{"id":68644,"date":"2020-05-08T16:16:03","date_gmt":"2020-05-08T16:16:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=68644"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:23:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:23:52","slug":"coisas-para-falar-com-um-rapaz-para-o-manter-interessado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-para-falar-com-um-rapaz-para-o-manter-interessado\/","title":{"rendered":"Coisas para falar com um rapaz: 13 maneiras de o manter interessado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Good conversation is the basis for any healthy relationship, right ladies? So it’s only natural that you’d wonder about what sort of things to talk about with a boy!<\/p>\n

Getting the right conversation starter is crucial if you don’t want to blow your chances for a great first impression.<\/p>\n

Today, you’re going to find out lots of amazing things to talk about with a guy and learn all about keeping him interested in spending more time with you. I’m going to teach you how to charm him via text, in person, and as you start seeing each other!<\/p>\n

Be sure to keep reading as I’ve collected a lot of interesting data that I’m sure will come in handy!<\/p>\n

Getting the conversation going can be such a hassle, as sometimes all the conversation topics you had in mind vanish without a trace. But don’t worry. It happens to all of us!<\/p>\n

\"atletas<\/p>\n

After reading this, you’ll have nothing but great conversation with this boy, and with a little bit of luck, you’ll find shared interests, common ground, and learn how to avoid all those pesky awkward silences!<\/p>\n

A primeira vez \u00e9 sempre a mais complicada, por isso aguenta!<\/p>\n

If you’re searching for great conversation starters, want to learn how to break the ice with your crush, and make sure to keep it going after the first date, continue reading and get your man!<\/em><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Porque \u00e9 que n\u00e3o consigo encontrar o amor? 10 problemas que o impedem de encontrar a pessoa certa<\/a><\/p>\n

Coisas para falar com um rapaz atrav\u00e9s de mensagens de texto<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Here, we’ll go through things to talk about with a guy via text! As you’re going through the first stages and getting to know each other, here are some useful conversation starters.<\/p>\n

Antes de o conhecer pessoalmente, \u00e9 assim que deve ser se quiser mant\u00ea-lo investido a longo prazo.<\/p>\n

1. Seja breve, doce e divertido!<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Through texting, your goal is to let this boy know you’re easy, breezy, and super fun to have around. So avoid having serious conversations and steer clear of draining topics.<\/p>\n

Ask him what he’s passionate about and what his weirdest pet peeves are.<\/p>\n

Don’t give him a hard time about anything and leave something for the next time you text. My advice is to leave an air of mystery about yourself!<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a com que ele se interrogue sobre certas coisas, n\u00e3o partilhando tudo de uma vez.<\/p>\n

Pergunte-lhe qual a sua comida preferida, que tipo de m\u00fasica ouve e qual o seu s\u00edtio preferido para descontrair. Mas quando ele fizer as perguntas, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de se manter intrigante, t\u00edmida e como algu\u00e9m que ele quer conhecer melhor.<\/p>\n

2. Fazer perguntas de seguimento para manter a conversa em curso<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If the guy seems eager, give him something to go on! By sharing things with you, he’s letting you know that he likes talking to you.<\/p>\n

So don’t leave him hanging; ask him follow-up questions!<\/p>\n

Whatever he’s typing about, ask him about it. That will give him reassurance that you actually want to hear about it.<\/p>\n

Outra coisa \u00e9 dar-lhe espa\u00e7o para dizer o que tem a dizer. Como? N\u00e3o estando sempre a fazer perguntas e dando-lhe tempo para terminar as suas ideias.<\/p>\n

Guys like to know that they’re being heard and that’s exactly what you’ll do. But always find a healthy balance between being too nosey and just the right amount of curiosity.<\/p>\n

3. Enviar-lhe memes engra\u00e7ados<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

But be careful. Make sure that it’s actually funny and it will make him LOL. Here’s how you’ll know if it’s text-worthy.<\/p>\n

It’s very simple; if it made you laugh the moment you saw it, it’s likely going to do the same to him. But if it’s neither here nor there, keep looking!<\/p>\n

You can ask around about his likes and dislikes, and that’ll give you an idea of what he might consider funny! The point of sending him a funny meme is to make him laugh.<\/p>\n

Why? Because then he’ll be reminded of you every time he sees that or anything similar.<\/p>\n

See? It’s all about leaving a lasting impact! And by the time you get that first date, you’ll already have made a great first impression, which will benefit you greatly by making him see how cool and witty you are.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 10 diferen\u00e7as cruciais entre amor e paix\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n

Coisas para falar pessoalmente com um rapaz<\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Esta parte est\u00e1 relacionada com aqueles encontros casuais e com o facto de se verem atrav\u00e9s de amigos comuns! H\u00e1 imensas coisas divertidas para discutir com a sua cara-metade em pessoa que manter\u00e3o o ambiente leve e divertido.<\/p>\n

You may know this guy to some extent, he may even be a casual friend, or you may have spotted him across the bar! Here’s how you’ll get his attention.<\/p>\n

