Well, this is exactly what you should focus on if you\u2019re about to begin a relationship long distance.<\/p>\n
No entanto, apesar do seu lado rom\u00e2ntico, manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa n\u00e3o \u00e9 s\u00f3 sol e arco-\u00edris.<\/p>\n
De facto, \u00e9 muitas vezes stressante e dif\u00edcil de gerir.<\/p>\n
However, that\u2019s why we\u2019re here; to tell you everything you need to know before starting a long distance relationship.<\/p>\n
Aperte o cinto, continue a ler e arme-se com muita paci\u00eancia! Boa sorte!<\/p>\n
1. Ser\u00e1 diferente de todas as suas outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n
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I won\u2019t lie to you; being in a long distance relationship is nowhere similar to being in a \u2018regular\u2019 relationship.<\/p>\n
Therefore, you might have had a bunch of boyfriends or girlfriends before but trust me, in this relationship, it will feel like you\u2019re doing everything for the first time ever.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m not saying that you should magically forget all about your previous experiences when it comes to romance.<\/p>\n
No entanto, prepare-se para o facto de, desta vez, as coisas serem diferentes.<\/p>\n
First of all, be aware of the fact that this journey won\u2019t be easy. I\u2019m not saying this to scare you off.<\/p>\n
Em vez disso, s\u00f3 quero que estejas cem por cento preparado para o que vem a seguir.<\/p>\n
Tomar a decis\u00e3o de iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia \u00e9 uma escolha dif\u00edcil e acarreta in\u00fameras responsabilidades.<\/p>\n
No entanto, mant\u00ea-lo bem sucedido e saud\u00e1vel ao mesmo tempo \u00e9 ainda mais dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n
Tanto voc\u00ea como a sua cara-metade ter\u00e3o de fazer muitos sacrif\u00edcios para que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia funcione corretamente.<\/p>\n
In many situations, you\u2019ll feel like a little, lost child without anyone to guide you.<\/p>\n
However, all of this doesn\u2019t mean that long distance relationships aren\u2019t worth it.<\/p>\n
Sim, isto vai trazer-lhe muitos problemas, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 d\u00favida sobre isso.<\/p>\n
However, if the love is real and if what you two have is meant to last, I promise you that you\u2019ll succeed in preserving your romance.<\/p>\n
This means that you\u2019ll have to decide whether this is something you\u2019re ready for.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m not saying that you can guarantee that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life with this person. After all, you can never know what the future brings.<\/p>\n
No entanto, h\u00e1 que pensar bem e decidir se essa pessoa \u00e9 digna de todas as dificuldades que inevitavelmente surgir\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
Mais importante ainda, tem de perceber se \u00e9 com essa pessoa que quer come\u00e7ar esta viagem.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t worry, you won\u2019t be the bad guy if you give up now.<\/p>\n
After all, it\u2019s better to be honest and back out in time than to liderar<\/a> ambos durante meio ano s\u00f3 para perceber que este tipo de romance n\u00e3o \u00e9 para si.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve come to the number one thing you should know before starting a long distance relationship.<\/p>\n It means that, despite all of the obstacles, you\u2019ve come to terms with yourself and your loved one.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve both clearly made a decision to give your story a shot.<\/p>\n Well, if that is the case, the first thing you need to know is that there will be times when you\u2019ll sentir-se sozinho<\/a>especialmente em tempos dif\u00edceis.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re in a relationship with someone who lives in the same city as you do or in an hour\u2019s drive away, this person is constantly physically present in your life.<\/p>\n Saem juntos \u00e0 noite e passam grande parte do vosso tempo livre juntos.<\/p>\n Em m\u00e9dia, este tipo de casais v\u00eaem-se algumas vezes por semana.<\/p>\n However, things won\u2019t go that way once you start a long distance relationship in which you and your partner live in different cities.<\/p>\n De facto, os dois passar\u00e3o mais tempo separados do que juntos.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re in a \u2018regular\u2019 relationship, your partner is usually a short drive away from you.<\/p>\n You can call them to come over whenever you\u2019re feeling down, you can go by their house to see them just for a few moments when you miss them and they can run to you whenever you want them around.<\/p>\n However, when you\u2019re in a long-term relationship, you won\u2019t have your significant other next to you when you need them the most; at least, not physically.