{"id":69383,"date":"2020-05-13T16:13:26","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T16:13:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=69383"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:39:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:39:36","slug":"5-coisas-escondidas-por-detras-da-mascara-de-um-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-escondidas-por-detras-da-mascara-de-um-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas escondidas por tr\u00e1s da m\u00e1scara de um narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se alguma vez se envolveu com uma pessoa narcisista, sabe como estas pessoas podem ser perigosas.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re perfectly aware that they have the power to ruin your mental and emotional health \u2013 that their actions leave inerasable scars on their victims.<\/p>\n<p>However, the trick about narcissists is that they don\u2019t appear as toxic as they really are when you first meet them.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, as pessoas que sofrem de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-sure-signs-you-are-suffering-from-narcissistic-victim-syndrome\/\">NPD<\/a> usam m\u00e1scaras que os ajudam a esconder o seu verdadeiro \"eu\".<\/p>\n<p>Estas m\u00e1scaras s\u00e3o, na verdade, as personalidades que os narcisistas criam para se integrarem no mundo e para atra\u00edrem as suas v\u00edtimas com mais facilidade.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Um cobarde<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72602 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-scarf-on-his-neck-and-face.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de um homem com um len\u00e7o preto no pesco\u00e7o e no rosto\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-scarf-on-his-neck-and-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-scarf-on-his-neck-and-face-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-scarf-on-his-neck-and-face-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Looking at things at first, you might think that your narcissist is a brave man. He represents himself as courageous \u2013 someone without fears and who gets the job done.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 bem diferente. De facto, os narcisistas s\u00e3o os maiores cobardes que existem.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking about the usual type of cowardice here.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that this man is scared of the dark or monsters under the bed.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that they\u2019re emotionally weak and fragile.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, em vez de trabalharem os seus problemas, os narcisistas far\u00e3o tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para mascarar a sua natureza cobarde e mant\u00ea-la em segredo.<\/p>\n<p>Every narcissist\u2019s biggest fear is that people will see his true personality.<\/p>\n<p>That someone will see right through him and he\u2019ll be exposed in front of the entire world.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, this man fears himself more than anyone else. He is terrified of his emotions he can\u2019t control.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, \u00e9 um cobarde no que respeita a assumir responsabilidades.<\/p>\n<p>Este homem prefere fugir de tudo a enfrentar as consequ\u00eancias dos seus actos como um verdadeiro adulto.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Um mentiroso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72603 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/black-and-white-portreit-of-a-man-in-dark-room.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato a preto e branco de um homem num quarto escuro\" width=\"800\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/black-and-white-portreit-of-a-man-in-dark-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/black-and-white-portreit-of-a-man-in-dark-room-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/black-and-white-portreit-of-a-man-in-dark-room-768x483.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quer gostemos de o admitir ou n\u00e3o, todos n\u00f3s mentimos de vez em quando. Contamos mentiras inocentes e brancas que nos ajudam a sair de certas situa\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, mentimos para proteger os nossos entes queridos.<\/p>\n<p>We hide the awful truth and present it differently because that\u2019s the only way to stop another person\u2019s heart from getting broken.<\/p>\n<p>Even though lying is never acceptable, narcissists are not merely \u201cregular\u201d liars.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, toda a sua vida se baseia no engano.<\/p>\n<p>Estas pessoas s\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-sinais-reveladores-de-um-namoro-com-um-mentiroso-compulsivo\/\">mentirosos compulsivos<\/a>. Usam meias verdades e s\u00f3 vos dizem o que lhes conv\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Um rufia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72604 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/angry-man-shouting-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Homem zangado a gritar com uma mulher triste sentada no sof\u00e1 com as m\u00e3os nos ouvidos\" width=\"800\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/angry-man-shouting-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/angry-man-shouting-at-woman-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/angry-man-shouting-at-woman-768x483.