{"id":7068,"date":"2017-10-19T08:42:42","date_gmt":"2017-10-19T08:42:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=7068"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:08:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:08:48","slug":"10-sinais-de-alerta-de-um-narcisista-abusado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-alerta-de-um-narcisista-abusado\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sinais de alerta de que est\u00e1 a ser abusado por um narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Uma vida com um narcisista n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma vida. \u00c9 uma sobreviv\u00eancia. Eles s\u00e3o t\u00e3o perversos e fazem jogos mentais para apanhar a v\u00edtima nas suas armadilhas.<\/p>\n<p>Qualquer mulher apaixonada prefere acreditar num narcisista, pensando que ele a ama, em vez de acreditar na sua fam\u00edlia e amigos. Mas e quando as coisas se complicam? Como \u00e9 que se sai desse pesadelo?<\/p>\n<p>Se n\u00e3o tem a certeza de que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a abusar de si, aqui est\u00e3o alguns sinais de alerta a que deve prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Talvez as coisas sejam muito piores do que pensa.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">1. Ele est\u00e1 a ser superior na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Se o seu parceiro pensa que \u00e9 o l\u00edder da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e que as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e ideias n\u00e3o s\u00e3o importantes, pode ter a certeza de que est\u00e1 a lidar com um narcisista.<\/p>\n<p>He wants his word to be final and you don\u2019t get to decide about all those important things in your lives. He thinks that you are worth less and he treats you badly because of that.<\/p>\n<p>If you see even a hint that he is starting to behave like this, leave him without thinking. You don\u2019t deserve a man who will mistreat and belittle you. You are unique and special just the way you are, so never settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/girls-falling-bad-boys-3-jogos-mentais-que-os-narcisistas-nos-pregam\/\">Para todas as raparigas que se apaixonam por rapazes maus: estes s\u00e3o 3 jogos mentais que todos os narcisistas fazem connosco<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">2. Ele ignora-o<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Alguma vez apanhou o seu homem a brincar com o telem\u00f3vel enquanto lhe contava o seu dia horr\u00edvel no trabalho? Se a resposta for sim, pode ter a certeza de que est\u00e1 a lidar com um narcisista.<\/p>\n<p>He simply doesn\u2019t care about your needs and your emotions. He has just lost interest in you and he wants you to find out about that in an ugly way. Whatever you do, don\u2019t accept that what he is doing is normal.<\/p>\n<p>Um verdadeiro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/homem-que-a-mulher-ama-de-verdade\/\">homem que ama verdadeiramente a sua mulher<\/a> nunca a tratar\u00e1 desta forma.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">3. Sente-se in\u00fatil<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/13-signs-youre-toxic-relationship-ruining-life\/966801\" rel=\"noopener\">Se faz parte de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a>, you will know that by your partner\u2019s behavior. Every narcissist will mistreat you and won\u2019t care about your emotions. If you are feeling worthless in a relationship like that, you should leave.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t suffer while being in love, because love is not about that. Love is the purest and the most beautiful thing in the world and you should not be feeling that way. Otherwise, it doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">4. Chora todos os dias<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When living with a narcissist guy, every day will be sad. They will make excuses for the shit they do and you will end up in tears. They simply live to make your life agony and you won\u2019t have any other choice but to cry your heart out.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7097 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher a chorar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/dahiana-candelo-36591-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But please stop and think for a second. Is that a life that is worth living? Do you really want to raise your kids in a toxic relationship like you are experiencing now? I don\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n<p>So, before things get even worse, pack your bags and leave him. Once you are gone, he will miss you but that doesn\u2019t mean that you will accept him back.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">5. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9s a mesma pessoa<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Quando se est\u00e1 sob o controlo de um homem narcisista durante muito tempo, perde-se de facto a si pr\u00f3prio. Esquecemo-nos de como \u00e9 ser alegre e de como rir.<\/p>\n<p>Every day that you spend with him you spend in a constant worry that he will do some harm to you. You don\u2019t want to irritate him by your behavior, so you do things that he likes. And in all that mess, when you look in the mirror, you don\u2019t recognize yourself anymore.