1 durante a sua alegria e felicidade. Est\u00e3o l\u00e1 para partilhar tudo consigo. <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/holly-riordan\/2017\/10\/even-though-we-go-weeks-without-seeing-each-other-youre-still-my-best-friend\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Se n\u00e3o, ent\u00e3o nunca foram os vossos verdadeiros <\/a><\/em>amigos<em> para come\u00e7ar.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Never regret any of your past friendships. Don\u2019t burden yourself with what you could\u2019ve, should\u2019ve, would\u2019ve done to change things or make a friendship last.<\/p>\n<p>Algumas pessoas n\u00e3o est\u00e3o destinadas a estar connosco at\u00e9 ao fim dos nossos dias.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Era suposto estarem l\u00e1 como uma esta\u00e7\u00e3o passageira na sua vida e nada mais.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> S\u00f3 se tiveres sorte \u00e9 que encontrar\u00e1s pelo menos um amigo que estar\u00e1 presente em todas as tuas esta\u00e7\u00f5es e ter\u00e1s uma amizade que durar\u00e1 muito tempo. <\/strong>vida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111992 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Algumas amizades n\u00e3o foram feitas para durar mais do que uma temporada da sua vida\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s funny how someone who was so close to you is a stranger now. That happens to a lot of friendships because they aren\u2019t meant to last forever. Even though the ending of a relationship and a friendship are two different things, ending a friendship can be just as devastating and heartbreaking. And it\u2019s something&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":111987,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6823","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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