{"id":6988,"date":"2020-05-17T12:30:27","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T12:30:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6988"},"modified":"2022-02-20T22:15:20","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T22:15:20","slug":"carta-aberta-o-homem-teve-uma-segunda-oportunidade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-aberta-o-homem-teve-uma-segunda-oportunidade\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta aberta a um homem que teve uma segunda oportunidade"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca gostei muito de segundas oportunidades. Sempre pensei que dar uma segunda oportunidade a algu\u00e9m significava dar-lhe uma oportunidade de me magoar ainda mais.<\/p>\n

Sempre pensei que uma segunda oportunidade era igual a uma segunda quebra de um cora\u00e7\u00e3o j\u00e1 partido.<\/p>\n

And the thing with a broken heart is that once it\u2019s broken it can\u2019t be repaired by the person who caused it to break. That\u2019s why I still don\u2019t know why I decided to give you a second chance.  <\/i><\/p>\n

A parte do perd\u00e3o foi f\u00e1cil. Perdoei-te rapidamente. Nunca fui uma daquelas pessoas que guardam rancor.<\/p>\n

Pediste o meu perd\u00e3o e eu dei-to, sem perguntas. Foi mais dif\u00edcil perdoar-me a mim pr\u00f3prio por te ter perdoado. <\/b><\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, n\u00e3o havia maneira de o deixar entrar novamente. Estava decidido que t\u00ednhamos terminado e ponto final.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I hadn\u2019t excluded you from my life. I still returned your texts from time to time. I let you stay close to me even though we weren\u2019t together anymore.<\/p>\n

Mesmo quando n\u00e3o trocamos mensagens durante muito tempo, continuo a pensar em ti.<\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t able to get you out of my system. Afterwards, we had a period when we hadn\u2019t had any contact for months.<\/p>\n

Pedi-te para n\u00e3o me contactares, pensando que isso me ajudaria a esquecer-te mais depressa. Mas sempre estiveste no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ainda magoado.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Parecia que a pior parte era mais superar o h\u00e1bito de pensar em ti do que deixar-te ir como pessoa. Pensei que tudo o que sentia por ti era apenas uma cria\u00e7\u00e3o da minha cabe\u00e7a. <\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I decided to try and find my happiness with somebody else. <\/i>I remember convincing myself that I didn\u2019t feel anything anymore for you. That you were just a distant memory.<\/p>\n

E estava a correr bem durante algum tempo. Pelo menos eu pensava assim. Estava feliz com essa pessoa.<\/p>\n

Ele satisfazia todos os meus desejos, tratava-me como uma rainha. Era refrescante estar com algu\u00e9m que estava embriagado comigo. Sentia-me segura. Ele nunca me ia magoar como tu fizeste.<\/p>\n

Then I saw you after a long, long time. And just like that, I realized it wasn\u2019t over yet. <\/b><\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t over you.<\/b> We looked at each other long before we even spoke a single word, the feelings so intense that I felt all the pain and all the love I had for you – they were still there. They were deep down inside of me and they surfaced when I saw you.<\/p>\n

Quando finalmente fal\u00e1mos, consegui recompor-me e fazer-me de forte. Tu \u00e9 que estavas desorientado. As tuas m\u00e3os tremiam e mal conseguias dizer frases claras.<\/p>\n

Por um breve momento, senti que estava a ganhar. Acho que queria que te sentisses t\u00e3o impotente como eu me senti quando magoaste-me<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But it was just a brief moment; I didn\u2019t want to hurt you back. You asked me, \u201cAre you happy with him?\u201d<\/i> e eu disse que sim.<\/p>\n

As we got deeper into conversation, I was just more and more aware of how I\u2019d missed you like crazy. You asked, \u201cAinda sentes alguma coisa por mim? Ainda sentes cuidar de mim<\/a>?\u201d <\/i>e eu disse, \u201cI care, but it\u2019s too late.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s never too late,\u201d <\/i><\/b>disse<\/b>. \u201cI will always have hope that you will give me a second chance.\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

And I saw your eyes filled with tears. I couldn\u2019t believe it. I had never seen you like that. You were the toughest man I had ever met.<\/p>\n

Agora estava fraco e a desfazer-se diante dos meus olhos, incapaz de encontrar as palavras certas para expressar o quanto lamentava e o quanto me querias de volta.<\/a><\/p>\n

It shook me to see you so repentant. I hadn\u2019t expected it. You were never good at showing your feelings and you just took me by surprise.<\/p>\n

Mal me consegui aguentar durante o resto da nossa conversa. Depois, fui diretamente para casa e chorei muito. Pensei que era mais forte do que isso.<\/p>\n

I thought I was happy and safe with him and that you were a part of my past. I realized it wasn\u2019t happiness I had with him; it was an escape from you.<\/p>\n

So, I broke up with him. I realized that regardless of what I decided to do with me and you, that it was unfair to him. It\u2019s unfair to receive somebody\u2019s love and not be able to give it back.<\/p>\n

A pr\u00f3xima coisa que tive de admitir ao meu orgulhoso eu foi que o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ainda estava ao teu lado. Nunca tinha sa\u00eddo da tua vista. Eras e continuas a ser o \u00fanico homem que alguma vez amei.<\/p>\n

\"silhuetas<\/p>\n

Aos poucos, deixei-te voltar \u00e0 minha vida. Tinha tanto medo. Sabia que voltar a estar contigo significava deixar o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 vista de todos, desprotegido e com um risco elevado de voltar a ficar destro\u00e7ado. Tinha medo de o recompor se me deixasses ficar mal outra vez.<\/p>\n

Mas passar tempo contigo fez-me perceber que tinhas mudado. Fizeste exatamente o que eu precisava que fizesses.<\/p>\n

You still weren\u2019t good with words but your actions spoke louder. You showed me that you were truly sorry and that you were a changed man.<\/p>\n

I still can\u2019t believe that you are next to me, that I was able to surpass my pride and forgive you for everything.<\/p>\n

I still can\u2019t believe you changed. You know that I didn\u2019t believe in changes and I didn\u2019t believe in second chances.<\/p>\n

O que eu acredito \u00e9 no amor que tenho por ti. Acredito em correr riscos. Acredito que algumas pessoas valem o risco. Acredito em mim pr\u00f3pria, que serei suficientemente forte para sobreviver a isto se me voltares a magoar. <\/i><\/p>\n

Fizeste-me acreditar em segundas oportunidades. Mas tens de saber que esta segunda oportunidade \u00e9 outra forma de dizer \u00faltima oportunidade.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

S<\/i><\/b>o, I am giving you and this love one last chance, with an open mind and with all my heart. So  please don\u2019t waste it, because the only thing I know for sure is that <\/i><\/b>n\u00e3o haver\u00e1 mais oportunidades<\/i><\/b>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I was never big on second chances. I always thought giving someone a second chance meant giving him a chance to hurt me even more. I always thought that a second chance was equal to a second breaking of an already broken heart. And the thing with a broken heart is that once it\u2019s broken…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":88636,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6988","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/An-Open-Letter-To-A-Man-Who-Got-A-Second-Chance-1.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6988","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6988"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6988\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/88636"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6988"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6988"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6988"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}