<\/p>\n<p>There isn\u2019t that glow in your eyes, your skin is pale and your eyes are big and red because of constant crying.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, this situation is something that you can\u2019t let continue anymore, so if you still care about your dreams and your life, do yourself a favor and kick him out of your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/todas-as-raparigas-ja-perderam-um-homem-narcisista\/\">Para todas as raparigas que j\u00e1 se perderam por causa de um homem narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">6. N\u00e3o est\u00e1 t\u00e3o entusiasmado como antes<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Lembras-te daqueles dias em que estavas em todo o lado? Lembra-se de quando era a pessoa mais barulhenta da sala, rindo t\u00e3o alto que as pessoas l\u00e1 fora podiam ouvi-lo?<\/p>\n<p>Sim, eu sei que te lembras e, infelizmente, j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9s assim. A sua vida com um homem t\u00f3xico transformou-a noutra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>Now, you are a woman who doesn\u2019t take care of herself anymore. The one who doesn\u2019t take a shower or who doesn\u2019t clean or cook. You are everything that you didn\u2019t think you would become one day.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 espero que tenhas aquele momento rel\u00e2mpago na tua cabe\u00e7a em que te apercebes que este tipo de vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 o que mereces.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">7. Tem medo do seu parceiro<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When you are with a narcissist, you can\u2019t function normally at all. You are stressed that he might hurt you physically or emotionally. When he reaches his hands toward you, you don\u2019t know if he is trying to hug you or to hit you.<\/p>\n<p>E acredite em mim, viver com esta quantidade de stress na sua vida \u00e9 tudo menos normal.<\/p>\n<p>So, next time you don\u2019t feel so comfortable with him, talk to him openly and tell him that you are not someone who will put up with his shit.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">8. Sente que ningu\u00e9m ouve a sua voz<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Sente-se t\u00e3o mal na sua pr\u00f3pria pele que passa o dia a chorar e a amaldi\u00e7oar a sua m\u00e1 sorte. Se alguma vez se sentiu assim, pode ter a certeza de que um homem a quem chama seu amado est\u00e1 a fazer-lhe todas estas coisas desagrad\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 respons\u00e1vel por todas as coisas m\u00e1s que est\u00e1 a viver na sua vida. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/understand-other-people\/201506\/feeling-stuck-in-the-relationship\" rel=\"noopener\">Sente-se preso numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> assim, pensando que a confus\u00e3o \u00e9 culpa sua. N\u00e3o, a culpa n\u00e3o \u00e9 tua e nunca ser\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Teve apenas o azar de trope\u00e7ar num idiota que fez da sua vida um inferno. Por isso, se ainda quiseres voltar a ser como eras, n\u00e3o \u00e9 tarde demais. Com uma vontade forte e o cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga, podes conseguir tudo o que queres.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">9. Sente-se louco<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-coisas-que-os-homens-fazem-sentir-como-se-fosses-louca\/\">Um narcisista tentar\u00e1 fazer de si um idiota.<\/a> Ele vai tentar convenc\u00ea-la de algumas coisas que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o o que ele representa. S\u00e3o apenas jogos mentais que ele faz com todas as suas v\u00edtimas para as poder controlar.<\/p>\n<p>Se vir algo deste g\u00e9nero, deve saber que \u00e9 uma grande bandeira vermelha. Deixe-o enquanto pode, porque ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem que vale a pena esperar.<\/p>\n<p>He is just an asshole disguised as your lover but if you don\u2019t play smart he could hurt you badly.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">10. He has a \u2018my way or no way\u2019 attitude<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Todos os narcisistas s\u00e3o iguais. Querem controlar as outras pessoas, convencendo-as a todo o momento de que t\u00eam esse direito.<\/p>\n<p>If your man starts to tell you that some things will be his way or no way, you can tell him that you are currently in the mood of \u2018my way or the highway\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Se ele for metade da esperteza que diz ter, h\u00e1-de perceber que vai acabar por se dar mal.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A life with a narcissist is not a life. It is surviving. They are so wicked and they play mind games to get their victim in their traps. Every woman in love will rather believe a narcissist, thinking that he loves her, instead of believing her family and friends. But what about when things get&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":7096,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7068","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/pexels-photo-247903.jpeg",800,578,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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