4. What’s your name?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Obviously, this pertains to the guy you just spotted. You’re sitting at a bar, looking around, and you see this cute dude.<\/p>\n

You want to go over but you’re not sure what to say. Sometimes, the key is simplicity. Go over, and ask him what his name is.<\/p>\n

Simple as that! By his reaction, you’ll get a sense if he wants to keep talking or not. If he seems friendly and offers you his name, introduce yourself, shake his hand and give him a coy smile!<\/p>\n

Ask him about the origin of his name (if it’s an unusual one) and keep talking about how cool this place is. And before you know it, the conversation will develop all on its own!<\/p>\n

5. Pergunte-lhe sobre a sua bebida!<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

First thing you should know; men love to be approached by women and getting talked up! So you can’t go wrong whatever happens. Secondly, your best bet is to ask him about his drink.<\/p>\n

If he’s sipping something interesting, pretend that you want to order the same thing so you want to know if it’s worth it.<\/p>\n

That will give you a few minutes of great conversation, and if the guy’s into you, trust me, you’ll see it by his behavior and body language.<\/p>\n

Outros temas interessantes s\u00e3o o que ele faz nos tempos livres e se tem contas nas redes sociais, podendo at\u00e9 partilhar algumas das coisas mais engra\u00e7adas que viu nas redes sociais ultimamente. Tudo o que lhe parecer natural no momento.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Romance na faculdade: 17 dicas para fazer dar certo<\/a><\/p>\n

6. Descobrir qual \u00e9 o seu estado de relacionamento<\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

This is a bit trickier to figure out, but definitely not impossible! First, if you’re a straightforward type of person, just go ahead and ask him something like ”Are you here with your girlfriend, best friend, coworkers…?<\/em>” and you’ll get your answer just like that!<\/p>\n

But if you’re on the shy side, there are other conversation topics that will help you get it out of him. Ask him if he’s been on any fun vacations lately and who with.<\/p>\n

If that doesn’t help, ask where his girlfriend is and if she minds him spending time alone at a bar (com um sorriso sedutor mas cauteloso<\/em>).<\/p>\n

And another great tip is to casually mention Tinder and totally randomly ask if he’s on there. Some of these things are bound to get you an answer!<\/p>\n

7. Menciona um novo restaurante que queres mesmo experimentar<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If you’re talking to a guy you know, this should be a piece of cake! Think really hard if there are any new places that recently opened and that you really want to visit!<\/p>\n

Maybe a bar, restaurant, or event that he might be interested in. And the next time you’re talking, mention how much you want to go!<\/p>\n

Mas n\u00e3o te esque\u00e7as de lhe dar uma dica forte de que queres que sejam s\u00f3 voc\u00eas os dois, longe dos vossos amigos comuns. Se queres que este rapaz se torne o teu melhor amigo e amante, tens de passar algum tempo de qualidade juntos, um a um!<\/p>\n

That’s the only way you’ll find out all about his favorite things, which TV shows he binge-watches, if he has a good sense of humor, and what his all-time favorite movie is!<\/p>\n

Quem sabe, talvez tenham o mesmo super-her\u00f3i preferido, o que vos dar\u00e1 muito que falar!<\/p>\n

8. Perguntar sobre os seus planos para o fim de semana<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Fingers crossed he doesn’t have any! This is a really big step (in the right direction) and if he’s interested de todo<\/em>, he’ll make sure you know!<\/p>\n

Tell him you don’t have any plans and show how excited you are as you can’t remember the last time you were free for a fun weekend adventure!<\/p>\n

And now the ball’s in his court. He knows you’re free and he sees that you’re eager. It’s up to him what happens next.<\/p>\n

If he’s the type of guy who’d rather stay home playing video games all weekend long instead of spending time with you, maybe he’s not worth the bother.<\/p>\n

But if he has any idea how awesome you are, he’ll get the hint and offer to make plans together. And that’s all you really want!<\/p>\n

Tempo de qualidade um com o outro, onde podem falar sobre os vossos livros preferidos, fazer conversa de circunst\u00e2ncia ador\u00e1vel e sedutora e (esperemos!) curtir at\u00e9 os l\u00e1bios ficarem dormentes.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 12 raz\u00f5es pelas quais o seu segundo amor \u00e9 o maior de todos<\/a><\/p>\n

Coisas para falar com um rapaz no primeiro encontro<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Okay, so if you got this far \u2013 congrats! You managed to scoop your guy and get to the first date, yay! Now, it’s time to show him what you’re all about.<\/p>\n

If this is the first time it’s just the two of you, don’t panic. He’s just as nervous as you are!<\/p>\n

As long as you don’t forget to keep eye contact and follow these useful pointers, you’ll end it on a high note!<\/p>\n

9. Ask him what he’s passionate about<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

We all have something that we’re deeply passionate about! And what better way to get the conversation going than by letting him share about something so inspiring and positive?<\/p>\n

Acredita em mim, este \u00e9 o teu melhor in\u00edcio de conversa!<\/p>\n

Can you imagine finding out that you’re both into the same things? That would immediately speed things along and lead to some really good conversations!<\/p>\n

