{"id":6991,"date":"2020-05-17T12:25:33","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T12:25:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6991"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:29:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:29:58","slug":"quando-damos-tudo-a-um-homem-e-ele-nao-tem-a-decencia-de-nos-escolher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-damos-tudo-a-um-homem-e-ele-nao-tem-a-decencia-de-nos-escolher\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando d\u00e1s tudo a um homem e ele continua a n\u00e3o ter a dec\u00eancia de te escolher"},"content":{"rendered":"

Um homem de verdade<\/a> nunca o deixar\u00e1 na d\u00favida sobre o papel que pretende desempenhar na sua vida.<\/p>\n

Um verdadeiro homem \u00e9 sempre franco quanto ao papel que quer que desempenhe na sua vida.<\/p>\n

Only a toxic man plays with a woman\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 um homem t\u00f3xico tem a aud\u00e1cia de tirar o melhor partido de uma mulher e depois deix\u00e1-la sem nada.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 Deus sabe quantas mulheres foram deixadas a perder at\u00e9 agora na vida. E s\u00f3 Deus sabe quantas mulheres foram deixadas ao abandono durante muitas vezes na sua vida.<\/p>\n

Just because there are women who are ready to wear their hearts on their sleeves, just because there are women who are more than ready to choose one man and devote themselves wholly to him, that isn\u2019t a green light to use them and then just leave them as if they were the most irrelevant thing in your life.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Onde \u00e9 que os homens que deixam este tipo de mulheres encontram o cora\u00e7\u00e3o para o fazer? E como \u00e9 que este tipo de homens dorme \u00e0 noite?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que eles dormem \u00e0 noite sabendo que partiram os cora\u00e7\u00f5es das mulheres que esperavam ser escolhidas, que mereciam ser escolhidas?<\/p>\n

As desculpas mais cobardes v\u00eam sempre de homens que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o preparados para assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

How many times have you heard, \u201cShe was the one who wanted to give me her all, but I never asked for it!\u201d? This is a load of crap, excuse my French.<\/p>\n

If he didn\u2019t want anything from you, he should’ve made sure you were aware of that.<\/a><\/p>\n

If he didn\u2019t want to use you as he said, he should have stopped taking your kindness, because in his acceptance of your kindness and all the things you did for him was a silent promise that you two were meant to be something more.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When a real man wants you, he\u2019s upfront about it. When a real man has no interest in you, he\u2019s also upfront about it and would never send you mixed signals. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Only a coward, a poor excuse for a man, would lead you on for a long time without any intention of being with you. But it\u2019s not your fault, as he mastered this kind of game a long time ago.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deste-lhe os teus anos<\/strong>. What you had going on wasn\u2019t just blink and it\u2019s over. It was so much more than that. It was days, weeks, months, years of your time and of your hope.<\/p>\n

Foram muitas as noites de ins\u00f3nia em que esperou ser escolhida e em que houve muitos ind\u00edcios de que o merecia, mas a sua decis\u00e3o final nunca chegou.<\/p>\n

Deste-lhe o teu amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deste-lhe o teu sorriso, a tua gargalhada, a tua m\u00e3o e o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Estiveste l\u00e1 para ele.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Eras capaz de sentir quando havia algo de errado na vida dele e sabias sempre o que dizer num determinado momento.<\/p>\n

Estavas sempre pronto a salv\u00e1-lo quando ele vinha ter contigo, ferido pelo mundo.<\/p>\n

Independentemente do que ele precisasse, tu tinhas. Mesmo quando, por vezes, ele n\u00e3o fazia ideia do que precisava, tu sabias por ele.<\/p>\n

Foste a sua estrela guia na vida. Foste tu que o ajudaste a chegar ao lugar onde se encontra agora.<\/p>\n

Investiu tanto nele<\/a> e o que recebeste no final? Um saco cheio de nada.<\/p>\n

He never asked for any of what you gave him, but he never said he didn\u2019t want it either.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Ele nunca lhe pediu nada em voz alta, mas esperava que lhe desse o que precisava.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A \u00fanica raz\u00e3o pela qual nunca o disse em voz alta foi para poder manter a sua consci\u00eancia limpa quando essas coisas aconteciam.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He wanted to be \u2018clean\u2019 when you came to him to charge him for all the good you did for him.<\/p>\n

When you came knocking and asking for more in life, when you asked him to give you what you deserved and what you\u2019d been giving to him all this time, he didn\u2019t have the decency to give it to you.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t have the decency to choose you and when you got fed up, he distanced himself by saying he never asked you for anything.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t ask for it, but he sure as hell expected it.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que uma mulher t\u00e3o dedicada, t\u00e3o dotada, t\u00e3o am\u00e1vel e t\u00e3o carinhosa como tu quer de um homem assim?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be straight up, shall we? If he had any intention of choosing you, you would have been chosen by now.<\/p>\n

If he wanted to reward you for your loyalty and for all the times you were there for him when nobody else was, for all those times you chose him over yourself, it would be a done deal by now. But he didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

O pior de tudo \u00e9 que tu pr\u00f3prio tens consci\u00eancia disso, mas continuas a recusar-te a aceit\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s uma mulher inteligente.<\/a> Permitiu-se, desta vez, n\u00e3o ser est\u00fapida, mas deixar-se guiar pelo seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e pela esperan\u00e7a de que um dia ele veria o seu valor e a valorizaria pelo que era e pelo que fez por ele.<\/p>\n

You hoped that he was a better man than he had shown you and you kept giving until the point where there was nothing more than you could give. And yet he didn\u2019t have the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Em vez de o escolher a si, decidiu n\u00e3o o fazer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Decidiu ser cobarde e ego\u00edsta e recusou-se a comprometer-se. Ele queria estar aberto a todas as op\u00e7\u00f5es que existiam.<\/p>\n

But that was far from what you deserved or from what suited you. He secretly hoped that you\u2019d eventually miss him so much and that you\u2019d be ready to settle for less.<\/p>\n

What he failed to realize is that once a woman like you leaves, no matter how much pain she might endure, she\u2019s never coming back.<\/p>\n

The only thing left for you to do is to prove to him what you\u2019re made of.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You owe it to yourself to choose yourself when he doesn\u2019t have the decency to do it. You owe it to yourself to stop giving all of you to somebody who doesn\u2019t value you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You owe it to yourself to stop being exploited by a man who\u2019s not really a man, but just a poor excuse for one.<\/p>\n

Por isso, escolhe-te a ti pr\u00f3prio. Escolhe ser o teu pr\u00f3prio her\u00f3i. Escolhe salvar-te da rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica e escolhe n\u00e3o te contentares com menos.<\/p>\n

A woman like you deserves the world and if the man you want isn\u2019t going to give it to you, then stop wanting him.<\/p>\n

Because there is somebody worthy of you and there is somebody who\u2019ll value you for who you are.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 um homem de verdade por a\u00ed que lhe dar\u00e1 um lugar na sua vida. Deixar de escolher n\u00e3o ser escolhido.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

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