<\/p>\n Also, be aware that you\u2019ll spend many of the important dates by yourself.<\/p>\n You probably won\u2019t manage to arrange a get-together every anivers\u00e1rio<\/a>, Valentine\u2019s Day or anniversary and you\u2019ll be going without your plus-one to some weddings and other important events.<\/p>\n Even though you\u2019re taken and in a committed relationship, sometimes you\u2019ll feel more single than ever.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, aqui n\u00e3o h\u00e1 espontaneidade. Pelo menos, n\u00e3o aquela a que os casais comuns est\u00e3o habituados.<\/p>\n Your partner can\u2019t appear in front of your window just to see you, they can\u2019t surprise you for a quick lunch on your break from work and you can\u2019t go out for a night drive which will last half an hour to clear your thoughts when you\u2019re both busy.<\/p>\n You and your long-distance boyfriend or girlfriend will have to see each other according to a strict schedule so you\u2019ll have to plan your date nights in advance.<\/p>\n Uma das dicas mais importantes para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa \u00e9 estabelecer algumas regras b\u00e1sicas desde o in\u00edcio da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Of course, this applies to all other romances as well. However, something like is especially significant in relationships in which you two are not constantly present in each other\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n First of all, you have to be clear about what\u2019s acceptable for each one of you.<\/p>\n It is important to note that you\u2019ll both have to have social lives outside of your relationship.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that you should allow your partner to control your entire existence but you have to determine what\u2019s okay and what\u2019s not.<\/p>\n Por exemplo, devem saber onde e com quem a outra pessoa est\u00e1 a toda a hora e avisam-se mutuamente sobre o local onde passam todo o vosso tempo sem ela ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Isto \u00e9 importante se quiser evitar que o ci\u00fame<\/a> de se tornar um problema.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that people in long-term relationships are more unfaithful than the rest of the world but a lack of trust in this case is much more common.<\/p>\n After all, you have no idea what the other person is doing in their city. As far as you\u2019re concerned, they could have a secret life you have no clue about.<\/p>\n A segunda quest\u00e3o que deve ser decididamente acordada \u00e9 o hor\u00e1rio e a organiza\u00e7\u00e3o das reuni\u00f5es. Quem vai visitar quem?<\/p>\n Com que frequ\u00eancia se v\u00e3o ver? Existem algumas datas importantes ao longo do ano em que quer que o seu parceiro esteja ao seu lado?<\/p>\n Com que frequ\u00eancia devem falar ao telefone? Como vai funcionar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia?<\/p>\n I know that you might think that all of these rules will kill the spontaneity; after all, it\u2019s anything but romantic to have a scheduled goodnight Skype or Facetime video chat every evening.<\/p>\n No entanto, se quiser que as coisas funcionem, estas regras b\u00e1sicas s\u00e3o obrigat\u00f3rias.<\/p>\n A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 crucial para todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es, especialmente as rom\u00e2nticas.<\/p>\n No entanto, quando se trata de amor \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia, este \u00e9 o fator n\u00famero um do qual depende o seu sucesso.<\/p>\n You see, couples like this don\u2019t have the \u2018regular\u2019 things everyone else in love has. In fact, they only depend on the talking part and if that doesn\u2019t work, nothing else will either.<\/p>\n Antes de mais, \u00e9 preciso tornar-se um excelente ouvinte, mesmo que nunca o tenha sido antes.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll need to learn how to understand whatever your partner is trying to tell you.<\/p>\n \u00c9 preciso deix\u00e1-lo dizer o que pensa e falar consigo sobre os seus sentimentos, pensamentos, desejos e medos.<\/p>\n When they\u2019re the one talking, there is no interrupting and imposing your own opinion.<\/p>\n Another thing you\u2019ll have to work on is your compet\u00eancias emp\u00e1ticas<\/a>.<\/p>\n Sometimes it\u2019s hard to fully comprehend the person sitting next to you, let alone someone you\u2019re talking to over the phone or someone you\u2019re texting or emailing; after all, this person is not physically present by your side.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t monitor their behavior and it will take you a lot more time to truly understand their points of view regarding certain things.<\/p>\n Besides, to become an excellent listener overnight, you\u2019ll also have to improve your talking skills.