{"id":68511,"date":"2020-05-13T16:05:52","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T16:05:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=68511"},"modified":"2022-01-05T15:52:52","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T15:52:52","slug":"7-erros-de-separacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-erros-de-separacao\/","title":{"rendered":"7 erros de separa\u00e7\u00e3o que n\u00e3o deve cometer em circunst\u00e2ncia alguma"},"content":{"rendered":"

As separa\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o dolorosas, mas, por vezes, s\u00e3o de facto inevit\u00e1veis. Por vezes, a \u00fanica decis\u00e3o correcta \u00e9 terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

Depois vem a parte dif\u00edcil. \u00c9 preciso pensar na forma mais f\u00e1cil de dizer isto \u00e0 outra pessoa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tenha sempre em mente que tem de ser gentil com eles porque pode partir-lhes o cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Na verdade, nunca h\u00e1 uma forma correcta de acabar com algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

As pessoas t\u00eam raz\u00f5es diferentes para acabar com o seu parceiro e isso tamb\u00e9m faz com que todas as separa\u00e7\u00f5es sejam diferentes.<\/p>\n

No entanto, h\u00e1 certas coisas que o tornam sempre ainda mais dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

1. Don’t use the “it’s not you, it’s me” excuse<\/h2>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

This is probably the lamest excuse ever. Perhaps it really is you, but you aren’t breaking up with yourself, you\u2019re breaking up with another person and you owe them an explanation.<\/p>\n

Parece uma mentira. Ningu\u00e9m vai acreditar que o facto de os deixares n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com eles.<\/p>\n

They’ll be confused and it will greatly affect their self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Using this awful line won’t help to make your breakup any less painful.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, deve ter uma conversa honesta com o seu parceiro e explicar-lhe porque \u00e9 que precisa de acabar com as coisas.<\/p>\n

2. Don’t wait too long<\/h2>\n

\"m\u00e3os<\/p>\n

Talvez tenha deixado de amar o seu parceiro, mas ainda gosta dele e quer acabar com ele da forma mais indolor poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Mas parece que nunca se consegue encontrar o momento certo para o fazer.<\/p>\n

De cada vez que planeiam acabar, algo acontece e pensamos que as coisas v\u00e3o melhorar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A dura realidade \u00e9 que procrastinar a separa\u00e7\u00e3o nunca a tornar\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Postponing it won’t help anyone. You should only put it off if you aren’t completely sure whether breaking up is your only option.<\/p>\n

3. Don’t break up via text message<\/h2>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

NUNCA se deve acabar com algu\u00e9m atrav\u00e9s de uma mensagem de texto.<\/p>\n

Independentemente das circunst\u00e2ncias, as separa\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam sempre de ser feitas pessoalmente.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o s\u00f3 magoar mais o seu parceiro<\/a>, but you’ll also show them that you don’t respect them at all.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, tem de lhe dar a oportunidade de lhe perguntar o que correu mal. No entanto, se mesmo assim optar por terminar com a pessoa atrav\u00e9s de uma mensagem de texto, eis a lista de mensagens de texto de separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> pode ser-lhe \u00fatil.<\/p>\n

4. Don’t justify your feelings<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Sim, deve explicar \u00e0 outra pessoa a raz\u00e3o pela qual se separou dela. Mas tem o direito de deixar de amar algu\u00e9m e nunca deve tentar justificar o facto de os seus sentimentos terem mudado.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa que tem de fazer \u00e9 ser honesto com o seu parceiro e dizer-lhe como as coisas est\u00e3o. <\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s better to end things on time than to be stuck in a relationship with someone you don’t love anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. Don’t think about your mutual friends<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Tem medo de se separar do seu parceiro porque frequentam os mesmos c\u00edrculos.<\/p>\n

You think that if you end the relationship, all your friends will take your partner’s side or it would be awkward for them to hang out with both of you. You are afraid that you might be lonely.<\/p>\n

Don’t worry if some of them decide not to hang out with you anymore.<\/p>\n

Amigos verdadeiros<\/a> will always be there for you. They’ll be a great support for both of you, to get over it as soon as possible.<\/p>\n

6. Don’t suggest staying friends<\/h2>\n

\"Grande<\/p>\n

Acredite em mim, a pessoa que est\u00e1 a ser abandonada nunca quer continuar amiga do seu parceiro imediatamente ap\u00f3s a separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don’t even think of suggesting that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Precisam de tempo para sofrer e sarar porque a separa\u00e7\u00e3o os magoou.<\/p>\n

Maybe once they move on, they’ll be ready to be friends with you, but they’ll need time to heal properly first.<\/p>\n

It is the lamest comfort ever. It’s like you said: You can’t date me but you can be friends with me<\/em>.<\/p>\n

And those “friendships” are the most awkward ones.<\/p>\n

7. Don’t immediately start dating someone new<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

If you start dating someone new right after the breakup, your partner might think that you’ve cheated them with that person while still in a relationship with them.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m precisa de algum tempo ap\u00f3s o fim da rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Preste mais aten\u00e7\u00e3o aos seus sonhos e objectivos.<\/p>\n

Apressar-se numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 sempre uma m\u00e1 ideia.<\/p>\n

<img class=”al\"7<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Breakups are painful, but sometimes they are indeed inevitable. Sometimes, the only right decision is to end the relationship with your partner. Then comes the difficult part. You have to think of the easiest way to tell this to the other person. Always keep in mind that you have to be gentle with them because…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":68515,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-68511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/7-breakup-mistakes-you-should-under-no-circumstances-make.jpg",800,500,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=68511"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68511\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/68515"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=68511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=68511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=68511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}