{"id":6907,"date":"2019-10-16T13:24:28","date_gmt":"2019-10-16T13:24:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6907"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:54:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:54:00","slug":"perdeu-nao-escolheu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perdeu-nao-escolheu\/","title":{"rendered":"Perdeste-me quando n\u00e3o me escolheste"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aqui tens, conseguiste o que querias e perdeste-me para sempre. Ainda me lembro daquele dia em que estavas a lutar para escolher entre mim e ela.<\/p>\n<p>E lembras-te do que eu te disse?<\/p>\n<p><strong>That you should choose her because if you ever loved me you wouldn\u2019t have to make any decision.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o p\u00e1ra de fingir que te preocupas comigo agora. A tua indecis\u00e3o \u00e9 uma decis\u00e3o. E eu tomei a minha decis\u00e3o. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/shannon-colleary\/post_9797_b_7813314.html\" rel=\"noopener\">I don\u2019t want a toxic man next to me.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want a guy who can\u2019t decide what he wants in life. I want someone who is down to earth, the one who has eyes for me only and the one who will be my support.<\/p>\n<p>E tudo isso, que eu procurava em ti, mas que nunca me pudeste dar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eu era a rapariga de quem mais precisavas mas, ao mesmo tempo, era aquela que continuavas a magoar vezes sem conta.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You couldn\u2019t accept the fact that you had loved me once so you kept pushing me from you. In those days when you kept coming back to me, you were actually running away from me, but at that time you couldn\u2019t realize that.<\/p>\n<p>Num momento, mostravas-me todo o teu amor e, no momento seguinte, mostravas a tua verdadeira cara. Eras um idiota disfar\u00e7ado e eu estava t\u00e3o b\u00eabada de amor que comprei todas as tuas merdas.<\/p>\n<p>E o pior de tudo \u00e9 que <a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/the-mission\/40-things-about-life-i-wish-i-could-travel-back-in-time-and-tell-myself-e52f2effa3ab\" rel=\"noopener\">Eu estava l\u00e1 sempre que tu voltavas.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Talvez sejas um bom homem, mas foste um mau homem para mim.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I am just mad at myself for staying with you all this time. I couldn\u2019t believe that you were breaking my heart piece by piece, every single day.<\/p>\n<p>E eu estava a deixar-te fazer isso porque estava loucamente apaixonada por ti. Depois de tudo o que pass\u00e1mos, estou triste por me teres quebrado e por nunca mais me recuperar.<\/p>\n<p>But in all this pain I couldn\u2019t believe that someone else could love me, as imperfect as I am.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I have someone new in my life. It took me so much time to realize that I wasn\u2019t guilty of that disaster that happened to us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aprendi que mesmo que esteja partida, com o homem certo posso ser reparada.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Talvez n\u00e3o completamente, mas o suficiente para confiar nas pessoas e voltar a apaixonar-me.<\/p>\n<p>O teu primeiro erro foi deixares-me. E o teu segundo foi fazer-me acreditar que n\u00e3o conseguiria sobreviver sem ti. Por isso, de alguma forma, quero agradecer-te por me mostrares que posso fazer muito melhor.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/treat-woman-101\" rel=\"noopener\">Mostraste-me como uma mulher NUNCA deve ser tratada<\/a>. You showed me that you weren\u2019t the right man for me and I am glad that I finally realized that. In the end, I just want to say why I never tried to beg you not to leave me.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes, mesmo que te amasse com todo o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, era suficientemente orgulhoso para n\u00e3o te pedir para ficares comigo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O mundo \u00e9 grande e eu tenho muito para oferecer. \u00c9 pena que tenhas percebido isso demasiado tarde!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-51324\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here you go now, you got what you wanted, and you lost me forever. I still remember that day when you were struggling to choose between me and her. And do you remember what I said to you? That you should choose her because if you ever loved me you wouldn\u2019t have to make any&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":6909,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6907","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/thanh-tran-334583.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6907","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6907"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6907\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6909"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}