<\/p>\n Lembre-se, este n\u00e3o \u00e9 o tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que pode fazer as pazes com o dia ou com o abra\u00e7o do seu parceiro.<\/p>\n Therefore, it\u2019s time to forget about ignoring them when you\u2019re angry. There is no fantasma<\/a> e sem tratamento de sil\u00eancio.<\/p>\n Nada de agressividade passiva ou jogos mentais semelhantes. Sei que cada uma destas coisas parece inofensiva \u00e0 primeira vista e que, infelizmente, fazem parte de todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es modernas.<\/p>\n No entanto, no seu caso, n\u00e3o ser honesto e n\u00e3o ser capaz de comunicar de forma saud\u00e1vel pode ser fatal para a sua hist\u00f3ria de amor.<\/p>\n You won\u2019t wake up next to your partner the next morning after you ignored them last night.<\/p>\n Se optar por n\u00e3o responder \u00e0s mensagens de texto depois de uma discuss\u00e3o, um dia, as coisas podem ficar assim e talvez nunca se reconciliem.<\/p>\n Therefore, it\u2019s crucial to be completely honest about your thoughts and emotions.<\/p>\n Remember that your partner doesn\u2019t have the possibility to conclude anything about your feelings besides what you openly tell them.<\/p>\n O dinheiro deve ser a coisa menos importante quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n Where love is real, you\u2019ll stay next to each other through the greatest wealth and the worst poverty.<\/p>\n No entanto, infelizmente, em rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/a>O dinheiro pode tornar-se um problema s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n Para ser mais preciso, a falta de dinheiro pode representar um obst\u00e1culo aparentemente intranspon\u00edvel para o futuro da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa \u00e9 dispendioso. Para al\u00e9m do tempo e da energia, tamb\u00e9m precisa de dinheiro para ver o seu parceiro, que pode estar a viver no outro lado do pa\u00eds ou mesmo noutro continente.<\/p>\n De facto, h\u00e1 casais que passam um ano inteiro a poupar dinheiro para os bilhetes de avi\u00e3o para poderem visitar a pessoa amada durante o ver\u00e3o.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you; something like this requires a lot of sacrifice.<\/p>\n There will be times when you\u2019ll probably question your decision.<\/p>\n You might not see it now but there will come a moment when you\u2019ll ask yourself why you needed all of this when you could have led a much easier life.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, outro problema que envolve dinheiro \u00e9 o seu futuro.<\/p>\n Se planeiam vir a viver juntos, ambos precisam de uma fonte de rendimento est\u00e1vel para esta etapa.<\/p>\n No entanto, se ambos tiverem as vossas vidas planeadas nas vossas actuais cidades diferentes, isto torna-se um pouco complicado.<\/p>\n Afinal de contas, isso significa que um de v\u00f3s tem de deixar o seu emprego e encontrar um novo noutro lugar.<\/p>\n Para muitos casais, tudo isto parece demasiado. As pessoas n\u00e3o est\u00e3o preparadas para se lan\u00e7arem no desconhecido e para se tornarem emocionalmente dependentes do seu parceiro at\u00e9 se estabelecerem.<\/p>\n That is perfectly okay. It means that you\u2019re mature enough to think about other things besides this enormous love that you two share.<\/p>\n After all, no matter how romantic you are, you can\u2019t live out of love, right? Nevertheless, I want to give you hope.<\/p>\n If what you two have is real and meant to be, I promise you that you\u2019ll find a way out of this problem as well.<\/p>\n Okay, so when you read the title of this section, you\u2019ll think of it as the most unnecessary piece of advice you got here.<\/p>\n Afinal, vivem separados, quase n\u00e3o se v\u00eaem cara a cara e toda a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o se resume a telefonemas e mensagens de texto<\/a>.<\/p>\n Despite that, I\u2019m advising you to dar espa\u00e7o uns aos outros<\/a>. Parece rid\u00edculo, n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/p>\n Well, it\u2019s actually not, if you look at things from a different point of view. What you need to give each other is some cyber space.<\/p>\n Sei que quer passar todo o seu tempo livre a enviar mensagens de texto ao seu ente querido, a ver o seu rosto atrav\u00e9s de uma webcam ou a ouvir a sua voz ao telefone.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, there is a chance of you two suffocating each other even without being physically present in one another\u2019s lives as well.<\/p>\n For example, don\u2019t expect them to talk to you all the time when they\u2019re online. Don\u2019t push them to reduce their entire online activity to being in your relationship.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t be needy and clingy. Don\u2019t obsess over every single thing they post on social media, don\u2019t stalk their online status and don\u2019t create a drama when they leave you on read.