{"id":6973,"date":"2020-10-17T12:07:45","date_gmt":"2020-10-17T12:07:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6973"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:02:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:02:34","slug":"5-maneiras-de-mudar-uma-relacao-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-de-mudar-uma-relacao-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras de sair de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Provavelmente todos ouviram falar de <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/13-signs-youre-toxic-relationship-ruining-life\/966801\" rel=\"noopener\">rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas<\/a>. S\u00e3o a pior coisa que pode acontecer a um casal e admito que pode ser muito desagrad\u00e1vel encontrar uma sa\u00edda de um.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e3o muito destrutivas e dolorosas e deixam marcas profundas num parceiro que tenha sido v\u00edtima de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o deste tipo.<\/p>\n<p>Mas quando as pessoas decidem libertar-se dessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica, \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil seguir em frente.<\/p>\n<p>Aqui est\u00e3o 5 maneiras de sair de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica, por isso, se est\u00e1 a lutar para sair de uma, sugiro que continue a ler.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Aceitar que teve uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120503\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher deprimida sentada no sof\u00e1 com o namorado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-her-boyfriend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-her-boyfriend-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-her-boyfriend-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-her-boyfriend-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-her-boyfriend-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-her-boyfriend-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Aceitar que se teve uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada f\u00e1cil. Qualquer pessoa que tenha sofrido com isso sabe do que estou a falar.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eam de passar por certas fases de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica e aceit\u00e1-la como tal. Devem compreender que seguir em frente \u00e9 a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o que t\u00eam.<\/p>\n<p>Depois de passarem por uma montanha-russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es, podem finalmente sentir-se livres e come\u00e7ar um novo cap\u00edtulo das suas vidas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Uma pessoa t\u00f3xica continuar\u00e1 a ser t\u00f3xica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120504\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Upset-couple-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"Casal chateado a abra\u00e7ar-se\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Upset-couple-hugging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Upset-couple-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Upset-couple-hugging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Upset-couple-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Upset-couple-hugging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Upset-couple-hugging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Upset-couple-hugging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Upset-couple-hugging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sabe que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com o seu ex era tudo menos saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>No dia a dia, lembras-te de todas as coisas m\u00e1s que ele te fez e da forma como te manteve por perto para te poder controlar.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o importa se ainda est\u00e1 a namorar ou se deixou um homem assim, <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/kaitlyn-lange\/2017\/03\/he-wont-ever-change\/\" rel=\"noopener\">deve saber que ele nunca vai mudar<\/a>. Mesmo que ele veja que est\u00e1s a sofrer com ele, nunca te deixar\u00e1 ir embora.<\/p>\n<p>Se lhe mostrares apenas um pouco de confian\u00e7a e amor, ele vai tomar-te por garantida e, no final, acabar\u00e1s em l\u00e1grimas.<\/p>\n<p>As rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o apenas m\u00e1s porque as v\u00edtimas s\u00e3o maltratadas fisicamente, mas tamb\u00e9m porque s\u00e3o maltratadas mentalmente. Imaginem uma rapariga que tenha sido v\u00edtima de abuso emocional durante anos.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t have any self-esteem, she isn\u2019t in control without her toxic man and she is lost in this world.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que ela se liberte, ficar\u00e1 com cicatrizes para toda a vida.<\/p>\n<p>So, never trust a toxic guy when he says that he will change. A leopard can\u2019t change its spots.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Deves separar o amor do medo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120505\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-a-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa sentada num sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-a-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-a-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se est\u00e1 a lidar com um homem t\u00f3xico, \u00e9 preciso separar o amor do medo.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, pensar\u00e1 que, no final, ainda h\u00e1 alguma esperan\u00e7a para os dois, mas, no fundo, saber\u00e1 que ele nunca mudar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>So, why are you still staying with him? It\u2019s because of fear.<\/p>\n<p>Habituou-se a esse modo de vida e, de alguma forma, pensa que est\u00e1 demasiado quebrada para que algu\u00e9m a ame. No final, escolheu uma vida que n\u00e3o era boa para si, com um homem que era tudo menos um ente querido.<\/p>\n<p>Se alguma vez se encontrarem numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o destas, corram o mais depressa que puderem.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t forget that you are worthy, beautiful and more than enough just the way you are. And a real man will know to recognize that!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lembra-te de quem \u00e9s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120506\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girl-sitting-on-orange-sofa-in-a-room.jpg\" alt=\" rapariga sentada num sof\u00e1 cor de laranja numa sala\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girl-sitting-on-orange-sofa-in-a-room.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girl-sitting-on-orange-sofa-in-a-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girl-sitting-on-orange-sofa-in-a-room-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girl-sitting-on-orange-sofa-in-a-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girl-sitting-on-orange-sofa-in-a-room-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girl-sitting-on-orange-sofa-in-a-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girl-sitting-on-orange-sofa-in-a-room-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girl-sitting-on-orange-sofa-in-a-room-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se est\u00e1 preso numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica, muda-se, quer se queira, quer n\u00e3o. Algumas pessoas perdem-se completamente devido a um parceiro t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n<p>They cut off all the relationships with their friends and family because their toxic partner brainwashed them, convincing them that they didn\u2019t need anyone but him.<\/p>\n<p>Sei que \u00e9 dif\u00edcil continuarmos a ser quem somos, mas se cuidarmos de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e das nossas necessidades, s\u00f3 devemos fazer as coisas de que gostamos.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t listen to the toxic man sitting next to you. He just wants to control you so that you obey all his rules.<\/p>\n<p>Lembra-te que \u00e9s um ser humano e que, por muito que ele diga que te ama, tu <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/hardeep-kaur\/2014\/01\/8-signs-youre-in-a-controlling-relationship\/\" rel=\"noopener\">he doesn\u2019t have any right to control you whatsoever.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Encha a sua vida de positividade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120507\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girlfriends-talking-and-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"amigas a conversar e a beber caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girlfriends-talking-and-drinking-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girlfriends-talking-and-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girlfriends-talking-and-drinking-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girlfriends-talking-and-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girlfriends-talking-and-drinking-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girlfriends-talking-and-drinking-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girlfriends-talking-and-drinking-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/girlfriends-talking-and-drinking-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando nos libertamos de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica, podemos finalmente fazer o que quisermos.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m a control\u00e1-lo ou a dizer-lhe o que fazer. Este \u00e9 o momento certo para se salvar da depress\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Rodeie-se de pessoas e coisas positivas e tente esquecer o seu passado mau.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe all that happened to make you even stronger and now you won\u2019t settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>You have every right to finally be happy, so don\u2019t hesitate to do things that make you feel like that.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, era suposto seres feliz toda a tua vida, mas tiveste de aprender uma li\u00e7\u00e3o de vida de uma forma dura.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t worry, there is always sunshine after rain. So, enjoy the rest of your life with people who truly love you and never settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120453\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/5-Ways-To-Move-On-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 maneiras de sair de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/5-Ways-To-Move-On-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/5-Ways-To-Move-On-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/5-Ways-To-Move-On-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/5-Ways-To-Move-On-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/5-Ways-To-Move-On-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All of you probably heard about toxic relationships. They are the worst thing that can happen to a couple and I admit that it can be very nasty to find an exit from one. They are very destructive and painful and they leave deep scars on a partner who has been a victim in a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":120502,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6973","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/5-Ways-To-Move-On-From-A-Toxic-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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