{"id":6839,"date":"2020-07-16T10:36:41","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T10:36:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6839"},"modified":"2022-03-02T00:12:33","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T00:12:33","slug":"nao-e-complicado-querer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-e-complicado-querer\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o complicado - Se ele quisesse estar contigo, estaria"},"content":{"rendered":"

Isto \u00e9 algo que d\u00f3i muito saber, mas temos de admitir que \u00e9 sempre melhor ser magoado pela verdade do que confortado com mentiras.<\/p>\n

Porque, mais cedo ou mais tarde, a verdade<\/a> e se sair mais tarde, vai doer muito mais do que se sair mais cedo. E a verdade \u00e9 que:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that complicated actually. Se ele quisesse estar contigo, estaria contigo<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s much easier to believe it\u2019s just complicated. I know it hurts a little less to blame it on the timing, to blame it on anything else, just so you wouldn\u2019t have to blame it on him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you kept waiting for so long.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why hope never left your side and that\u2019s why you were able to make yourself believe that one day it just wouldn\u2019t be complicated anymore and that finally, the waiting would be worthwhile.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Foi exatamente assim que te foste partindo peda\u00e7o a peda\u00e7o. Porque nunca deixaria de ser complicada com ele.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitos caminhos que isto pode seguir.<\/p>\n

Ele pode ser um idiota que s\u00f3 precisa de a usar para fazer ci\u00fames a algu\u00e9m ou talvez seja apenas um homem t\u00f3xico<\/a> que precisa de algu\u00e9m para projetar as suas inseguran\u00e7as. Talvez fosses apenas um simples adere\u00e7o para ocupar o tempo dele.<\/p>\n

O pior seria se ele fosse um bom rapaz que tivesses de deixar ir.<\/p>\n

He could be the person who makes you feel good about yourself but doesn\u2019t really feel the same way you do. Or he could like you, but still not think you\u2019re the one.<\/p>\n

It could be that he\u2019d be with you if there wasn\u2019t this other person with him.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Regardless of what the scenario is, if he wanted you, he wouldn\u2019t need to think about it, and if he really wanted to be with you, it would just be instinct for him to choose you.<\/p>\n

And since you\u2019re thinking it\u2019s complicated while it seems he has no intention of choosing you, you might have to face the ugly reality:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that complicated actually. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to stop making excuses for him and justifying his actions.<\/a><\/p>\n

Pense em si por um segundo e na forma como se comporta. \u00c9 assim t\u00e3o complicado na sua vida? Se quisesse algu\u00e9m, estaria a inventar desculpas ou estaria a lutar por ele?<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t allow somebody who you want in your life to think he\u2019s not your priority or that you wouldn\u2019t allow anything to stand in your way and there is nothing stopping him from doing the same.<\/p>\n

Exceto a sua falta de vontade, \u00e9 claro.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

There are two ways that you can allow this to go and no matter which one you choose, you\u2019re going to get heartbroken either way.<\/p>\n

Mas o lado positivo \u00e9 que podes escolher partir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o apenas uma vez em vez de quebrando-o uma e outra vez<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You will keep breaking your heart if you keep justifying his actions. You\u2019ll keep breaking your heart if you keep choosing a man who isn\u2019t likely to choose you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll keep breaking your heart if you keep waiting for the one you\u2019re almost sure won\u2019t ever come to you in the way you\u2019d like him to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas s\u00f3 se parte o cora\u00e7\u00e3o uma vez se se decidir ser sincero consigo mesmo. S\u00f3 se parte o cora\u00e7\u00e3o uma vez se decidirmos n\u00e3o nos enganarmos mais.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 se parte uma vez se se escolher a si pr\u00f3prio como prioridade. Parte o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o sozinho desta vez e segue em frente depois de aceitares:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that complicated. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This is something that hurts like hell to know, but you have to admit to yourself that it\u2019s always better to be hurt by the truth than comforted with lies. Because, sooner or later, the truth will come out and if it comes out later it will hurt much more than it would if it…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":104032,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6839","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Its-Not-That-Complicated-If-He-Wanted-To-Be-With-You-He-Would-Be-With-You.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6839","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6839"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6839\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/104032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6839"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6839"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6839"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}