<\/p>\n Quer goste de o admitir ou n\u00e3o, esta pessoa tem uma vida pr\u00f3pria fora da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n T\u00eam uma fam\u00edlia e amigos e, acima de tudo, devem poder ter algum tempo para si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n So, please don\u2019t freak out if your partner is not in the mood to chat with you 24\/7.<\/p>\n In that case, you\u2019ll only chase them away from you because nobody likes to feel like they\u2019re being too pressured to do anything.<\/p>\n Aceite o facto de que, num determinado momento, eles podem preferir navegar sem rumo pelas redes sociais ou ver Netflix e relaxar sozinhos.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you feel their lack of attention, it\u2019s something you should definitely point out.<\/p>\n Just try finding a balance between ignoring each other and being at one another\u2019s throats all the time.<\/p>\n It\u2019s one thing if your relationship is n\u00e3o \u00e9 grave<\/a>. In that case, it is perfectly okay if you and your loved one don\u2019t have any plans for settling down in the future.<\/p>\n Desta forma, podem continuar a ver-se algumas vezes por ano sem qualquer compromisso at\u00e9 que um ou ambos se aborre\u00e7am ou encontrem algu\u00e9m mais pr\u00f3ximo.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you really love each other and think that this is the real deal, I assume that you don\u2019t want to remain long distance partners for the rest of your lives.<\/p>\n Isto \u00e9 especialmente verdade se planeia casar e ter filhos.<\/p>\n Sim, existem alguns casais que vivem em diferentes locais do mundo, mas criar os filhos dessa forma \u00e9 quase imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, este tipo de arranjo \u00e9 incrivelmente caro, dif\u00edcil de manter e normalmente reservado \u00e0s celebridades.<\/p>\n Por conseguinte, se for um casal \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia do tipo normal, presumo que voc\u00ea e a sua cara-metade t\u00eam esperan\u00e7a de vir a viver juntos.<\/p>\n Bem, este tipo de coisas requer um planeamento detalhado e n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil de conseguir.<\/p>\n \u00c9 claro que ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 a dizer que devem come\u00e7ar a falar sobre estes temas logo no primeiro dia da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n After all, you still don\u2019t know where things are headed and how long you two will stick together.<\/p>\n No entanto, quando perceber que o seu romance est\u00e1 a tornar-se s\u00e9rio, estes s\u00e3o definitivamente os t\u00f3picos que deve come\u00e7ar a discutir o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n I\u2019m sure you both have some vision of arranging your relationship in the future and now is the time to reach a compromise.<\/p>\n Para que estes sonhos n\u00e3o sejam apenas palavras vazias<\/a>, it\u2019s important to plan them in detail.<\/p>\n Onde \u00e9 que voc\u00eas os dois v\u00e3o viver? Um de voc\u00eas deixar\u00e1 o seu local de resid\u00eancia atual ou procurar\u00e1 uma terceira cidade?<\/p>\n Quando \u00e9 que planeia que tudo isto aconte\u00e7a? Qual \u00e9 a data limite em que o vosso amor \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia deve ter a sua resolu\u00e7\u00e3o final?<\/p>\n Set a goal and work toward it with joint efforts if you\u2019re really serious about this relationship.<\/p>\n Um dos primeiros problemas que muitos casais \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia enfrentam ap\u00f3s alguns meses de romance \u00e9 a falta de contacto f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n Even though this might not seem so important when love is real, it actually can represent a big deal if you don\u2019t know what you\u2019re getting yourself into.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not talking about sleeping next to each other here. I\u2019m talking about a lack of closeness and physical presence as well.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re starting a long distance relationship, be aware that you won\u2019t have your boyfriend or girlfriend to kiss you whenever you feel like it.<\/p>\n You won\u2019t be able to find comfort in their soothing arms when you\u2019re feeling low and you won\u2019t have the pleasure of waking up to seeing their sleepy face every morning.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t have many possibilities other couples think as normal and usually take for granted. There is no walking with each other, holding hands.<\/p>\n Nada de abra\u00e7os nem de cheirar o belo perfume dos seus cabelos. De facto, nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia, cada uma destas coisas torna-se um luxo.<\/p>\n Torna-se algo com que passamos semanas ou mesmo meses a sonhar.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, o facto de o contacto f\u00edsico ser limitado afasta por vezes as pessoas.