Este tipo pode tornar-se o teu melhor amigo (com todas as vantagens!)<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, os especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es salientam a import\u00e2ncia dos interesses partilhados e dos pontos em comum quando se come\u00e7a com algu\u00e9m novo. Por isso, se encontrarem algumas semelhan\u00e7as, aproveitem-nas e estabele\u00e7am rela\u00e7\u00f5es com base em coisas que vos fa\u00e7am genuinamente felizes.<\/p>\n

10. Partilhar anedotas engra\u00e7adas da inf\u00e2ncia<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When you’re faced with those annoying awkward silences (which are perfectly normal on a first date, btw) you can resort to your funny childhood stories! They will get you out of the funk and move things along as if nothing ever happened.<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s temos coisas divertidas para contar sobre os nossos primeiros anos de vida. Eu sei que podia falar durante muito tempo sobre a minha adolesc\u00eancia inc\u00f3moda.<\/p>\n

Prepare your best stories beforehand, and that way you’ll be ready should the need arise. These anecdotes might just be some of the best things to talk about with a boy!<\/p>\n

They will immediately bring a chill vibe, bring reassurance to both of you, and probably make at least one of you laugh. And the best thing about this is that he’ll just end up offering some of his best stories and the conversation will proceed organically.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como fazer com que algu\u00e9m goste de voc\u00ea de volta: 20 maneiras eficazes de obter sucesso<\/a><\/p>\n

11. Ask him ”would you rather” questions<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When you run out of things to talk about with this boy, here’s what can help. Play a game of ”Would you rather?” Here are a few examples of how this should go:<\/p>\n

Preferes ter um verdadeiro cart\u00e3o de sa\u00edda da pris\u00e3o ou uma chave que abre qualquer porta?<\/em><\/p>\n

Preferia saber a hist\u00f3ria de cada objeto que tocou ou poder falar com os animais?<\/em><\/p>\n

Prefere ser capaz de ver 10 minutos do seu pr\u00f3prio futuro ou 10 minutos do futuro de qualquer outra pessoa que n\u00e3o voc\u00ea?<\/em><\/p>\n

Mantenha-o interessado fazendo-lhe estas perguntas intrigantes e ponha-o a pensar! Isto \u00e9 invulgar, mas funciona de forma fant\u00e1stica.<\/p>\n

Experimente e veja por si pr\u00f3prio. N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de preparar algumas destas perguntas com anteced\u00eancia e d\u00ea largas \u00e0 imagina\u00e7\u00e3o dele!<\/p>\n

12. Quais s\u00e3o os seus objectivos e ambi\u00e7\u00f5es?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quais s\u00e3o os seus sonhos? O que \u00e9 que ele espera alcan\u00e7ar na vida? Est\u00e1 feliz com a vida que tem atualmente e mudaria alguma coisa se pudesse?<\/p>\n

You have to get a good sense of who he is and what he’s all about.<\/p>\n

Talking about your favorite movies is cool, but this is the only way to see if there’s a future with him. Maybe you’ll help him open up and share with you more than he wanted to, and that’s awesome!<\/p>\n

He needs to know that you’re easy to talk to and he can feel free to mention anything.<\/p>\n

When he sees how pleasant and easy-going you are, not to mention a great person to talk to, he’ll see the potential in seeing you again and again.<\/p>\n

13. Falar sobre a sua m\u00fasica preferida<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

One of the best ways to connect with someone is through music! There’s just something special in how music can move you in ways that are difficult to comprehend and simply must be felt.<\/p>\n

Ask what kind of music he’s into and see if you overlap in any genres or artists.<\/p>\n

For me personally, music is a huge factor when deciding if I’m going to keep seeing someone. When I meet a guy who’s into the same music, whom I can share all about my favorite bands, lyrics, and concert experiences, nothing quite compares.<\/p>\n

It’s the key to my soul, as is the case with lots of people out there. So figure out what type of music sets his soul on fire and with a little bit of luck, your second date might just be at a concert!<\/p>\n

And Remember\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

The longer you keep seeing each other, the easier it should be to have long, natural, fun, and serious conversations. It’s totally okay to wonder about things to talk about with a boy as you’re just getting to know each other\u2026<\/p>\n

Mas quando as coisas come\u00e7arem a ficar s\u00e9rias, tudo dever\u00e1 ser natural para si. Passar tempo com ele deve ser como umas f\u00e9rias para a sua alma e cada vez que o v\u00ea, s\u00f3 deve sentir alegria, entusiasmo e felicidade infantil!<\/p>\n

If you have to force yourself to talk about certain things and you’re having trouble connecting on a deeper level, maybe that’s a sign that he’s just not the guy for you?<\/p>\n

Because when you’re with a boy whose heart is in sync with yours, all the time in the world won’t be enough when you’re with him!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Uma cole\u00e7\u00e3o das mais doces frases de boa noite para ele e para ela<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Coisas<\/p>\n

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