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sabe aqueles rufias do liceu que v\u00ea nos filmes?<\/p>\n<p>Ou talvez tenha passado por algo do g\u00e9nero quando era mais novo.<\/p>\n<p>Bem, uma pessoa narcisista \u00e9 o prot\u00f3tipo de um rufia. No entanto, essa faceta est\u00e1 cuidadosamente escondida por detr\u00e1s da m\u00e1scara.<\/p>\n<p>Quando se conhece um narcisista pela primeira vez, ele finge ser o seu maior apoiante.<\/p>\n<p>This man acts like his goal is to boost your self-esteem, when he\u2019s actually doing the complete opposite.<\/p>\n<p>Finge que quer inspir\u00e1-lo a tornar-se melhor. Convence-o de que o est\u00e1 a criticar para o seu pr\u00f3prio bem.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s a front. A narcissist is actually a bully who uses every opportunity he gets to humiliate his victims.<\/p>\n<p>Ele vai deitar-te abaixo e fazer-te sentir in\u00fatil. Insulta-te e tenta fazer com que percas todo o teu respeito por ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>A raz\u00e3o pela qual os narcisistas se comportam desta forma \u00e9 bastante simples.<\/p>\n<p>Colocar a v\u00edtima abaixo de si \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de este homem se sentir melhor consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>No fundo, ele sabe que \u00e9 ele que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente.<\/p>\n<p>He knows that you\u2019re better than him and he needs to remove that advantage of yours.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\">4. Um candidato a aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72605 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/handsome-young-man.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de um jovem bem-parecido, com camisa e colete\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/handsome-young-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/handsome-young-man-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/handsome-young-man-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Os narcisistas precisam de aten\u00e7\u00e3o da mesma forma que n\u00f3s precisamos de ar. \u00c9 a coisa mais importante que os move e lhes d\u00e1 combust\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>Estas pessoas t\u00eam uma vontade incr\u00edvel de estar sob as luzes da ribalta.<\/p>\n<p>They want to be recognized, since it\u2019s the only way for them to feel significant and worthy.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, o narcisista escolhe sempre as suas v\u00edtimas em fun\u00e7\u00e3o da rea\u00e7\u00e3o delas.<\/p>\n<p>Ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 interessado em intimidar algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o lhe d\u00e1 feedback.<\/p>\n<p>Este tipo de homem acredita que \u00e9 melhor do que todos os outros. No entanto, ele precisa dessa confirma\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Ele precisa que o elogiem. Ele precisa que a sua v\u00edtima o admire para se sentir valioso.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Um manipulador<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72608 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-white-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato a preto e branco de um homem com uma camisa branca sobre um fundo preto\" width=\"800\" height=\"504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-white-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-white-shirt-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-white-shirt-768x484.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Finalmente, cada <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-maneiras-de-identificar-um-manipulador-narcisista\/\">o narcisista \u00e9 um manipulador<\/a>. Embora possa parecer uma pessoa honesta, na realidade est\u00e1 a fazer tudo o que pode para enganar a sua mente e faz\u00ea-la acreditar em coisas que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o verdadeiras.<\/p>\n<p>Este homem vai enganar-vos. Ele vai iluminar-vos e vai virar a verdade de pernas para o ar.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, he will make his victims feel guilty for the things he\u2019s done to them.<\/p>\n<p>Ele distorcer\u00e1 a sua perce\u00e7\u00e3o da realidade e continuar\u00e1 a manipul\u00e1-los enquanto tiver oportunidade.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72610 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-pinterest-1.jpg\" alt=\"5 coisas escondidas por tr\u00e1s da m\u00e1scara de um narcisista\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-pinterest-1.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-pinterest-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-pinterest-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-pinterest-1-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019ve ever been involved with a narcissistic person, you know how dangerous these people can be. You\u2019re perfectly aware that they have the power to ruin your mental and emotional health \u2013 that their actions leave inerasable scars on their victims. However, the trick about narcissists is that they don\u2019t appear as toxic as&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":72601,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-69383","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-1.jpg",800,508,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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