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<\/p>\nAlguma vez sentiste que ultrapassaste as pessoas? E n\u00e3o apenas as pessoas, mas a forma como faz as coisas, como as aborda? Sem d\u00favida que sim.<\/p>\n
Fico espantado com a quantidade de pessoas que perseguem a emo\u00e7\u00e3o de rela\u00e7\u00f5es de empurra-empurra, quentes e frias. Infelizmente, eu tamb\u00e9m estava nessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
Mind games is a serious issue that\u2019s become so common and \u2013 what\u2019s worse \u2013 expected. When did this happen?<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t want to feel nervous after every text I send. I don\u2019t want to fear hearing lies. I don\u2019t want to let someone\u2019s pride or lack of interest dictate how I live.<\/p>\n
O que \u00e9 que aconteceu aos costumes genu\u00ednos da velha guarda? Um amor doce e empenhado? Ver a pessoa amada e mais ningu\u00e9m?<\/p>\n
Fazer um esfor\u00e7o real para os fazer felizes e sentirem-se seguros e acarinhados s\u00f3 porque os amamos?<\/p>\n
Why has everything become just a lame ego game? I don\u2019t want you to prove to me you\u2019re better than me or anyone else.<\/p>\n
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I don\u2019t want you to show me how desirable you are by ignoring me, downplaying me, or treating me like an option.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re going to treat me like an option, then I don\u2019t want to be with you. It\u2019s degrading and I don\u2019t deserve that.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t accept halfway commitment or love. Why should I? Partner is the person you spend your life with.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t want pretense and fakeness. Why should I share my life with someone who\u2019s not capable of processing, understanding, and feeling genuine feelings?<\/p>\n
Love isn\u2019t about bragging and it\u2019s not a competition. Love is giving life meaning in two. Making each other comfortable and celebrating all the good things in life together.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s what I want. I want you to care for me and love me, and me doing the same for you. I long for caring for someone who is brave enough to do the same for me.<\/p>\n
I want to feel free to be myself around you. If we\u2019re not ourselves around each other, it simply doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n
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Isn\u2019t the purpose of life to live it fully, authentically, and unapologetically?<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t want to lower my standards or downplay my dreams just because some man doesn\u2019t have a healthy relationship with himself and seeks attention everywhere else but in himself.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re not ready to face your own faults and insecurities, don\u2019t expect me to do it for you.<\/p>\n
If you don\u2019t want to fully commit and have other plans in life, then leave mine. It\u2019s simple.<\/p>\n
You can\u2019t build a relationship on something that\u2019s false. You can\u2019t build it on fear of not feeling enough that\u2019s covered up in stupid pride.<\/p>\n
Pride has no place in real love; it can\u2019t stand the deepness of true love. When you love, you don\u2019t take advantage of someone\u2019s weaknesses and flaws, but love them despite them.<\/p>\n
Real love is when you know that the other person knows the real you \u2013 your heart. It talks without words; it talks with looks and actions.<\/p>\n
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It\u2019s not about power games and who\u2019s going to win over who. It\u2019s about trusting each other so deeply that you give the other person everything you are and know they won\u2019t use it against you.<\/p>\n
When someone loves you truly, you always feel safe with them because you know they know your heart\u2019s true intentions, even if you say or do what you don\u2019t really mean.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s love. That\u2019s what every person wants. That\u2019s what I want and I know that someday I will find it.<\/p>\n
I know they say it\u2019s rare, but not finding it is not an option for me.<\/p>\n
I know I will find a man who knows how to love me for the person I am. I know I will have that genuine love I dream about because I\u2019m open to it.<\/p>\n
Quando chegar, reconhec\u00ea-lo-ei pelo objetivo e pela liberdade que me d\u00e1 para ser finalmente eu pr\u00f3prio, e pelos seus bra\u00e7os que me fazem sentir em casa.<\/p>\n
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Do you ever feel like you have outgrown people? And not just people, but the way you do things, how you approach them? I certainly do. It amazes me how many people chase the thrill of push-and-pulls, hot-and-cold relationships. Unfortunately, I was in that situation too. Mind games is a serious issue that\u2019s become so…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":69253,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-69156","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I\u2019m-Sick-Of-Playing-Games-I-Want-Genuine-Love.jpg",800,538,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69156","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=69156"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69156\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/69253"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=69156"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=69156"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=69156"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}