{"id":69260,"date":"2020-05-11T23:09:00","date_gmt":"2020-05-11T23:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=69260"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:47:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:47:19","slug":"nao-esta-demasiado-quebrado-para-uma-relacao-feliz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-esta-demasiado-quebrado-para-uma-relacao-feliz\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o est\u00e1s demasiado quebrado para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz e \u00e9 por isso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I know you sometimes feel like there\u2019s no man that\u2019s right for you. Especially not after everything you\u2019ve been through. All the circumstances have made your love life complex, to say the least.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you even ask yourself how you\u2019ll explain everything that has happened to you to the next person that comes into your life and you feel hopeless.<\/p>\n<p>Com toda a dor que quase o deixou entorpecido e todos os seus sonhos de viver uma vida feliz e realizada arruinados, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz parece imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing left but disappointment. Disappointment in yourself, others, and love. It feels like everyone\u2019s figured out their life but you.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone seems to know what they\u2019re doing and they look so happy and content. It\u2019s almost like you\u2019re not meant to have anything easy.<\/p>\n<p>Every single thing you do in life becomes a struggle, one way or another. Sometimes you just want to give up under the pressure of all the things you \u2018\u2019should\u2019\u2019 and \u2018\u2019could\u2019\u2019 do.<\/p>\n<p>I know how you feel and that\u2019s why I need you to read this:<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re NOT broken. You\u2019re not beyond repair. You\u2019re not behind everyone else and all the tough things that have happened to you are not your fault.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-69326\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-woman-wearing-big-hat.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita com chap\u00e9u grande e casaco castanho\" width=\"800\" height=\"547\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-woman-wearing-big-hat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-woman-wearing-big-hat-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-woman-wearing-big-hat-768x525.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re simply a human being who has experienced more than others. There\u2019s a reason all these things have happened to you and you can\u2019t see it right now.<\/p>\n<p>Think about your past and everything you thought was a disaster until it turned out to be a good thing. That\u2019s what\u2019s happening to you right now.<\/p>\n<p>You have to regain your own power again. You have to break the chains of self-illusion that tell you you\u2019re not enough and that you can\u2019t change your life. You can!<\/p>\n<p>Pode mudar a sua vida eliminando toda a press\u00e3o in\u00fatil sobre as suas costas.<\/p>\n<p>A press\u00e3o do que os outros pensam de si, a press\u00e3o de ser a melhor em tudo o que faz, a press\u00e3o de ser a mulher perfeita e todas as outras press\u00f5es que a tornam t\u00e3o insegura.<\/p>\n<p>Permita-se ouvir as suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades. O que \u00e9 que <em>tu<\/em> quer? O que \u00e9 que <em>tu<\/em> necessidade?<\/p>\n<p>Seja honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio, estabele\u00e7a um objetivo e trabalhe para o atingir.<\/p>\n<p>O que \u00e9 que o impede de ter a vida que deseja? Um emprego, a sua apar\u00eancia, os seus defeitos de personalidade?<\/p>\n<p>Everything is manageable if you want it to be. You have the power to change yourself, in fact, that\u2019s the only real power you have.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let it go to waste. Use it for your own good.<\/p>\n<p>Para atrair o homem dos seus sonhos, tem de ser a mulher dos seus sonhos. Deixe-se levar por tudo o que a torna bonita para <em>tu<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Melhore-se tanto por dentro como por fora. Os dois est\u00e3o ligados.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69304 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/optimist-woman-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"mulher otimista a sorrir algures perto de um grande edif\u00edcio de vidro\" width=\"800\" height=\"542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/optimist-woman-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/optimist-woman-smiling-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/optimist-woman-smiling-768x520.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not about being superficial, it\u2019s about caring for what\u2019s given to you. It\u2019s about protecting the precious things about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Como \u00e9 que se pode esperar que algu\u00e9m veja a nossa verdadeira beleza se continuamos a escond\u00ea-la sob um v\u00e9u de inseguran\u00e7as?<\/p>\n<p>As inseguran\u00e7as s\u00e3o o que mata tudo o que \u00e9 belo.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, life\u2019s too short for that. At the end of the day, we\u2019re not here for long. Embrace all the things life gives you and use them as lessons.<\/p>\n<p>You can always choose to see good in other people and most importantly \u2013 good in yourself. That\u2019s how you will learn to live authentically.<\/p>\n<p>A coisa mais irresist\u00edvel numa pessoa \u00e9 a sua autenticidade.<\/p>\n<p>Porqu\u00ea? Porque significa que est\u00e3o em plena sintonia consigo pr\u00f3prios, que se aceitam plenamente e que conseguem ver a beleza em tudo.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing can move you once you\u2019re at peace with yourself. The relationship you want is waiting for you to love yourself so you can truly experience it.<\/p>\n<p>A happy relationship needs a happy woman. And that\u2019s<em> tu.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-69329\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You\u2019re-NOT-Too-Broken-For-A-Happy-Relationship-And-This-Is-Why-Pinterest..jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o est\u00e1s demasiado quebrado para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz e \u00e9 por isso\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You\u2019re-NOT-Too-Broken-For-A-Happy-Relationship-And-This-Is-Why-Pinterest..jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You\u2019re-NOT-Too-Broken-For-A-Happy-Relationship-And-This-Is-Why-Pinterest.-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You\u2019re-NOT-Too-Broken-For-A-Happy-Relationship-And-This-Is-Why-Pinterest.-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You\u2019re-NOT-Too-Broken-For-A-Happy-Relationship-And-This-Is-Why-Pinterest.-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you sometimes feel like there\u2019s no man that\u2019s right for you. Especially not after everything you\u2019ve been through. All the circumstances have made your love life complex, to say the least. Sometimes you even ask yourself how you\u2019ll explain everything that has happened to you to the next person that comes into your&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":69333,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-69260","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/You\u2019re-NOT-Too-Broken-For-A-Happy-Relationship-And-This-Is-Why.jpg",800,542,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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