{"id":69512,"date":"2020-05-28T11:50:28","date_gmt":"2020-05-28T11:50:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=69512"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:12:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:12:46","slug":"se-estiver-ocupado-a-receber-bencaos-nao-ha-tempo-para-guardar-rancores","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-estiver-ocupado-a-receber-bencaos-nao-ha-tempo-para-guardar-rancores\/","title":{"rendered":"Se est\u00e1s ocupado a receber b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3os, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 tempo para guardar rancores"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dizem que atra\u00edmos o que pensamos, o que basicamente significa que somos respons\u00e1veis pelas coisas que nos acontecem.<\/p>\n

Well, I disagree. I say that you can\u2019t control your surroundings.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t control everything that\u2019s happening to and going on around you. As much as you try, bad things will happen.<\/p>\n

Pode ser-se a pessoa mais cuidadosa do mundo mas pessoas t\u00f3xicas<\/a> vai aparecer de surpresa.<\/p>\n

They will find a way to lure you into their spider\u2019s web.<\/p>\n

Podes proteger o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o com todas as tuas for\u00e7as, mas, de alguma forma, ele ser\u00e1 partido em peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n

Por muito amoroso e carinhoso que seja, haver\u00e1 sempre pessoas que o v\u00e3o usar.<\/p>\n

Pessoas que n\u00e3o te tratam como mereces ser tratado e pessoas que te partem o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"Linda<\/p>\n

Whether we accept it or not, life is not always fair. There are some things you simply can\u2019t run away from.<\/p>\n

No entanto, even though you can\u2019t control the world around you, you can control the way you react.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even though you can\u2019t control people\u2019s behavior, you have the power to control yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por isso, no final do dia, tudo depende de si.<\/p>\n

Pode decidir se quer deixar que uma coisa m\u00e1 arru\u00edne toda a sua vida, se uma pessoa t\u00f3xica arruinar\u00e1 todas as suas potenciais rela\u00e7\u00f5es e se uma coisa negativa destruir\u00e1 toda a positividade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ficar\u00e1s triste por causa da tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o falhada?<\/p>\n

Or you will be happy that you got rid of the man who obviously wasn\u2019t meant to be yours?<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1 o seu desgosto<\/a> como o fim do mundo? Ou ficar\u00e1s grato pelas li\u00e7\u00f5es que te ensinou?<\/p>\n

Ficar\u00e1 devastado por n\u00e3o conseguir aquela promo\u00e7\u00e3o que tanto queria?<\/p>\n

Ou ser\u00e1 que vai agradecer por ter um emprego que p\u00f5e comida na mesa, um privil\u00e9gio com que muitos apenas sonham?<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

A escolha \u00e9 toda vossa!<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s look at things from this perspective: if you had 1440 dollars but someone took away one dollar, would you throw away the rest? I\u2019m sure you wouldn\u2019t even contemplate it.<\/p>\n

Well, one day has 1440 minutes. Therefore, every time you allow one minute of sadness and negativity to ruin your entire day, you\u2019re actually doing the thing mentioned above.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re wasting the rest of your minutes. And, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll agree that time is much more valuable than money.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, I\u2019m begging you to change your focus. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Deixar de pensar demasiado<\/a> tudo de mau que se passa \u00e0 sua volta e concentre-se nas coisas boas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow a moment of sadness to destroy your happiness. Don\u2019t allow one tear to ruin all of your potential laughter and smiles.<\/p>\n

Em vez de se concentrarem nas vossas maldi\u00e7\u00f5es, concentrem-se nas vossas b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3os. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Agrade\u00e7a por todas as coisas boas e pessoas positivas que tem na sua vida, em vez de desperdi\u00e7ar a sua energia com o negativo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most importantly: forget about the past. Yes, you can and should learn from it but you can\u2019t change it.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o vale a pena guardar rancor. N\u00e3o vale a pena repetir alguns cen\u00e1rios anteriores na sua cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o vale a pena pensar em todos os \"ses\". N\u00e3o vale a pena ficar zangado e ressentido com alguns acontecimentos que aconteceram.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you can\u2019t do anything about it now \u2013 besides allowing your past to ruin both your present and the future.<\/p>\n

Olhe \u00e0 sua volta: Aposto que h\u00e1 muitas coisas pelas quais devias estar grato. <\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitas pessoas que devemos considerar afortunadas por termos na nossa vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Concentra-te nestas coisas.<\/strong> Concentre-se nas suas b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3os e nas pequenas coisas que o podem fazer feliz.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not trying to minimize whatever pain you might be feeling.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not trying to tell you that you\u2019re not allowed to be angry or sad.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just trying to remind you that h\u00e1 pessoas por a\u00ed que adorariam ter os seus dias maus.<\/strong><\/p>\n

People who are struggling in battles you can\u2019t even imagine and who would give everything to have your worries and hardships.<\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

They say that you attract what you think, which basically means you\u2019re responsible for the things that happen to you. Well, I disagree. I say that you can\u2019t control your surroundings. You can\u2019t control everything that\u2019s happening to and going on around you. As much as you try, bad things will happen. You can be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":69556,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29616],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-69512","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29616,"label":"spirituality"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/if-you-are-busy-catching-blessings-there-is-no-time-left-for-holding-grudges.jpg",800,500,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29616,"name":"spirituality","slug":"spirituality","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29616,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","parent":38,"count":147,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29616,"category_count":147,"category_description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","cat_name":"spirituality","category_nicename":"spirituality","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69512","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=69512"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69512\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/69556"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=69512"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=69512"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=69512"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}