<\/p>\n No final do dia, todos n\u00f3s temos instintos prim\u00e1rios e isso inclui o desejo de estar fisicamente perto dos nossos entes queridos e de lhes poder tocar.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you; this is a test for all long distance couples. Some people simply can\u2019t stand it and the part in which they miss their partner so much to the point where they decide to call it quits.<\/p>\n However, if you\u2019re both strong enough, you\u2019ll see all of this as nothing but another stepstone toward your final destination.<\/p>\n A dist\u00e2ncia f\u00edsica far\u00e1 com que se aproximem espiritualmente e a saudade far\u00e1 com que apreciem ainda mais os momentos que passam juntos.<\/p>\n Being in this type of relationship will be even harder if you two don\u2019t share common interests.<\/p>\n Even though I\u2019m not saying that opostos<\/a> can\u2019t attract and last together, not being similar to your partner will give you more hard times when you\u2019re not together.<\/p>\n After all, you have little physical contact. You have no or only a few mutual friends, you don\u2019t go together to events and you don\u2019t share your daily routines.<\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que resta para falar? Bem, tamb\u00e9m tenho uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o para este caso.<\/p>\n For starters, engage in each other\u2019s interests. If your partner is a football fan, watch a game they\u2019re watching so you can comment on it later.<\/p>\n Leiam um livro em conjunto e falem sobre ele. Comecem a aprender uma nova l\u00edngua juntos ou pratiquem um desporto juntos (cada um no seu lado do mundo).<\/p>\n Hit the gym and become each other\u2019s motivation to get fit. Even if you two have different tastes in music, books, movies or art, try finding common ground.<\/p>\n You see where I\u2019m going with this, right? Basically, even if you\u2019re not into the same things your partner is, show interest in them.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that you should lie about your preferences to have a topic to talk about with them.<\/p>\n No entanto, para o bem do seu amor e para o bem da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, envolvam-se em algumas coisas que os fazem felizes e esperem o mesmo tratamento em troca.<\/p>\n Among the other skills you\u2019ll have to adopt to make your long distance relationship work, creativity is also one of them.<\/p>\n When you have a \u2018regular\u2019 relationship, after a while, you forget about imagination.<\/p>\n Deixamos de planear todos os nossos encontros com anteced\u00eancia e a maior parte deles transforma-se numa ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9 no nosso caf\u00e9 favorito ou no Netflix e relaxamos.<\/p>\n However, when it comes to an LDR, this is no longer an option. That\u2019s why you\u2019ll both have to become extra creative about your dates.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re at the beginning of your romance, it\u2019s more than enough to talk on the phone with your loved one, to text them all the time and to see them over Skype video chat.<\/p>\n No entanto, quer se queira admitir ou n\u00e3o, isto pode tornar-se aborrecido ao fim de alguns meses.<\/p>\n Da mesma forma que outros casais caem na rotina, estas mensagens de texto e telefonemas tamb\u00e9m se tornar\u00e3o na sua rotina.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you need some innovative ideias para encontros<\/a> para tornar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o mais interessante.<\/p>\n Por exemplo, podem ir jantar fora (cada um na sua cidade). Peguem nos vossos telem\u00f3veis e coloquem-nos na mesa \u00e0 vossa frente.<\/p>\n Pretend that you\u2019re together and that this is a fancy dinner date. Dress up like you\u2019re really going out for a romantic get-together with your significant other.<\/p>\n This can become a regular thing when it comes to concerts, clubbing or sports events. Don\u2019t worry about people looking at you strangely.<\/p>\n Confie em mim; a maioria deles vai achar isso incrivelmente giro. Al\u00e9m disso, a sua felicidade \u00e9 a sua prioridade n\u00famero um. Por isso, quem \u00e9 que se importa com alguns olhares estranhos?<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, lembram-se daqueles livros que deviam ler juntos? Bem, podem organizar o vosso pr\u00f3prio clube de leitura.<\/p>\n Set one night in the month where you\u2019ll discuss what you\u2019ve read. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll agree that this is an awesome date idea for long distance couples.<\/p>\n After all, you don\u2019t have to feel like you\u2019re an outcast at all the events you go to without your plus-one. Take your partner with you by phone and send them a piece of atmosphere over the camera.