{"id":70053,"date":"2020-05-11T22:56:01","date_gmt":"2020-05-11T22:56:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=70053"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:50:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:50:20","slug":"se-temos-de-fazer-estas-coisas-numa-relacao-estamos-a-enganar-nos-a-nos-proprios","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-temos-de-fazer-estas-coisas-numa-relacao-estamos-a-enganar-nos-a-nos-proprios\/","title":{"rendered":"Se tens de fazer estas 5 coisas numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, est\u00e1s a enganar-te a ti pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel \u00e9 a base da vida. \u00c9 por isso que deve ser um lugar seguro pelo qual se anseia. N\u00e3o deve ser um fardo. N\u00e3o deve fazer-nos questionar se \u00e9 bom ou n\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you need to be honest with yourself and ask yourself: Are you really happy in your relationship? Or are you afraid of being alone or everything that comes after the breakup?<\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a <\/span>feliz <\/span><\/i>ou \u00e9s tu <\/span>confort\u00e1vel<\/span><\/i> because you\u2019re used to it?<\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s imagine you could remove all the obstacles that come after the breakup, like changing your life routine, changing social groups, all the inevitable and draining stuff, etc. \u2013 would you still stay with the same person?<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Tens de esconder os teus verdadeiros sentimentos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t express your feelings to the person you\u2019re closest to, that says a lot. Among other things, it says that you don\u2019t really feel they\u2019re that close to you or that they understand you.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you overthink expressing yourself around your loved one, maybe that means they\u2019re not the person you need in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

O que precisa \u00e9 de algu\u00e9m que o aceite tal como \u00e9, e isso inclui toda uma gama de emo\u00e7\u00f5es e humores.<\/span><\/p>\n

Repressed feelings only lead to serious problems and resentment later on. Resentment is the worst feeling that can happen in a relationship. It\u2019s something that slowly kills the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s best to admit to yourself that you need something else, rather than leave yourself and him in the illusion that everything is fine when it\u2019s far from that.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. \u00c9 preciso bisbilhotar<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

In other words, you don\u2019t trust your partner. We\u2019ve all done it. We looked at our partner\u2019s phone over their shoulders and that\u2019s not something surprising.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019re doing it constantly and you always feel betrayed without any evidence, you\u2019re either picking up on something intuitively or you just don\u2019t trust your partner and have trust issues.<\/span><\/p>\n

Seja como for, precisa de esclarecer as coisas. Fale abertamente com o seu parceiro sobre os seus receios e deixe que ele o tranquilize, ou pense em como resolver os seus problemas de confian\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se teve m\u00e1s experi\u00eancias no passado, normalmente leva muito tempo a sarar corretamente, mas por vezes \u00e9 preciso a pessoa certa e ele pode n\u00e3o ser essa pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n

In order to heal, we need someone who makes us feel safe. If he doesn\u2019t make you feel safe, think about if that\u2019s what makes you uncomfortable and if it\u2019s really worth your efforts.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Tem vontade de corrigir e comparar o seu parceiro<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

This one isn\u2019t easy to admit but it\u2019s crucial. People get together and fall in love, and over time that love should grow and get stronger.<\/span><\/p>\n

The reality is that sometimes initial infatuation starts fading and love doesn\u2019t become stronger. but turns into constant nagging, passive-aggressive behavior, and fights.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to admit to yourself that you don\u2019t like the person the way you thought you did than pretend they\u2019re going to change. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change the person \u2013 that\u2019s the biggest mistake people make. They believe they can change another person, but that\u2019s impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can either accept and love the person as they are or find someone who\u2019s a better match.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Mente sobre o dinheiro<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Money is one thing that often takes center stage in arguments. If you want to spend life with someone, that means you\u2019ll need to talk about money <\/span>muito<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you lie about the money you spend or anything else money-related, that\u2019s an issue.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t be honest with your partner and work with them as a team \u2013 or at least agree on certain things \u2013 it\u2019s always going to be an issue for you. It\u2019s not something that will sort itself out.<\/span><\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t lie about things that make up a pretty big part of life.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Tens de te lembrar porque \u00e9 que est\u00e1s com eles<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to feel dissatisfied in a relationship from time to time, but if you\u2019re feeling it often, something isn\u2019t right.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you find yourself trying to rationalize your love for them or living on memories of things that happened in your past, then maybe your relationship simply isn\u2019t working as it should.<\/span><\/p>\n

A healthy relationship makes you feel good inside. You don\u2019t question it \u2013 it makes you confident in yourself and your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to make changes in your life if you feel dissatisfied. Deep down in your heart, you know the right thing to do and all you need to do is be brave.<\/span><\/p>\n

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A healthy relationship is a foundation of life. That\u2019s why it should be a safe place you look forward to. It shouldn\u2019t be a burden. It shouldn\u2019t make you question whether it\u2019s good or not. That\u2019s why you need to be honest with yourself and ask yourself: Are you really happy in your relationship? Or…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":70085,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-70053","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/If-You-Have-To-Do-These-5-Things-In-A-Relationship-You\u2019re-Deceiving-Yourself.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70053","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=70053"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70053\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/70085"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=70053"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=70053"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=70053"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}