{"id":7005,"date":"2020-05-17T13:17:14","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T13:17:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7005"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:09:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:09:13","slug":"nao-posso-continuar-a-lutar-faca-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-posso-continuar-a-lutar-faca-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o posso continuar a lutar para que me ames"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ex,<\/b><\/p>\n

I am done! This time, I quit. There is no more meaning in fighting for someone who will never be mine. In fact, when I look back I can see that you always were everybody else\u2019s except mine. <\/span><\/p>\n

E isso d\u00f3i. D\u00f3i tanto que consigo mesmo sentir dor f\u00edsica. Cada vez que dizias algo que me magoava, sentia-me como se algu\u00e9m me tivesse dado um murro no est\u00f4mago e me tivesse expulsado todo o ar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Num momento, dava por mim sem respirar, enquanto novos pensamentos me invadiam a cabe\u00e7a: <\/span><\/p>\n

How could he do this? Doesn\u2019t he love me?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

E depois voltava \u00e0 realidade, lutando para apanhar ar e tentando fazer boa figura \u00e0 frente de todas aquelas pessoas.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see, a woman in love shouldn\u2019t feel that way. She should feel like someone who doesn\u2019t have any problems in her life. She should feel that the love for her partner is so deep that an ocean would be jealous of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

She should feel the peace that all those people in love feel. But with you that wasn\u2019t the case. I felt all the bad things and if I was about to enjoy a day with my loved ones, you would come and destroy it all. <\/span><\/p>\n

You destroyed my happiness like it was a house of cards. You made me suffer like nobody before you did. While I was with you, I couldn\u2019t recognize myself anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was a totally different person – the one who begs for a little bit of love, the one who doesn\u2019t want to be abandoned.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, passei pelo inferno e voltei contigo, mas em tudo isso, Aprendi a amar-me a mim pr\u00f3prio. <\/a>Aprendi que sou digno e muito mais do que alguma vez me deram cr\u00e9dito.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aprendi que, com o homem certo, podia ser realmente feliz e satisfeita como todas as outras mulheres.<\/span><\/p>\n

E quando me apercebi disso, deixei de lutar por ti.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Because there wasn\u2019t any sense in keeping something that was already dead. Our love was dead from the moment you didn\u2019t choose me. <\/span><\/p>\n

O nosso amor morreu nessa noite, quando escolheu-a em vez de mim<\/a>Na mesma noite, senti que o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o estava partido num milh\u00e3o de peda\u00e7os e que ia ficar assim para sempre. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if I will ever be the same me. I don\u2019t know if I will ever be able to love someone like I loved you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes, quando est\u00e1s quebrado, isso \u00e9 quase uma miss\u00e3o imposs\u00edvel.<\/span><\/p>\n

Depois de o teres partido, peguei em todos os peda\u00e7os do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que estavam \u00e0 tua frente. Peguei neles e guardei-os egoisticamente s\u00f3 para mim. Tentei tanto recuperar da dor que me causaste. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, de alguma forma, sinto que nunca voltarei a ser o meu antigo eu. Talvez isso seja bom, porque agora nunca mais me vou deixar levar por nenhum outro homem. <\/span><\/p>\n

Talvez eu seja mais forte e talvez n\u00e3o volte a passar pela mesma situa\u00e7\u00e3o.  <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end, I am not the first one and I won\u2019t be the last one to have bad luck in love.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Mas espero voltar a ser o meu antigo eu. Depois de algum tempo e depois de te ter esquecido, espero encontrar algu\u00e9m que me trate como eu mere\u00e7o.<\/span><\/p>\n

I made up my mind: I will be happy in a relationship or I won\u2019t be a part of one. That\u2019s a lesson I learned in a tough way. <\/span><\/p>\n

E ningu\u00e9m me pode tirar essa experi\u00eancia.<\/span><\/p>\n

I just want to tell you one more thing: I loved you with all my heart! You meant the world to me but unfortunately you didn\u2019t know to cherish what we had. <\/span><\/p>\n

E se alguma vez se perguntarem porque \u00e9 que eu deixei de lutar por voc\u00eas, saibam isto: <\/span><\/p>\n

TU escolheste deixar de lutar por mim e se foste suficientemente est\u00fapido para te ires embora, ent\u00e3o eu fui suficientemente inteligente para te deixar ir.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Com zero amor,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quem merece muito mais<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"N\u00c3O<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u2018Dear\u2019 Ex, I am done! This time, I quit. There is no more meaning in fighting for someone who will never be mine. In fact, when I look back I can see that you always were everybody else\u2019s except mine. And that hurts. It hurts so bad that I can actually feel physical pain. Every…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":7011,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7005","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/alexa-mazzarello-316937.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7005","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7005"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7005\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7011"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7005"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7005"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7005"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}