<\/p>\n The same goes for physical touch. You can\u2019t sleep or cuddle together but you can put your phone next to your pillow and listen to each other\u2019s peaceful breathing.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014all couples fight, without exception.<\/p>\n Those who tell you otherwise are either lying in an attempt to present their relationship as perfect as it can be or they don\u2019t care for each other to the point where they don\u2019t even put any extra effort into resolving their issues.<\/p>\n Por conseguinte, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 d\u00favida de que o seu parceiro de longa dist\u00e2ncia tamb\u00e9m ir\u00e1 discutir.<\/p>\n No entanto, o que \u00e9 importante aqui \u00e9 fazer um esfor\u00e7o extra para deixar essas discuss\u00f5es para quando se virem pessoalmente.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that you should sweep things under the carpet just to maintain your relationship long distance.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, resolvam os vossos problemas, mas quando se trata de discuss\u00f5es s\u00e9rias que s\u00e3o essenciais para o futuro da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, resolvam-nas olhando um para o outro cara a cara.<\/p>\n Para al\u00e9m disso, \u00e9 preciso estabelecer algumas regras b\u00e1sicas tamb\u00e9m no que diz respeito ao combate.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o se pode desligar o telefone enquanto n\u00e3o se discutir tudo o que h\u00e1 para discutir.<\/p>\n Mais importante ainda, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 rupturas por mensagens de texto<\/a>, e-mails ou chamadas telef\u00f3nicas.<\/p>\n If one of you wants to get out of the relationship, you\u2019ll have to be brave enough to tell the other person that straightforwardly. After all, this is fair.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll have to admit that it\u2019s quite different talking in person.<\/p>\n You sense the person\u2019s vibe, you see their nonverbal gestures and body language signs, hear the tone of their voice and you can touch them and feel whatever their feeling with more ease.<\/p>\n Uma certa dose de gra\u00e7a ci\u00fame<\/a> \u00e9 perfeitamente natural em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica.<\/p>\n When you love another person, it is normal that you can\u2019t remain indifferent to the possibility of them being with someone else. It is reasonable that you\u2019re scared of losing them.<\/p>\n No entanto, este medo intensifica-se ainda mais quando passam a maior parte do tempo longe um do outro.<\/p>\n A verdade \u00e9 que as pessoas tendem a ser mais infi\u00e9is nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n Afinal de contas, eles crescem espiritualmente \u00e0 parte da pessoa que est\u00e1 fisicamente distante deles.<\/p>\n Besides, in these circumstances, it\u2019s much easier to fall in love with someone new.<\/p>\n You miss your significant other, you miss them being gentle with you and you miss their kisses, so you run into a third person\u2019s arms.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong; I\u2019m not trying to justify affairs here.<\/p>\n Se se apaixonar pelo seu parceiro ou se come\u00e7ar a gostar de outra pessoa, tem de falar abertamente com ele antes de iniciar uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that, knowing all of this, jealousy is a common issue between long distance couples.<\/p>\n After all, you have no control over your boyfriend or girlfriend\u2019s actions or behavior.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t know if they are flirting with someone else or if they even have another secret relationship.<\/p>\n In fact, the only thing you do have is their word. You can\u2019t check up on them when you suspect something and you don\u2019t get to spend most of your partner\u2019s free time with them.<\/p>\n2. Sometimes you\u2019ll feel alone<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. \u00c9 necess\u00e1rio estabelecer algumas regras b\u00e1sicas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 fundamental<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. O dinheiro pode tornar-se um problema<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. T\u00eam de dar espa\u00e7o um ao outro<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. Deve ter um plano para o futuro<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. O contacto f\u00edsico \u00e9 limitado<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n9. Devem partilhar interesses comuns<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n10. \u00c9 preciso ser criativo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n11. Deve argumentar pessoalmente<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n12. Jealousy can be a problem\u2026<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n13. \u2026 but trust is essential<\/h2>\n
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